Ukuba ungathanda ukhathalelo lwe-feline koloni enye yezinto oza kuyenza yile fumana ukuthembela kwabo. Oku akufezekiswa ngobusuku obunye, kodwa kuthatha ixesha, ke ngoko kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ube nomonde kwaye, ngaphezu kwako konke, ukuvumela izilwanyana ngokwazo zikukhokele.
Ukwenza kube lula kuwe, siza kukunika uthotho lweengcebiso malunga nendlela yokufumana ukuthembakala kweekati zasesitalatweni. Fumanisa ungabenza njani ukuba babamkele ubukho bakho kwiqela labo.
Hlonipha indawo yabo yokhuseleko
Iikati ezilahlekileyo, njengaso nasiphi na esinye isilwanyana kubandakanya abantu, zinendawo yazo ekhuselekileyo eya kuba nkulu ngakumbi kunxibelelwano oluncinci nabantu abanalo. Ngesi sizathu, xa sithatha isigqibo sokukhathalela iqela labasetyhini abahlala kwisitalato Ngamaxesha ambalwa okuqala kuya kufuneka sikuphephe ukusondela kubo, kwaye akufuneki nokuba sijongise amehlo ethu kubo ixesha elide, kungenjalo banokuziva besoyikiswa.
Zondle ngexesha elifanayo yonke imihla
Ngaphandle kokuthetha nantoni na okanye wenze iintshukumo ngequbuliso, xela kule ndawo yonke imihla malunga nexesha elifanayo nomxhasi (okanye ezininzi, ukuba zininzi iikati ezihlala kuloo ndawo) zizele kukutya. Mshiye emhlabeni uhambe iimitha ezimbalwa. Abo banoboya ngokuqinisekileyo batya ngokukhawuleza.
Yenze ngoluhlobo kangangeeveki ezimbini ukuya kwezintathu. Emva kwelo xesha, ungayeka ukufihlwa, kodwa kuya kufuneka ukuba uqhubeke ungabikho kubo okwethutyana.
Sondela kancinci kancinci
Sukungxama ukuze bakuthembe. Kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba kukho iikati ezithile, nokuba zinokukuthemba, azikuvumeli ukuba uzibambe. Ubudlelwane onokuba nabo nabo buya kusekelwa ekondleni nasekucingeni kwabo kuphela xa bevumela ukuba batofelwe.
Kananjalo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukusondela kancinci kancinci kwaye uthathe inyathelo ukubuyela umva xa baziva bengakhuselekanga kunye / okanye bezimisele ukubaleka.
Thetha ulwimi lwekati
Hayi, ayikuko ukuba ube yikati 🙂, kodwa kukuziphatha ngendlela efanayo. Njengoko ufuna ukufumana intembeko yefeline, kufuneka wenze ntoni oku kulandelayo:
- Qhwanyaza kancinci xa uzibona: zimbini, kathathu ekuseni kwaye zimbi kabini kathathu emva kwemini umzekelo. Yile ndlela ubaxelela ngayo ukuba banokuziva bekhuselekile xa bekunye nawe.
- Hamba xa beziva benovalo: okanye ugobe ukuze uloyiko lwabo luphele.
- Baphathe xa bengalindelanga: ngexesha lesidlo umzekelo. Kuya kufuneka bathambe, bacothe kwaye babethe kancinci.
- Thatha intambo ukudlala: mbonise yona, ngakumbi omncinci, ukuze babe nomdla kuyo.
Ngezi ngcebiso, uqinisekile ukuba wamkelwe kwiqela labo.