Baninzi abantu abacinga ukuba iikati zizilwanyana ezizodwa, kwaye abahlali. Kodwa inyani yahlukile kancinane kwezi nkolelo. Kuyinyani ukuba banokuba zizilwanyana ezizimeleyo kodwa, ukuba sijonga ngononophelo ikholoni yeekati umzekelo, siza kubona indlela abanxibelelana ngayo, nendlela ababonisa ngayo ubudlelwane babo namanye amaqabane.
Kwaye oko basezilwanyana ezingaqondakaliyoNgaba awucingi
Unxibelelwano lokuqala lwasentlalweni lusekwe nomama wakhe, elijongene nokumnika uthando nokumkhusela, njengabo bonke oomama abaye bathwala abantwana babo esibelekweni iinyanga ezimbalwa, ukubanika ubisi oluxabisekileyo oluya kubanceda bakhule bomelele kwaye basempilweni. Njengoko ixesha lihamba, ikati iya isiba nokuzimela ngakumbi: ide itye, idlale, ngamafutshane, ikhokelela kubomi obuqhelekileyo ngaphandle kokuba umama ayinike umlenze. Nangona sisazi ukuba amantshontsho azelwe ekhaya kwaye anokuhlala nomama ubomi babo bonke, aya kuhlala egcina olo lwalamano lusondeleyo.
Njengathi nabantu. Ayimangalisi into yokuba iikati ezikoloni zigcina ulwalamano "noontanga" nabazigcinayo. Basenokungasondeli kubo, kodwa ngenxa yokubonelela ngokutya nokhuseleko, banentlonelo enkulu kubo kwaye abathandabuzi ukubabiza ukuba bakubona kufanelekile.
Ikati elahlulwe kunina esemncinci, phakathi kweenyanga ezimbini ukuya kwezintathu, Banokuba semngciphekweni wokuba abantu bazame "ukubenza babe ngabantu". Kuya kufuneka uyazi indlela yokwahlula phakathi kwezinto ezininzi. Banemizwa kwaye bayayibonisa yonke imihla, banesakhono sokufunda, kodwa abangobantu. Amakati awaze enze into ecwangcisiweyo, awacingi kangangeentsuku ukuba azokuya nini kwaye nini, umzekelo, alwe nenye ikati. Bahlala kulo mzuzu, kwaye ngumahluko ophambili phakathi kwabo nathi xa kufikwa kumba wokuziphatha.
Kwaye ngokusekwe koku kufuneka sisebenze ngokufanelekileyo, kwaye singamsoli ngento angenayo. Abenzi ngenjongo yokusenzakalisa.