Ukuba uzinikezela ekunyamekeleni i-feline colony, okanye ukuba ungomnye wabo xa ubona ubushushu obufuna uncedo emotweni kwaye uyokukhangela ukuze ubanike ingqwalaselo abayifunayo, ngokuqinisekileyo uzibuzile ngaphezu kwesinye indlela yokubamba ikati eyoyikayo, yinyaniso?
Akululanga ngokwenene, kodwa akunakwenzeka. Ewe kunjalo, kubalulekile ukugcina engqondweni ngalo lonke ixesha ukungxama ayingabo abahlobo abalungileyo, kwaye kuncinci xa kufikwa ekufumaneni i-feline evakalelwa kukuba ingena ukungena kwikheji okanye umphathi wayo. Masibone singayiphumeza njani.
Ungayibamba njani ikati eyoyikayo?
Into yokuqala ekufuneka siyenzile kukujonga ikati, jonga ukuba yeyiphi indlela yokuziphatha ngalo mzuzu. Siyazi ukuba uyoyika, kodwa uyasivumela ukuba sisondele? Ukuba simnika inyango, ngaba uyazama ukuyithatha? Ezi zizinto ekufuneka sizifumene ngaphambi kokuthatha isigqibo sokuba siza kuyibamba njani, ukhuseleko lwethu kunye nobushushu uqobo.
Ukubamba ikati elithobekileyo
Ukuba sisilwanyana esizolileyo kwaye sithe chu okanye kancinci, into ekufuneka siyenzile kukuyenza fumana ukuthembela kwakho. Ukwenza njani oko kwimizuzu emihlanu? Ewe inyani kukuba awukwazi ukwenza njalo okwexeshana short, kodwa singenza ukuba uqonde ngexesha elifutshane ukuba asifuni kukwenzakalisa, kodwa kukunceda.
Ukwenza oku, siza kuhlala simfulathele, kumgama omalunga nemitha ezi-2-3 (asivumelayo), kwaye Siza kukunika ukutya kwekati. Ukuba ulambile, nokuba woyika kangakanani, angaya ayokukhangela, kodwa ukuba siyabona ukuba uyathandabuza, siza kuyiphosa kuye ukuze iwele kuye. Siza kuyenza kwakhona amatyeli aliqela, siyiphose ngamandla angaphantsi sihlandlo ngasinye ukuze isondele kuthi.
Ngoku, masiqhubekele kwinqanaba elilandelayo: zama ukuyiphulula. Ngale nto siza kukubonisa isandla ukuze ukwazi ukusiva ngevumba. Ukuba unomdla, sinokubetha impumlo yakhe kuqala emva koko intloko. Kwimeko apho enovalo, siya kuncipha.
Emva koko siyaphakama, ngaphandle kokungxama kwaye ngaphandle kokwenza iintshukumo ngequbuliso, kwaye sibeka impatho kumphathi. Emva koko, siyahamba kancinci (hayi kakhulu, kuba kuya kufuneka sisebenze ngokukhawuleza), kwaye xa engena, siyawuvala umnyango, simgqume ngetawuli kwaye simse apho kufuneka simse khona.
Ukubamba »ikati yasendle»
Ikati ebambisa ikati
Xa kufikwa ekubambeni ikati "yasendle" efuna ingqalelo yezilwanyana, eyona ndlela isebenzayo ukubeka iikheji njengaleyo sinokubona kumfanekiso ongentla, efihliweyo phakathi kwamayeza, iinkuni okanye iinkuni. Emva koko, iya kuba ngumcimbi wokuhamba kwaye ulinde ukubona ukuba kukho ithamsanqa kwaye uboya bungena. Xa isenzeka, siza kuyigubungela ikheyiji ngetawuli, kuba oku kuya kugcina okuthile kuzolile.
Ezi kheyiji ziyilelwe ukuba ikati, nje ukuba ingene, ingabinakho ukuphuma ukuba umnyango awuvulwanga. Ukongeza, ugqirha wezilwanyana uya kuba nakho ukukunika inaliti oyifunayo ngokukhuselekileyo.
Uyifumana njani intembeko yekati eyoyikayo
Ukuba ufuna ukufumana ukuthembela kwekati, nokuba injani na ubuntu babo, kuya kufuneka useke ukuthembana. Nokuba ikati iyikati ineentloni, iyoyika, inochuku ... kuya kufuneka uzithembe. Kulula kakhulu ukwakha ukuthembela kwekati ukusuka ekuqaleni kunokuzama ukuyakha kwakhona emva kokuba uyiqhekezile..
