Kukangaphi uyithatha ikati yakho kwaye wema phambi kwesipili ukuze ubone indlela asabela ngayo? Esi sihloko sinomdla kakhulu, kuba inento yokwenza nokuziqonda ngokwakho, into ethi, ngendlela, inganeli nje ukuba ngabantu, kodwa kananjalo iifinal.
Ngapha koko, ubuchopho bethu boboya buyafana nobethu. Kodwa… Ngaba iikati zinokwaziwa esipilini?
Inyani yile yokuba kukho iimeko apho ewe, kunye nezinye apho kungekho. Isakhono, njengoko besitshilo, zonke zinazo, kodwa kuyinyani ukuba kubandakanya a inkqubo yokufunda. Makhe ndichaze: xa bezibona esipilini okokuqala, into yokuqala abaya kuyicinga kukuba kukho enye ikati phambi kwabo elinganisa iintshukumo zabo, kwaye ukusuka apho banokuba nomdla okanye bangathembi.
Amantshontsho, ezithembile ngakumbi, aza kuchitha ixesha elithile efuna ukudlala nale kati acingelwa ukuba ayiphambi kwabo, kodwa ekugqibeleni bayakuqonda ukuba ayikho loo kati, kungenjalo bayakufumana impendulo ebonakalayo (umzekelo, beka paw phezu kwegxalaba lakhe, okanye ukucheba). Nje ukuba oku kwenzeke, zinokwenzeka izinto ezimbini: ukuba bayaziqonda esipilini, okanye abayihoyi leya yeglasi ebonakalayo kwakhona.
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Iikati ezindala ezizibona esipilini okokuqala zinokukrokrela kwaye zoyike. Ukuba yimeko ye-feline yakho, unokuzibeka phambi komnye naye, ukuze azive ekhuselekile kwaye ezolile. Ke, nokuba ayisihoyi isipili, ayisayi kuba nakho ukukuhoya, ke ayizukuthatha ixesha elide ukuqonda ukuba akukho sizathu sokoyika.
Ewe unakho okanye angazi ukuba nguye ozibona esipilini, kodwa eneneni ayisiyonto ibalulekileyo kuye. Unomdla, akunjalo?