Iikati zizilwanyana ezinempawu ezikhethekileyo: zihlala zizolile, zinoxolo kwaye zinobuntununtunu. Abaluthandi utshintsho konke konke, kwaye enyanisweni, banexesha elinzima xa kukho utshintsho olukhulu kwinkqubo yabo.
Bafuna ukuziva benolawulo lwemo engqongileyo, kodwa oko akukho lula kubo kwiimeko ezinje ngexesha lengxabano yosapho, okanye ukuba ulixhoba lokuxhatshazwa. Ke, Ungaluthintela njani uxinzelelo kwiikati?
Ngaphambi kokuba unayo, cinga ukuba ungathatha indawo
Yeyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu. Ikati sisilwanyana ifuna uthotho lokuqwalaselwa (hayi nje ukutya namanzi, kodwa kunye nebhedi kunye nendawo apho uya kuziva ukhuselekile kwaye uthandwa). Kwakhona, kumaxesha ngamaxesha kuyakufuneka ukumsa kugqirha wezilwanyana, ke kuyacetyiswa kakhulu ukuba kwenziwe ibhanki yehagu ukuba ikwazi ukuthatha iindleko.
Mnike indawo yakhe
Sonke sinendawo yethu yobuqu: nayo ikati kufuneka ikwazi ukuya ndawo xa ifuna ukuba yodwa. Ngokukodwa ngamaxesha oxinzelelo losapho, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ucace gca ukuba unegumbi onokuphumla kulo.
Zihlonele izigqibo zabo
Rhoqo umntu ohlala nesifazana uhlala ecinga ukuba angazenzela into ayifunayo kwaye xa efuna; Oko kukuthi, unakho, umzekelo, ukumphakamisa kunye nokummpompa nanini na xa efuna, kodwa le yimpazamo. Ukuba akafuni ukuba uyithathe, musa ukumnyanzela; Ukuba uqala ukuba novalo, mshiye yedwa. Isiseko sobuhlobo obuhle siqala ngokuqonda kunye nokuhlonipha enye: thatha ixesha ukuya ukutolika ulwimi lwabo lomzimba.
Mnike amabhaso kwaye udlale naye
Ukonwaba, Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sinikezele iiseshoni zokudlala ezimbini ukuya kwezintathu malunga nemizuzu eyi-10-15 suku ngalunye. Kufuneka simenze azive ngathi uyinxalenye yosapho, ukuba simkhathalele, kwaye sifuna ukuba sonwabe. Ukwenza oku, sinokwenza ibhola elula yealuminium, malunga nobukhulu bebhola yegalufa. Ngokwamava ndingathi uyakonwabela ukumlandela. Ngokunjalo, kufuneka simnike ukuphatha amaxesha ngamaxesha, okanye iinkonkxa zokutya okumanzi.
Ke, sinokuluthintela uxinzelelo kwikati. 🙂