Xa ucwangcisa ukuphuma kwaye unayo ikati, unokwenza ntoni? Ukuba awazi mntu onokuyinyamekela ngexesha lokungabikho kwakho kwaye awonwabanga kukushiya kwindawo yokuhlala, eyona nto unokuyenza yithathe uhambe nayo. Inokuba ngamava aluncedo kakhulu kuni nobabini, kuba xa nikunye anizukuphosa omnye nomnye kwaye niya kwazi ngamaxesha onke ukuba omnye uphi.
Ngoku, ukwenza imemori elungileyo, qaphela ezi ngcebiso ziya kukunceda wazi indlela yokuhamba nekati ngokulula.
Ukuba eli lixesha lokuqala uhamba nekati yakho, mhambise kuhambo olufutshane ngemoto okwethutyana ngaphambili. Ngale ndlela, xa ufika umhla omkhulu uya kube sele uyiqhelile, kwaye awuyi kuziva ulahlekile. Ukongeza, iya kukunceda uyazi indlela osabela ngayo kunye nendlela oqhubeka ngayo njengoko kunokuba kunjalo.
Umzekelo, ukuba umbona enovalo ukumthoba umsindo, kuya kufuneka uchithe into ephethe ingubo yakhe kunye nengubo yakhe ngezinto ezimthomalisayo, ezinje ngeoyile e-orenji efunekayo okanye imizuzu engama-30 ngaphambi kokuba uhambe; Kwelinye icala, ukuba ihlala izolile kuya kufuneka wenze into ibenye kuphela: uyonwabele uhambo, nangona uzokuthula kakhulu, yongeza ama-4-5 amathontsi eBach Rescue Remedy emanzini abo okanye ekutyeni. Ke ndiyakuqinisekisa ukuba uboya bakho abuyi kuba nexesha elibi kuhambo, ngokuchaseneyo 😉.
Xa usuku lufikile, tshiza ophetheyo kunye neemveliso ezichaziweyo malunga nemizuzu engama-30 ngaphambili, faka ngaphakathi kwengubo okanye ibhedi, into yokudlala kunye naleyo inoboya. Ukuba unovalo kakhulu okanye akaphumli, kufanelekile ukuba umnike ipilisi yokuba nesiyezi ayokucebisa ugqirha wezilwanyana. Thatha nebhokisi yakhe yenkunkuma, kunye nokutya kunye namanzi, kuba yonke i-3-4h kufuneka umvumele ayisebenzise. Ukukhuseleka kakhulu, Nxiba imixokelelwane yekati uze ubambe imitya ngaphambi kokuba uhambe. Oku kuyakuvumela ukuba uzulazule kancinci emotweni, okulungeleyo ukuphumla.
Kwaye ekugqibeleni…
Akunyanzelekanga ukuba silibale ngayo phatha isikrweqe ukuze ikati ikwazi ukuzilola iinzipho zayo xa ikwihotele okanye kwikhaya layo elitsha. Sisoloko silibale ukuthatha enye siye nayo, kwaye oku kunokuba yingxaki njengoko kunokonakalisa amakhethini.
Okokugqibela, kubalulekile ukuba uyazi ukuba iikati ezihleliyo azinakho ukuhamba. Ukuze uzolile, ukubhenela ngcono kunyango lwendalo njengoncedo lohlangulo oluza kukugcina ukhuselekile kwaye uzolile.
Yibanohambo olumnandi!