Ngaba ulwandisile usapho lwakho kunye nelungu elinoboya? Ukuba kunjalo, Ndiyakuvuyela. Ngokuqinisekileyo ngoku uya kuhlaselwa ngamathandabuzo amaninzi malunga nokukhathalela kwabo nabanye, akunjalo? Kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Kwibhlog uyakufumana ulwazi oluninzi ngendlela onokuthi ubanyamekele ngayo aba bancinci. Kule nqaku siza kugxila kuyo singenza ntoni ukuze ikati liyiqhele ikhaya lalo elitsha.
Ke, inkqubo yokuhlengahlengiswa iya kuba lula kakhulu eyethu sobabini: zombini ifeline kunye neyakho.
Nokuba yikati okanye ikati endala, iintsuku zokuqala zihlala zinzima. Kude kube kutshanje wayekunye nomama wakhe kunye nabantakwabo, okanye kwindawo ebiyelweyo kwindawo yokuhlala. Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba ezi zilwanyana azizithandi kakhulu iinguqu, ukuya kwinqanaba lokuba zinokuziva zimbi emzimbeni ngokungazi ukuba zingajongana njani nazo. Kodwa sinako (kwaye kufanele) ukunceda umhlobo wethu omtsha.
Ukwenza oku, ukongeza ekuqinisekiseni ukuba banokutya, amanzi kunye nezinto zokudlala, kufuneka siqale kusuku lokuqala kuye chitha ixesha: sizakudlala naye, siya kumnika uthando, ... kwaye singathatha ithuba lokumfundisa ukuba yintoni na angenako ukuyenza, kodwa ngaphandle kokumngxolisa okanye umbethe. Umzekelo, ukuba asifuni ukuba akhwele etafileni okanye ebhedini, asiyi kumnika mvume yokwenza njalo kwaye, kwimeko yokuba simfumene, siza kumthoba ngobunono kwaye siya kuthi hayi . Ukuba kamva uyabona ukuba uzimisele ukukhwela, mbonise isandla esivulekileyo, ngokungathi wenza umqondiso we-STOP kwiteksi, uthi HAYI. Ngexesha uza kufunda ukuba awukwazi ukuqhubeka.
Ikati esandula ukufika inokuba neentloni okanye ingazithembi ekuqaleni. Kodwa ukuba simnika indawo apho anokuzola kwaye, ngaphezulu kwako konke kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, simenzela indawo efanelekileyoAkuzukuthatha thuba lide ukuba uzive uyinxalenye yosapho. 😉