Ukwamkela isilwanyana lolona khetho lukhuthazwayo ngalo lonke ixesha sifuna ukwandisa usapho, kuba asincedisi nje kuphela inja encinci esiza kuyigodusa kodwa sizokwenzela omnye umntu ophilayo- okanye mandithi, siphila kakubi isitalato. Kodwa ukuyenza ibe ngamava amnandi kumaqela omabini, ndiza kukunika iingcebiso malunga nokwamkela ikatana.
Ngoba? Kuba kuhlala kusenzeka ukuba esi silwanyana sincinci samkelwe kwaye emva koko, sakuba sigqibile ukukhula, sibuyela kwakhona kwindawo yokuhlala okanye esitratweni. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sihlale sikhumbula ukuba, ukusuka kumzuzu wokuqala sisayina ikhontrakthi yokwamkelwa komntwana, sifumana ukuzibophelela kwikati engafanele yaphulwe, ngesizathu esilula sokuba ikati yoboya ineemvakalelo.
Cinga ukuba ungamkhathalela na
Amakati anokuphila iminyaka engama-20. Akunakwenzeka ukuba sazi ukuba siza kuba phi kwaye njani kwiminyaka engamashumi amabini, kodwa ... ukuba bekufuneka sikhathazeke malunga nokuba akukho nto siyaziyo iya kufana. Xa ilungu elitsha lomntu liza kusapho, abazali benza konke abanako kunye nokunye ukumgcina enakekelwa kakuhle. Ngokufika kwekatana kufuneka wenze okufanayo.
Ukuba uyawathanda amakati, ukuba ungamkhathalela omncinci, ukuba ungamsa kugqirha wezilwanyana ngalo lonke ixesha eyidinga, emva koko unokucinga ngokuthatha ikatana.
Lungisa indlu phambi kokufika kwakho
Amantshontsho ekati aqaqambe kakhulu. Kuyinyani ukuba bachitha iiyure- malunga ne-18-belele, kodwa ngexesha lokuphumla bayabaleka, badlale, benze ububi ... Banamandla amaninzi, kwaye baya kuwatshisa loo mandla benza nantoni na. Ke, xa usiya kwamkela uboya bakho kuya kufuneka uyilungiselele indlu ngaphambili, kunye nabakroli, iithoyi, kwaye nayo yonke into ayifunayo: ibhedi, iseli, isondli kunye netreyi yococeko.
Yigcine ngaphambi kokuthatha isigqibo ngayo
Ngaphambi kokuthatha isigqibo ngokukhethekileyo, ndincoma ukuba uchithe ixesha kunye nazo zonke iikati. Ke uyayibona indlela abaziphethe ngayo, banobuntu obunjani, bacinga ntoni ngabantu... Ngale ndlela, kuya kuba lula kakhulu kuwe ukugoduka nekatana oyithandayo ... okanye eyona uyithandayo, enokuthi yenzeke 🙂.
Nje ukuba usekhaya, kuya kufuneka wenze into ibe nye, kulungile, ezimbini: umnyamekele kwaye wonwabe xa uhlala naye.