Kude kube kutshanje kwaye nanamhlanje kukho abantu abaqhubeka nokuphatha iikati ngokungathi zizinja, xa inyani ikukuba banendlela yokuziphatha eyahlukileyo: ngelixa izinja zihlala zifuna ukusikholisa, iikati zenza kuphela izinto ezizifunayo naxa zifuna.
Ke ukuba uyafuna ukwazi indlela yokubopha kunye nekatiNdiza kunichazela ezinye izinto ukuze ukuhlangana kube luncedo kuni nobabini.
Thatha ixesha lokwazi ulwimi lwabo lomzimba
Ikati sisilwanyana, nangona singakwazi ukuthetha, sidlulisa imiyalezo kuthi rhoqo ngaso ulwimi lomzimba. Kubalulekile ukuba, njengomongi wakho, thatha ixesha lokuba umazi, ukwazi ukuba izama ukukuxelela ntoni maxa onke ngokujonga indawo emsila kuyo, amehlo ayo, nokumamela i izandi ezinokuthi zikhuphe ngelo xesha.
Mphathe ngentlonelo nothando
Ziziseko. Ukuba ayiphathwa ngembeko kunye nothando, ngekhe ikonwabise ikati. Ke ngoko, kuya kufuneka uthathe ixesha lokuba kunye naye, kodwa hayi kwigumbi elinye kunye nawe kwikona enye kunye nekati kwenye, kodwa bobabini basondelelene, bayasebenzisana. Kwiivenkile zezilwanyana uyakufumana uninzi izinto zokudlala feline apho unokufumana ixesha elimnandi. Thatha ithuba lasemva kwemini kwaye ukhethe ezona uzithandayo, kwaye ukonwabele ukuhlangana nomhlobo wakho onoboya.
Musa ukumnyanzela ukuba enze nantoni na angayifuniyo
Ngendlela efanayo ekufuneka usete imida ethile ukunqanda ukuzenzakalisa okanye ukuphelela kwiklinikhi yezilwanyana, uya kubeka imida yakhe ukuba ungaweli. Umzekelo: ukuba uyamphulula kwaye ngequbuliso uyemka, musa ukumbamba ukuba uqhubeke umphulula, kuba ngokuhamba nje uyakuxelela ukuba akasafuni ukuba umphathe.
Mnyamekele
Kungabonakala kusengqiqweni, kodwa ukukhathalela ikati ayisiyokumnika ukutya nokusela kuphela, kodwa kukumnceda woyise uloyiko, ukumvumela ukuba kunye nosapho kunye notyelelo, ... ngokufutshane, ukumbona kwaye umphathe njengelungu losapho.
Kungoko kuphela apho, ndicinga ukuba, sisilwanyana esonwabileyo.