Baninzi abantu abahlala eflethini okanye eflethini kwaye bafuna ukuhlala nekati. Ngethamsanqa kubo, oku kunokwenzeka, kodwa… (kusoloko kukho kodwa) kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba lonke unonophelo oluyimfuneko lubonelelwe.
Ke, ukuba ucinga ukwamkela enye enoboya, Qaphela ingcebiso yeekati ezindlini sicebisa ngezantsi.
Iingcebiso zekati yokonwaba kwigumbi okanye kwiflethi
Yenza indawo yokuhlala yakho ibe yikati
Ewe Ndiyazi. Ligama lakho elivela emaphepheni endlu, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukwenza ukuba ikati izive ikhululekile ekhaya. Yayo, Sincoma ukuthenga into enye okanye ezingaphezulu, ukubeka iishelfu ezisongelwe umzekelo ngentambo yeraffia kwiindawo eziphakamileyo ezahlukeneyo, kwaye yintoni eza kubaluleka ngakumbi: ukugcina igumbi lakhe apho anokuya khona kuxinzelelo loxinzelelo.
Kananjalo, ukhuseleko lwakho, Kuya kufuneka ubeke iminatha yokuloba (kwintengiso apha) kwiifestile nakwibhalkoni ukuba unayo. Abantu bahlala besenza impazamo yokucinga ukuba ikati ikrelekrele kakhulu kwaye ayisoze iphinde iwele. Ewe balumkile kakhulu, kodwa xa bebona ixhoba elinokubakho bagxila kulo kuphela, kwaye akuqhelekanga ukuba bafumane iingozi. Kule nqaku unolwazi ngakumbi ngayo:
Gcina ukonwabisa xa ungekho
Ukuba usebenza ngaphandle Kuyacetyiswa ukuba uthenge i-Kong yohlobo lweethoyi zeekati (kwintengiso apha) anokuhlala ngayo naye xa ungekho. Kuya kufuneka ucinge ukuba isilwanyana esikruqulayo siya kuba sesinefusi kungekudala okanye kamva sinokuba nokuziphatha ongathandiyo; kwimeko yeekati, banokukrwempa kunye / okanye ukuluma ngenxa yokudakumba kunye nokudikwa, kungoko kuhlala kungcono ukunqanda ukungena kuloo meko.
Kwimeko apho ibiyinkwenkwana kunye / okanye ikati elixhalabisayo, kwaye okoko ubufuna kwaye unakho, Kuya kuba lunomdla ukuqaphela ukhetho lokwamkela olunye uboya ukubenza bazive bekhululekile. Kodwa, ndinyanzelisa, kuphela ukuba ikati esele ihleli nawe isencinci, inovalo ngokwendalo okanye iyathanda ukudlala. Iintlobo zabantu abadala (ngaphezulu kweminyaka emi-3 ubudala), okanye nangaphezulu, zihlala zineengxaki ezininzi zokwamkela elinye iqabane, ngakumbi ukuba ngomnye wabo bathanda ukuba kuphela kweziko lokuqwalaselwa kwabantu babo, ngokuchaseneyo, ukuphatha ubomi obunesithukuthezi ngaphakathi ekhaya.
Mnike umyalezo ngamaxesha athile
Ikati inoboya obunyamezelayo uxinzelelo. Umzekelo, ukuba ubunosuku olungqongqo, ukuba kuye kwafuneka umse kugqirha wezilwanyana, mnike umyalezo wokumthomalalisa. Ungayenza ngeengcebiso zesalathiso kunye neminwe esembindini esenza intshukumo ejikelezayo Ukunyanzela uxinzelelo oluncinci kuye.
Nangona, ewe, enye indlela yokumenza aphumle / aphumle kukulala phantsi esofeni okanye ebhedini ithutyana, kwaye myeke azenzele ecaleni kwakho ngelixa umphulula.
Dlala naye
Ukuhlala eflethini kuya kufuna ukuba usapho lwakho luchithe ixesha elininzi kunye nalo, lidlale ngalo, kwaye ligcine lilungile. Kunjalo ngoba Kuya kufuneka unikezele okungenani iiseshoni ezintathu zomdlalo malunga nemizuzu elishumi inye ukukugcina usempilweni kangangoko.
