Xa ikati ishiya umnyango wendlu yayo, umntu uhlala enamathandabuzo okuba uza kubuya okanye hayi. Nam ngokwam ndingatsho Ndiyamazi xa ehamba kodwa andiqinisekanga ukuba uzobuya ngabani ixesha. Ukuba ufike mva, uqala kwangoko ukucinga ukuba kungenzeka into eyenzekileyo kuye, kodwa inyani ihlala idlula ubuxoki. Ngapha koko, wayezonwabisa kunye nabahlobo bakhe, kuba, njengathi, uneemfuno zentlalo.
Nangona kunjalo, uvakalelo lokungonwabi luhlala luvela, inkxalabo ngabantu esibathandayo abanoboya, kuba kunjalo, ukungabikho kuye asazi ukuba uphi okanye nabani, ngoko kufanelekile ukuzibuza ukuba iikati ziqhelaniswe kakuhle.
Ukuphendula loo mbuzo kufuneka sithethe ngezinto ezimbini: iipheromones kunye nobukrelekrele. Inkqubo ye- iipheromones Zizinto eziveliswa ezidleleni zakho (kumacala omabini omlomo wakho), kwiipads kunye nakumchamo wakho. Ngezi zinto isilwanyana Unokwenza ukuba lonke ilizwe lazi izinto ezininzi, ngathi "le ndawo yeyam", "ndiyakuthemba", kwaye uyayisebenzisa xa eshushu, phakathi kwezinye iimeko.
Imvakalelo yokujoja iphuculwe ngakumbi kunathi, ukuya kwinqanaba lokuba bazive iipheromones zezinye izilwanyana iimitha ezininzi kude, xa thina, ke, singaboni nto 🙂. Ngele ndlela, unokunxibelelana ngokulula nabanye abanoboya, kwaye aziqhelanise naye kuba, njengoko sisazi, uchitha ixesha elininzi ekhuhla izinto. Ngokwenza njalo, ulahla iipheromones zakho. (Unolwazi oluthe kratya malunga nesihloko kwi Oku kubhaliwe).
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ikati sisilwanyana esikrelekrele, nangona ubukrelekrele ngaphezu kokukunceda ukuba uziqhelanise kuluncedo ngakumbi ekuthatheni isigqibo sokuba ubuye na okanye hayi. Makhe ndichaze: ukuba akakhathalelwanga ngokufanelekileyo ekhayeni, ukuba akahoywanga okanye ukuba uphethwe kakubi, ukuba uyakwazi ukufikelela ngaphandle, ngekhe abuye nangenye imini. Ngale ndlela, bafana nabantu kunokuba sicinga, kunjalo Kubalulekile - kufanelekile nokuba kunyanzelekile- ukuba ngaphambi kokufumana okanye ukwamkela isilwanyana sazi kakuhle ukuba singasikhathalela nokuba sinomdla wokwenene wokuba noxanduva.
Kungale ndlela kuphela apho sinokuthatha isigqibo esifanelekileyo, kuba nokuba siyamkhupha, ukuba uyazi ukuba uyathandwa ngaphakathi endlwini, sinokuqiniseka ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba uza kubuya yonke imihla.
Molo Monica, ngokutsho kwakho, ukuba uyabathanda kwaye ubakhathalele, babuyele ekhaya… Ndinamava abantwana bam ababini abangabahloli bamazwe. U-Bastet, oyena mdala, waya kwindlu apho sasihlala khona malunga kathathu okanye kane, kufuneka siwele umlambo njalo njalo ... ekuqaleni kwathatha iveki ukufika kwindlu yethu yangaphambili ... nje ukuba usixelele ukuba ikhona apho sizokujonga khona, ukugqibela kwethu ukumkhumbula ekuzeni kokusa nasemini umamazala wanditsalela umnxeba wandixelela ukuba umntu wam omnyama ukhona kwaye wamthethisa wamxelela ukuba ayingomzi wakhe lo ukuba abazali bakhe babemlindile kwenye indlu kwaye ebusuku wayesele ebuyile nathi .... ukusukela ngoko khange ahambe. Omnye uBambú omnyama uphume endlini ngeCawa kusasa kwaye khange avele kwakhona kude kube ngoLwesibini emini ... ndiphantse ndafa kuba ndingazange ndiyenze ... kodwa wafika ngokukhuselekileyo kwaye ndicinga ukuba uzokuzingela okanye, njengoko usitsho , ukonwatyiswa kunye nabahlobo bakhe hahaha ....
Amakati akrelekrele kakhulu. Bazi kakuhle apho bathandwa khona, kwaye kulapho baya kufuna ukuya khona. Ukwanga 🙂