Ukuba ufumana ikati (okanye uninzi) esele ishiywe nje, ngokuqinisekileyo unamathandabuzo amaninzi malunga nendlela yokuzikhulisa, akunjalo? Ngokwesiqhelo, bayalahlwa kwakamsinya nje emva kokuba bezelwe, kwaye kuloo minyaka babuthathaka kakhulu, kwaye Kuya kufuneka ubazi kakhulu ukuze bakwazi ukuya phambili.
Ukukunceda, ndiza kukunika ezimbalwa iingcebiso zokukhulisa iikati.
Ikati, lide libe neenyanga ezimbini ubuncinci, lixhomekeke kakhulu kunina. Akaphethe yena kuphela ekumkhathaleleni nasekumtyiseni, kodwa nasekufundiseni ikati ukuba kufuneka iziphathe njani. Kodwa ke, ngamanye amaxesha umntu akahloniphi ngeli xesha, kwaye nangasiphi na isizathu wahlula abancinci kunina xa bengaphantsi "kweebhola" zeenwele. Ukuba aba bancinci banethamsanqa lokufumana umntu oza kubanyamekela, kulungile. Kodwa ke, Banyanyekelwa njani?
Ukukhulisa iikati ezincinci ngumsebenzi oya kusigcina sixakekile ixesha elininzi losuku, njengoko siza kubona ngezantsi. Ke, kufuneka ube nomonde kakhulu, kwaye uhlala uhlonipha kakhulu izilwanyana ukuba siphethe. Ukuba sibona ukuba asizokwazi, eyona nto sinokuyenza kukukhangela umntu (umzekelo wokhuselo lwezilwanyana, umzekelo), onako.
Ngoku, makhe sijonge ukuba unakekela njani aba bancinci:
- Ukutya: Ngexesha lokuqala kwinyanga yobudala, kufuneka banikwe ubisi olwenzelwe ngokukodwa amantshontsho, okokuqala ngesirinji engenaliti, kwaye xa beqala ukuvula amehlo kunye neendlebe zabo, ngebhotile, ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi kwe-3-4 iiyure.
- Iimfuno: Emva kwesidlo ngasinye, kwaye ukuba zintsana kakhulu, kubalulekile ukuzidlulisa ngegawuli efakwe emanzini afudumeleyo ukuze zikwazi ukwenza iimfuno zazo zomzimba. Kwimeko apho zikhulu khona, kufuneka zisiwe kwitreyi yangasese ukuze zifunde indlela yokuhamba kwamathumbu apho.
- Bakhusele engqeleni: Kubalulekile ukuba uphephe ukubanda, ke kufuneka usonge ngengubo kwaye uqiniseke ukuba bakhuselekile kuyilo olubandayo.
Ke iikati zakho ziya kukhula ngaphandle kwengxaki 🙂.
Molo kusasa ekuseni, ndiyakuxelela iiveki ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo sithathe amantshontsho ekati amabini amahle abanjisiwe, sele sikunye nawo iiveki ezimbalwa sizondla ngebhotile, sele ndisiya kugqirha wezilwanyana wandixelela ukuba babemalunga neeveki ezintathu ubudala. Bebegcwele ziintakumba kwaye sele sikwazile ukuzisusa uninzi lwazo.Namhlanje bakwigumbi lokuhlambela ukuze bagqibezele umsebenzi, kulungile ndonakele, ndifunda ukubaluleka kwemfundo ngokuziphatha kakuhle kweekati, Ungacebisa incwadi nceda?, kuba onke amathandabuzo asonjululwe ngokufunda iphepha, enkosi kakhulu kwangaphambili
Molo Pedro.
Kuqala kwinto zonke, ukuvuyisana nezo kittens zimbini. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya konwaba kakhulu.
Malunga nombuzo wakho, inyani kukuba andikaze ndifunde nayiphi na incwadi malunga nokuziphatha kweekati. Ndihlala ndikhokelwa ziikati zam kunye nabantu abaziingcali, njengoLaura Trillo. Okwangoku, ndiyacinga esi sixhobo inokukunceda.
A ubingelele.
Molweni, molweni ekuseni, izolo ndifumene amantshontsho ekati amathathu amahle esandula kuzalwa, ndawachola emva koko ndaya nawo ekhaya.Ndibanike ukutya ngobisi ndibancedise, bayachama kodwa abenzi mngxunya ungako, kodwa Ndiyabanceda.
!!!! Enkosi ngephepha lakho liyandinceda kakhulu !!!!
Enkosi kuwe Langa, ngoncedo olunika abo bancinci 🙂
Molo, ndihlangule ikati elimalunga nenyanga ubudala, kubanda, inokuthimla. Ndingenza ntoni ukuze ndiyibuyisele?
Molo Jacqueline.
Kuya kufuneka umse kugqirha wezilwanyana ngokukhawuleza.
Ukuba mncinci kakhulu, kunokuba kubi ngokukhawuleza.
A ubingelele.