Iikati baziinkosi xa kusiziwa ekufihleni iintlungu, ngakumbi ukuba ayinyangeki. Kwimvelo, ukuba bebengenjalo, baya kuba neengxaki ezininzi zokusinda. Nangona ngokuhlala nathi abasenasidingo sokwenza ngathi yonke into ilungile kanti enyanisweni ayisiyiyo, imeko yokuphila iyasinda.
Ke ngoko, ngamanye amaxesha kunzima kakhulu ukwazi ukuba zeziphi iimpawu zentlungu kwiikati, kodwa kunjalo sinokujonga ezinye iinkcukacha ukuze ukwazi ukubamba, okanye ubuncinci ukrokre, ukuba kukho into eyenzekayo kumhlobo wethu othandekayo.
Ndazi njani ukuba ikati yam isezintlungwini?
Ikati ingaziva iintlungu ezibangelwa zizinto ezimbini ezahlukeneyo, nokuba kukubandezeleka okanye uqhaqho, okanye isifo. Ukwazi ukuba uziva ubuhlungu, kufuneka siyigqale yonke imihla: Naluphi na utshintsho oluncinci kwindlela yakho yemihla ngemihla, nokuba ingabonakala ingabalulekanga kangakanani, inokuba luphawu lokuba uziva ungalunganga. Umzekelo, uyakhalaza kunye / okanye asihlasele xa simncamisa kwindawo ethile, uchitha ixesha elininzi ebhedini yakhe engenzi nto xa wayehlala edlala, okanye engabonisi mdla kwizinto awayezithanda ngaphambili. Kwiimeko ezinzima, isilwanyana sinokulahlekelwa ngumdla wokutya.
Kufuneka wenze ntoni xa ndikrokrela ukuba ayiphilanga?
Naziphi na iimpawu okanye utshintsho kwindlela oziphethe ngayo kufuneka uye kugqirha wezilwanyana. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ingcali yenze uphononongo lokufumanisa ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kwiboya, kwaye loluphi unyango ekufuneka lunikezwe ukuze ichache ngokukhawuleza.
Ukuba kunyanzelekile, kuya kwenziwa uvavanyo lweX-reyi, igazi kunye / okanye umchamo, okanye ezinye izifundo ezongezelelekileyo eziya kwenziwa. Ngaphandle kwazo naziphi na iimeko asinakho ukuzinyanga ngokwakho ikati. Amayeza abantu angaba yingozi kuye, kwaye lawo awakha wawathiwa ngugqirha wezilwanyana angangabinampembelelo ayifunayo ngeli xesha.
Siyathemba ukuba eli nqaku beliluncedo kuwe.