Xa abantu begqiba ekubeni bafuduke, ngaphandle kokuba ngamava oxinzelelo, kulula ukulibala malunga neemfuno zekati. Amantshontsho ekati akathandi kuphazanyiswa noxolo lwawo, kwaye akathandi ukutshintsha imeko-bume okanye isiqhelo, ngenxa yoko ke ukuba ucinga ngokuhamba, cinga ngendlela yokwenza inkqubo ingabi luxinzelelo kwikati.
Ngaphambi kokuhamba, kuyacetyiswa ukuba uqhelane negumbi elithe cwaka endlwini yakho. Ngomhla wokuhamba, eyona ilungileyo yile uyivalele phaya phambi kokuba iqale kwisiphithiphithi kwaye uqiniseke ukuba lonke usapho kunye nabasebenzi abahambayo bayazi ukuba abangeni kwigumbi kude kube ngumzuzu wokugqibela.
Xa indlu yonke ingenanto ngononophelo ubeke ikati kumphathi, Ukuthatha ibhedi, iipleyiti zokutya namanzi, ukubasa kwindlu entsha ngendlela ebangela ukuphazamiseka okuncinci. Xa sele ulapho, kuya kufuneka umshiye kwelinye igumbi elithuleyo kunye nezinto zakhe zokudlala, ibhedi kunye nezinto eziqhelekileyo ezivela kwenye indlu. Jonga ukuba zonke iifestile zivaliwe na, ukuze zingabaleki, kwaye kungavumeli nabani na avule ucango.
Nje ukuba inkqubo yokuhambisa igqityiwe, ungaqala ukuvumela ikati ukuba ithintele ukufikelela kwamanye amagumbi asendlwini. Ukuba umvumela ukuba aphonononge amagumbi ambalwa ngexesha, uya kuphepha ukumdida nokumothusa. Uninzi lweekati luza kuzola kwiintsuku ezimbalwa kwaye luthathe uhambo lokujikeleza indlu.
Kweli nqanaba lokuqala, kubalulekile ukuba awuvunyelwe ukuba uphume phandle, kuba engaqhelananga nendawo entsha, usenokubaleka kwaye angazi ukuba angabuya njani. Kuyacetyiswa ukuba uyishiye ekhaya ubuncinci iiveki ezimbini ngaphambi kokuba uyiyeke iphume ukuze uyiqhele kwaye ibone indlela yokubuyela ekhaya.
Ukuqala kwakho ukuphuma uye phandle kufuneka umkhaphe kuba oku kuyakumqinisekisa. Uya kubona ukuba kungekudala ndiza kuba njani iya kulungelelanisa imeko-bume entsha kwaye uzakwenza abahlobo abatsha kwaye intshukumo iya kuba yimbali.