Nangona abantu abaninzi bekujonga oko iikati akufuneki zihlambe Kuba bona ngokwabo bayayikhathalela impilo yabo yemihla ngemihla, kubalulekile ukuba sikhumbule ukuba nangona behlamba ngolwimi lwabo yonke imihla, ngalo lonke ixesha, kufuneka sibancede kwaye sibahlambe ngamaxesha athile. Ukuzilungisa kuya kubaluleka ukuze isikhumba kunye noboya zigcinwe zingenasiphene kwaye siphephe ukugula okanye ivumba elibi.
Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuqiniseka ukhathalelo ngexesha lokuhlamba, Kuba iikati zinezikhumba eziethe-ethe, kunye nengubo efanele ukunyanyekelwa, ke ukuze zihlale zihlala zisempilweni kwaye zintle, kufuneka sithathele ingqalelo iingcebiso ezithile xa sinika isilwanyana sakho ibhafu yokuqala.
Nje ukuba ikati yakho ifikelele kwiinyanga ezintathu ubudala, kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba bakulungele ukufumana ibhafu yokuqala. Kubalulekile ukuba ngexesha lokuzilungisa kunye nokucoca, uzame ukuyenza ngononophelo olukhulu, uzama ukukhetha iimveliso ezilungileyo, ukhetha ezo zicetyiswe ngugqirha wezilwanyana ukunqanda iingxaki zolusu okanye komzimba.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba, njengokuba kunjalo nakuwe ukudibana okokuqala ngamanzi, Sukwenza ngokukhawuleza okukhulu njengoko kunokoyikisa. Zama ukuyenza kancinci kancinci, uvumele isilwanyana ukuba sihlengahlengise emanzini, oko kuya kuyinceda izive izithembile kwaye ikhuselekile. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba iikati kufuneka zihlanjwe rhoqo emva kweenyanga ezi-2, kodwa kukho ukucoca, njengaleyo yeendlebe ekufuneka sizenzile okungenani iiveki ezimbini ubuncinci.
Ukugqwesa, iphepha lithetha ngazo zonke iziseko ekufuneka ukhathalele kuzo isilwanyana sakho
Siyavuya uyayithanda, Juana.