Iikati zihlala zinoxolo. Banexhala kancinci ngexesha lokukhwelana, xa kukho umntu obhinqileyo kufutshane efuna iqabane anokuba nalo abantwana, okanye xa benesidingo sokukhusela indawo yabo okanye ubomi babo.
Ukuba uhlala nomnye wabo, unokukuthumelela uthotho lwemiyalezo ukuba ubona kufanelekile ukuzama ukuphumla. Kodwa, Zeziphi iimpawu ezolileyo zeekati?
Ngo-2004, umqeqeshi we-canine u-Turid Rugaas waqala ukuthetha malunga neempawu zokuzola ezibonakaliswa zizinja ukuze ukuhlala kunye kuya kuba nokuvisisana kuwo wonke umntu. Le miqondiso ichazwe kwincwadi yakhe »Ulwimi lwezinja. Iimpawu zokuzola. Emva kokuyifunda ndaqonda ukuba iikati nazo zazineempawu zazoYeyiphi ngandlel 'ithile eyayisengqiqweni: bangayiphepha njani imilo engeyomfuneko, okanye bangayixelela njani enye intshontsho ukuba lizole ngendlela echubekileyo?
Ngesi sizathu, kwaye nangona ndingeyiyo ingcali ngalo mbandela, ndizokujonga le miqondiso yokuzola kwiikati:
Inombolo yoku-1 - ikhotha impumlo yakhe
Bavame ukuyenza le nto kakhulu xa, umzekelo, ikati endala ilele ngoxolo kwaye ikati ihamba ngabom kuyo ngenjongo yokudlala nayo.. Banokukwenza ukuba siyabamangalisa, sibange kwaye sibange kaninzi.
Inombolo 2 - squint
Lo ngumyalezo oneentsingiselo ezimbini: enye yazo ngu "Ndiyakuthemba", kwaye enye "izolile, akukho nto yenzekayo". Bayenza nini? Ewe, nangona inomdla, Banokukwenza ukuba banekati ehloniphekileyo nenentlalontle kwikati okanye ikati -ngakumbi ikatana- esize nayo nje ekhaya kwaye iyoyika kakhulu.
Inombolo 3 -Ujika ujonge phezulu
Xa ikati ibuyiswe umva, ikwindawo enokuba yingozi kakhulu, kuba ayinakukwazi nokuzikhusela. Ukuba ulala ngomqolo yindlela yokuthetha nomntu ophambi kwakhe ukuba uyaqonda ukuba akafuni milo. Lumka, ayifanelanga ukubhideka njengesimemo sokudlala: kule, iya kuba nenkangeleko ekhethekileyo (njengaleyo yomntwana omncinci onenjongo yokwenza ububi), ngelixa kwelinye isenokuba amehlo anciphile .
Inani lesi-4 -Libeka umsila walo phantsi kweenyawo
Ukuba ikati ibeka umsila wayo phantsi kweenyawo zayo kungenxa yokuba iyoyika kwaye izama ngandlela zonke ukwenza unobangela wale mvakalelo ukuba ushenxise okanye uphumle. Umzekelo, ukuba umntu akenzanga nto ngaphandle kokuyicaphukisa, ikati iya kufaka umsila wayo phakathi kwemilenze yayo.
Inani lesi-5-ngokuhlwa
Ukuzamla. Ngubani ongayekiyo? Luphawu lokuzola oluhamba lungaqwalaselwa ngakumbi, alunto ililize, bayayenza okanye xa belele kakhulu okanye xa begqiba ukuphakama. Kwaye bachitha ukuya kuthi ga kwi-18 ngokulala, ke ... ukuba ucinga ukuba ayingomqondiso wokuzola oko, ndiyayiqonda, kodwa ewe, kunjalo.
Masithathe umzekelo wekati endala enekati kwakhona. Incinci ifuna ukudlala, kodwa umntu omkhulu akayifuni; Nangona kunjalo, intshontsho liyanyanzelisa, ukuze ikati endala izamle. Ukuba isiphumo senzeka, uboya buya kuzola, kwaye ukuba akunjalo, iya kuhamba.
Ngaba ikhona enye imiqondiso oyaziyo yokuzola?