Izilwanyana ezinoboya ngamanye amaxesha zinendlela yokuziphatha esingazithandiyo nangona zisenokubonakala ngathi ziyahlekisa, kuba emva kwazo zonke zisengobubi obuqhelekileyo bentsimbi. Ewe kunjalo, kuya kufuneka ugcine engqondweni ukuba abaphoswa lithuba lokufumana ukutya. Nangona kunjalo, ngokuqinisekileyo ungathanda ukwazi ikhusela njani ikati yam ukuba ingafiki etafileni ukwazi ukutya ngoxolo.
Ndiyakuthembeka kuwe: Kulula kakhulu ukuthintela kunokulungisa eso simo sengqondo. Kodwa Akunakwenzeka: ngomonde nangokunyamezela unokufumana ipussycat ukuba itye kwindawo yakho.
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Masiqale sibone indlela yokuthintela ukuba kungenzeki. Kuyimfuneko ukuba onke amalungu osapho asebenzisane, kuba kuya kwanela ngempazamo ukuba ikati izive imfuneko yokufumana la maqhekeza amnandi okutya. Ukwazi oku, kuphephe ukushiya ukutya kwiitafile nakwifenitshalaKuba ukuba awuqapheli naliphi na ivumba elinokukutsala, awunyanzelekanga ukuba wenze uphando lwakho.
Ngexesha lesidlo sasemini, kubalulekile ukuba ungangeni ekuhendweni kokujongeka okumnandi ocela iqatha lenyama kuthi.
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Nje ukuba ikati sele ifundile ukuba ifika etafileni iyakufumana unyango (ukutya), ukutshintsha le ndlela yokuziphatha kuya kuthatha ixesha, ngakumbi ukuba ngumntu omkhulu. Kodwa njengoko besitshilo ekuqaleni: yonke into ngumba womonde kunye nokunyamezela. Ngalo lonke ixesha sibona ukuba uzimisele ukukhwela, sithi HAYI ukusayina kodwa ngaphandle kokukhwaza, kwaye ukuba akakhweli simnika ibhaso.
Kufuneka sikuphephe nokushiya ukutya kumphezulu ekulula ukufikelela kuwo uboya bethu, kungenjalo ukwenza umthambo akusayi kusinika ziphumo zihle.
Abo banoboya bethu bafuna ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kangangoko kunokwenzeka kuthi kodwa, njengoko besinokwenza nangaye nawuphi na umntu ophilayo, Kuya kufuneka ubeke imida ethile rhoqo kwintlonipho nothando.