Ikati ibihlala nabantu malunga neshumi lamawaka eminyaka, kodwa kutshanje siqale ukuba nayo ngaphakathi endlwini imini yonke, ngaphandle kokuyivumela ukuba iphume. Ngokungaqhakamshelani nabangaphandle, kuya kufuneka aqhelane nobomi bakhe nathi. Yenza kakuhle kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ungabhideka kakhulu kuba asisoloko sikuqonda oko afuna ukusixelela kona.
Nangona abantu abaninzi beza kwenza iinzame zokuqonda ulwimi lwakho, kukho abanye abangaluqondiyo. Ezi zokugqibela zezona zihlala ziphela ngokwenzakalisa uboya, okanye ukubushiya. Ke ngoko, kubaluleke kakhulu ukwazi zithini iimpazamo ezenziwayo xa kufundiswa ikati ukuziphepha ukuze umhlobo wethu onwabe.
Ukumphatha gadalala (ukumngxolisa kunye / okanye ukumbetha)
Kuyinyani ukuba ngamanye amaxesha unokwenza izinto ongafanelekanga ukuzenza, kodwa akukho nto ithethelela ukuxhatshazwa, akukho nto. Ukuba ubethiwe kwaye / okanye wakhwazwa, into eya kufezekiswa kukuba ukhula enoloyiko ebantwini.
Musa ukunika uthando
Ukuba ukhe weva umntu esithi ikati izimele kangangokuba ayifuni mntu ... ulibale. Ngokukrakra le feline ifuna ukhathalelo nothando yonke imihla, amaxesha amaninzi ngemini. Usenokuhlala yedwa okwethutyana enokutya, amanzi kunye nebhokisi yenkunkuma, kodwa uya kukukhumbula.
Yikhusele ngokugqithisileyo
Kububudenge ukungamniki uthando lokumkhusela kakhulu. Ikati kufuneka ikwazi ukonwabela indawo yayo, eya kukunika ukuzithemba kunye nokukhuseleka ekufundeni izinto ezintsha kwaye uphile ubomi obumnandi.
Sebenzisa ikati njengendawo ebambeleyo
Akukho silwanyana kufuneka sisetyenziswe ukubambela. Ukuphulukana nomntu esimthandayo ngamava asenza sizive sibi kakhulu, kodwa ikati esiza nayo intsha ayizukufana naleyo siphulukene nayo.
Ulonwabo lomhlobo wethu luya kuxhomekeka kwinto esiyenzayo ukumkhathalela. Ukuba simphatha ngentlonipho, umonde nothando, uya kuyazi indlela yokusivuza.