Ukuba mncinci kwaye / okanye uyadlala, unokufuna ukuya kuthi ga kwiyure okanye nangaphezulu komdlalo ngosuku. Umzekelo, uBicho, enye yeekati zam, uneminyaka emi-3 ubudala ngeli xesha lokubhalwa kwaye usenamandla afanayo nalawo xa wayeyinjana. Imizuzu engamashumi amathathu yokudlala / yosuku inokwanela, kodwa kuphela ukuba inamandla; Oko kukuthi, kuphela ukuba uchitha elo xesha ebaleka ngokukhawuleza ukusuka apha esiya ebaleka ibhola.
Ifuna indawo engakanani ikati?
Enye yezinto ekufuneka siyithathele ingqalelo xa samkela ikati yindawo esinayo. Ngoba? Ewe, ngenxa yoko kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba iifeline zifuna iindawo ezininzi ukwenza iimfuno zazo ezisisiseko:
- Indawo yokuhlamba: iya kuba ligumbi elithe cwaka, apho usapho luphila nzima khona ukuhlala. Apha kufuneka ube nebhokisi yakho yesanti.
- Indawo yokutya: kufanele ukuba ibe negumbi elithe cwaka. Kuyo siza kubeka isondli sakho kunye nomntu oselayo.
- Indawo yokulala: ethule, ekhululekile kwaye ekhuselekileyo. Inokuba ligumbi lokuhlala, igumbi lethu lokulala, okanye elinye igumbi. Ngokwesiqhelo, iya kuba yikati ngokwayo ekhetha le ndawo, kodwa sinokukunceda uthathe isigqibo ngokubeka ibhedi yayo apho sifuna khona, nangona oko kungathethi ukuba izakulala apho 😉.
- Indawo yokudlala nokuzilolongaKwindalo, izakubizwa ngokuba 'yindawo yokuzingela', kodwa kuba izakuhlala nabantu, ayidingi kuchitha amandla ukubamba ixhoba ... kodwa inazo izinto zokudlala. Eli gumbi kufuneka libe lelona likhulu kuzo zonke, linenye ifanitshala.
Ukuba indawo ekhoyo ayibanzi kakhulu, unokuba nendawo yokutya kunye nendawo yokulala kwigumbi elinye, okoko nje indawo yokutya ibekwa kude kangangoko kukutya kwakho.
Ukongeza, ukuba sifuna ukuba neekati ezimbini, kufuneka sikhumbule ukuba nganye iya kufuna iindawo zayo, ngaphandle kwezo babelana ngazo.
Kodwa, Inja nganye ifuna indawo engakanani ngokuthe ngqo? Ewe, inyani kukuba andazi ukuba ndingakuxelela njani inani leemitha kuba iya kuxhomekeka kwikati nganye, kwiimpawu zayo nganye, kwaye ikhuliswe phi (ezo zingazange ziphume esitratweni azenzi njalo badinga indawo eninzi njengabo banayo).
Into endizokuxelela yona yile Ngethuba nje kukho indawo eyaneleyo endlwini yokuhlala iindawo ezine ozifunayo, ayizukubaluleka ukuba uneemitha ezingakanani.
Ngaba ikati iyonwaba kwiflethi?
Inokuba kunjalo, ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo. Usapho loluntu kufuneka luzame ukumkhathalela, ukuya kuye, ukumnika uthando kwaye lube nomonde kuye.
Ke, kungekudala, ukuthembana kwakho kuya kufunyanwa.
Ngezi ngcebiso, ikati yakho iya kuziva kamnandi ukuhlala eflethini, ngokuqinisekileyo 🙂.
Umbuzo omnye ukuba unekati ngaba eli gama ligama likukuba sicinga ngokuba nekati
Molo samuel.
Umba… kulungile, hayi kakhulu. Xa uyithanda ikati, uyithiya igama ukuyibiza amaxesha ngamaxesha, kodwa ekugqibeleni iyaphela ibe negama elingaphezulu kwelinye. Umzekelo, enye yeekati zam ibizwa ngokuba yi-Bug. Lilo elo igama lalo elisemthethweni. Kodwa ndikwabiza ngokuba "sisidalwa" (kuba ukufika kwakhe kusapho wayeyibhola yeenwele ezinokulingana kwisandla esinye).
Nibuliso!