Uyenza njani ikati isetyenziselwe ukusela okuzenzekelayo? Inyani yile yokuba le yenye yezona zinto zithengiweyo zinokuthengwa, kuba umntu owabelana naye ekhaya kunye nobomi, ekubeni evela entlango, akathandi ukusela amanzi amileyo, into ethi ukuba awubeki iyeza iya kukunika iingxaki zempilo ezininzi.
Ngesi sizathu, imithombo yekati okanye iziselo ezizenzekelayo zilungile, njengoko ziya kuvuselela umnqweno wokusela, kwaye ke, uya kuhlala unamanzi amaninzi kwaye usempilweni. Kodwa ke, ngenxa yoko kufuneka uyiqhele kuqala. Emva koko ndiza kuchaza indlela eyenze ngayo uboya bam.
Inyathelo 1-Beka umbonisi ozenzekelayo kwigumbi elithe cwaka
Ikati yam keisha
Amakati akayithandi ingxolo, ke Ukuba sifuna ukuba baqhele, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuyibeka kwigumbi elinabantu abaninzi kangangoko. Kwimeko yam, ndinayo kwigumbi lokulala, ekoneni.
Ukusukela ngomhla wokuqala ndiyifakile, kodwa ukuba owakho uyathandabuza okanye uyabona ukuba ayithembi, njengoko kwenzekile kwikati yam Sasha umzekelo, yiya maxesha otshintshayo apho ungene khona kunye nabanye ongenawo.
Inyathelo 2 - Zama ukuba ungenzi iintshukumo ngequbuliso
Iikati zam uSasha (ngasekhohlo) noKeisha
... Zama ukuba, ukuba unayo, ikati yakho evukelayo ayothusi abanye 🙂. Nawaphi na amava amabi angonakalisa naliphi na inyathelo elincinci elithathiweyo ngoboya bakho. Kuya kufuneka uthethe naye kwilizwi elonwabisayo kakhulu, ngokungathi uthetha nomntwana omncinci. Menze afune ukwazi malunga nomseli, ngokuchukumisa into umzekelo, okanye ukutsala isilwanyana kuye ngonyango aluthandayo.
Inyathelo 3-Yonwabela ukumbukela esela
Iikati zam Bug (ngasekhohlo), uBenji, kunye noKeisha ngezantsi 🙂
Ixesha elidlulele (iiyure, iintsuku ezimbalwa mhlawumbi) Uyabona ukuba ikati yakho kancinci kancinci iqala ukusela kumthombo wakhe wokusela, kwaye iyeke ukuyenza itephu kunye nakwezinye iindawo ezingafunekiyo (Ikati yam uBenji ize kusela amanzi, kucacile ukuba icocekile, yangasese ... kwaye kuba sinomthombo khange ayenze kwakhona). Okwangoku, gcina umthombo wakhe omdala wokusela ubuncinci inyanga, kwimeko efanelekileyo
Okwangoku awunayo umthombo wekati? Cofa kwikhonkco ukuze ufumane ukuba ungayikhetha njani eyona ilungileyo.