Ngubani ongazange ave kusithiwa ngaphezulu kwesihlandlo esinye ukuba iikati nezinja azivani? Oku, nangona kunokuba yinyani kwiimeko ezininzi, akusoloko kunjalo. Ukuba sihlala nabo ngokuchanekileyo kwaye siqinisekisa ukuba ikati nenja ziyahloniphana, ubuhlobo obuza kuvela phakathi kwabo buya kuba bumnandi.
Ke ukuba ukhe wacinga ngokwamkela inja ngekati, okanye ngokuchaseneyo, kwaye awazi ukuba ungavana njani, landela oku iingcebiso zokuphucula ukuhlala phakathi kwezinja kunye neekati.
Hlalisana injana
Ukuba unayo ikati okanye injana, into yokuqala endikucebisa ukuba uyenze yile umdibanise nezinye izilwanyana. Kulula kakhulu kwiinjana ukudibana nayo nayiphi na inoboya, ukuba nje ziyazazisa kancinci kancinci, zigcina enye kwigumbi iintsuku ezimbalwa kwaye zitshintshana ngeebhedi kude kube ngumhla wesihlanu zinikezelwa ngokusemthethweni; kwelinye icala, kubiza abantu abadala kakhulu.
Yamkela uboya obunomlinganiswa ofanayo
Ukuze bobabini bahlalisane, kubalulekile ukuba bobabini babe ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi umlinganiswa ofanayo. Ukuba uzisa ekhaya uboya obusebenzayo kwaye sele unayo enye ethe cwaka, kunokwenzeka ukuba abayi kuhlangana kakuhle. Ngokuchasene noko, ukuba bobabini bazolile okanye bobabini abanasiphene, baya kuhlala ngokumangalisayo.
Inja inkulu okanye incinci?
Kuxhomekeka kwizinto ezininzi: ubungakanani bendlu, umlinganiswa onayo, injani ikati, kwaye nawe ngokwakho. Ukuba inja ibikhe yanxibelelana neekati ngaphambili kwaye ayinangxaki, ubungakanani bayo abuyi kufana. Ngoku, ukuba ikati yakho ayikaze iyibone inja ngaphambili, kuyacetyiswa ukuba uyamkele encinci, kwimeko apho.
Zibekele imida
Inja kunye nekati. Awunakho ukubavumela ukuba balume okanye bakrwembe, nokuba yeyiphi na ifanitshala, okanye abantu, okanye bona ngokwabo ukuba oko kwenzelwe ukonakalisa (Uya kwazi ukuba kukho iingxaki xa iinwele ezisemqolo kunye nemisila imi ecaleni, bajongane, bayagquma kwaye ikati iyangxola) Nangona kuya kufuneka ugcine engqondweni ukuba akufuneki ungene kwizinto ezininzi kulwalamano lwabo. Bakhusele, ewe, kodwa banyanzele ukuba babekho xa ngalo mzuzu bekhetha ukwahlukana, hayi.
Bavuze
Amabhaso awanakuphoswa. Nikani nobabini ukutotosa ke bayayazi indlela obathanda ngayo. Bothuse amaxesha ngamaxesha ngokutya okhethekileyo (iinkonkxa okanye ukutya okwenziwe ekhaya), okanye ubathathe kwangoko ufika kwaye ubange kakhulu.
Iikati zingadibana nezinja, ukuba sizinika isandla 🙂.