Ngamanye amaxesha udibana nekati ethi, nangona ihlala esitalatweni, ibe nobuntu obuhlala kakhulu nabantu, izolile kwaye inothando. Le ndoda inoboya mhlawumbi ishiywe lusapho lwayo lwabantu, kwaye ijonge phambili ekubeni yinxalenye yayo kwakhona.
Ukuba sithatha isigqibo sokuyamkela, kuya kufuneka sithathele ingqalelo izinto zangaphambili ukuze kungabikho zimanga kamva. Ngale ndlela, siya kuqala ubudlelwane obuya kuba buhle kakhulu kwasekuqaleni. Njani? Ne iingcebiso malunga nokwamkela ikati elahlekileyo ukuba ndiza kukunika 🙂.
Funda ukwahlula iikati zasendle kwezilahliweyo
Nangona zininzi iikati esitratweni, kufuneka sahlule feral kwabo bashiyiweyo. Abokuqala abakaze banxibelelane nabantu (ngaphandle kokuba, mhlawumbi, kunye nevolontiya elithatha ukuba limtyise) kwaye, ke, uya kukrokra kakhulu ngalo lonke ixesha sifuna ukusondela kwinqanaba lokuba abaleke.
Kodwa ikati elahliweyo yahlukile. Anokoyika abantu, kodwa ayizukuthatha lukhulu ukusondela ukuba sinyanzelisa kancinci kancinci kwaye siyambonisa ukutya. Kwakhona, kulula ukuyifumana esondela kuwe ujonge, hayi ukutya, kodwa ingqalelo encinci nothando.
Yiba nomonde kwikati elahlekileyo
Ukuba ekugqibeleni sithathe isigqibo sokufumana ikati elahlekileyo, kufuneka sibe nomonde kakhulu kwaye siqale ubudlelwane bobuhlobo kwisitalato esinye. Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa kufuneka sisondele kuye, simzisele ukutya okumanzi, kwaye sinokuchitha ixesha sidlala naye. Kutheni usenza ngale ndlela? Kungenxa yokuba ngale ndlela kuya kuba lula kakhulu kuthi ukuba simtshintshele ekhaya kamva, kuba ngelo xesha uya kuba sele ezithembile kuthi. Kwimeko apho ukwindawo eyingozi, siza kukusa kwangoko kwikhaya lakho elitsha.
Nje ukuba asondele kuthi ecela ukutotelwa, iya kuba lixesha lokuba simthabathe ahambe nathi. Ikhaya apho Kuya kufuneka ukuba siyithengile ibhedi yakhe, ibhokisi yenkunkuma, ukutya namanzi ke unokuhlangabezana neemfuno zakho. Ukuze ingabi luxinzelelo kuwe, kungcono siyigcine kwigumbi iintsuku ezimbalwa, emva koko umvulele umnyango ukuba aphande.
Ukuba sifuna ukuqiniseka ukuba yonke into izakuhamba kakuhle, okanye ngaphezulu okanye kancinci, kuyacetyiswa kakhulu ukuba ufake iplagi ezahlukeneyo Kude kude yiNdlu. Ngale ndlela awuyi kuziva umangalisiwe.
Ikati eshiyiweyo inokubuyela ekuhlaleni nabantu, ukuba nje inyamezele kwaye ikhathalelwe ngentlonipho.