Iikati zizilwanyana, ngokubanzi, ezizimeleyo ezigcina kuphela unxibelelwano kunye neentlobo zazo xa zishushu, okanye xa enye inja izama ukuhlasela indawo yabo. Nangona kunjalo, kule mihla, la mancinci anoboya kuye kwafuneka aqhelane nokuhlala ngaphakathi kweendonga ezine, zihlala kunye neqabane elinemilenze emine, ke ungquzulwano yingxaki ngokuxhaphakileyo ibakhathaza abantu abahlala nezilwanyana ezibini nangaphezulu.
Ukuba ucwangcisa ukwandisa usapho olunoboya, kweli nqaku ndiza kuchaza indlela yokuphepha ukulwa kwekati.
Ukuhlalisana kwekati
Yeyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu. Ikati eye yanxibelelana nezinye iikati, izinja, kunye nabantu kwangoko njengenjana, xa sele emdala kuya kuba lula kakhulu kuye ukwamkela iqabane elitsha. Ke ngoko, ukuba unabahlobo abanezilwanyana zasekhaya, ungathandabuzi ukubamemela ekhayeni lakho, umzekelo, ukubhiyozela imihla yokuzalwa okanye ukonwaba kunye.
Kwakhona, ukuba uneendwendwe ezithandayo, bayeke bayiphathe kwaye bayiphathe ngezandla. Ngale ndlela, uya kubuqhela ubukho babo kwaye, ekuhambeni kwexesha, uya kukhula ethanda ukuba kunye nabantu.
Hlalisana nekati… nge »entsha» ikati
Nokuba unayo ikati enothando kwaye ezolileyo emhlabeni, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uhlale usazi ukuba sihlala nesilwanyana somhlaba, ke ngoko kufuneka waziswe kumqeshi omtsha kancinci kancinci, ukuyibeka egumbini iintsuku ezimbalwa, ngexa apho siza kube sitshintshana ngeebhedi ukuze ziqhelane nevumba lomnye umntu.
Kuphela kuxa kungasekho zirhorho, apho sinokuthi sibavumele ukuba babonane kwaye babe kunye ngelixa sibabukele.
Phatha ikati ngeyona ndlela ibhetele
Ukuthintela umlo phakathi kweekati, kubalulekile Phatha isilwanyana ngentlonipho nothando, Ukuphepha imeko-bume yentsapho exineneyo; ukuba oku bekungakwenziwa, amathuba okuba kubekho ungquzulwano, nangasiphi na isizathu, angangaphezulu kakhulu.
Fumana ikati yakho ingathathi hlangothi
Ukuthintela ubushushu nayo yonke into ebandakanya oku, kucetyiswa kakhulu thena ikati Ngaphambi kokuba abe neyokuqala, kwiinyanga ezi-6-7 ubudala. Ngale ndlela awuzukuthintela inkunkuma engafunekiyo kuphela, kodwa kunye neengxaki ezivela kolu tshintsho lwehomoni olwenzeka emzimbeni walezi zilwanyana zisencinci.
Siyathemba ukuba ezi ngcebiso ziya kukunceda ukuze abahlobo bakho abanoboya bahlale kunye ngaphandle kweengxaki 🙂.