Nangona kunjalo, iikati zihlala zixolelana kwaye azibambeli ingqumbo (kwaye aziphindiseli okanye ziphikise- iikati azicingi njalo). Ixesha elingaphezulu, unokuphucula (okanye ukulungisa) ubudlelwane bakho nekati yakho kwenye yokuthuthuzela, ukwenza lula, kunye noqikelelo.. Nazi ezinye zezinto ekufuneka uzigcine engqondweni xa uzama ukwakha ukuthembela kwekati.
Hlonipha indawo yekati
Ikati iya kufuna ixesha lokuhlengahlengisa ukuba intsha ekhayeni; abanye bathatha ixesha elide kunabanye ukwenza oku. Makhe ikati ifumane iindawo ezonwabileyo zokuxhoma kwaye ungangeni kwiindawo ezo. Lo mgaqo ngokubanzi wesithupha uya kuqhubeka nasemva kokuba ukhululekile ekhaya. Iikati ziyakonwabela ukuzimela kwazo kwaye ziya kukwazisa xa zingathanda ukukunika ingqalelo (okanye zikunike imikhondo malunga nokuba azifuni nini, ukuba ungumhlaseli wendawo).
Jonga ulwimi lomzimba
Ikati iya kunxibelelana ikakhulu nolwimi lomzimba. Kuhloniphe oko bakuxelela kona. Ngaba ugobile kude nawe okanye umzimba wakhe ujonge kuwe? Ngaba ujikisa umsila wakho kukucaphuka okanye ukhululekile? Nika ingqalelo indawo yeendlebe zakhe, ukuba banzi kangakanani amehlo akhe kunye nokuma komzimba ... Ikati eyoyikayo ikuxelela ukuba uziva njani ngolwimi lomzimba wakhe.
Vumela ikati ize kuwe
Sukunyanzela intembeko ukuba ikuthembe ukuba iyoyika. Vumela ikati ukuba ithathe isigqibo sokuziva ikhululekile kwaye xa ifuna ukunxibelelana nawe. Amakati afunda lukhulu ngokujonga nje, ke ngelixa unganxibelelani ngqo naye, ufunda okuninzi ngawe ukuba ujonga nje ngefestile okanye esofeni. Makhe ajonge kwaye afunde malunga nokuhamba kwakho, amavumba kunye nezandi!
Yahlula imida yekati xa isiza kumchukumisa
Thatha indlela ethe chu yokufunda apho uthanda ukuchukunyiswa khona. Ungaze utyhale okanye ungcikive xa uzama ukubamba okanye ukuphulula ikati. Soloko usebenzisa iintshukumo ezinokuqikelelwa. Lumkela ulwimi lwakho lomzimba ukuze wazi ukuba ikati ithanda ukuphathwa phi kwaye njani. Ukuba ikati yakho inoburharha ngokuphulula, zama ukunciphisa iiseshini zokufaka izilwanyana ngokubhekisele apho ulusa khona kunye nokuba lide kangakanani.
Nika ikati ukhetho
Nokuba yindawo yokulala okanye ukuhlala, okanye ithuba lokudlala (okanye hayi), ukuvumela ikati yakho ukuba ithathe isigqibo ngento efuna ukuyenza iya kwakha ukuzithemba kwaye iyincede ifunde ukuba awuyi kuyinyanzela ukuba yenze nantoni na. Amakati afumana uxinzelelo xa engenakulawula okusingqongileyo (seso sizathu sokuba indawo yokuhlala izilwanyana inokuba nzima kubo) kwaye bayakonwabela ukukhetha malunga nokuba uza kwenza nini, phi, phi, njani, kwaye nabani onokunxibelelana naye. Akuhlekisi xa umntu ehlala ezama ukulawula okwenzayo, kutheni ikati yakho ingathanda njalo?
Qikelela
Zama ukushukuma uthethe ukuze ungothusi okanye woyikise ikati. Sukungxama ngesiquphe okanye ungqishe emhlabeni, kwaye uzame ukugcina ilizwi lakho lizinzile kwaye lizolile. Oku kusebenza ngawo onke amaxesha, hayi xa unxibelelana ngqo nekati yakho..
Kunganzima ukuba unabantwana okanye ezinye izilwanyana zasekhaya (DOGS) endlwini, kodwa ukuba unayo ikati eneentloni, oku kunokuba kubalulekile. Ezinye iikati zizolile kwaye azikhathali nokuba kwenzeka ntoni macala onke kwaye zinokulala ngexesha layo nantoni na. Kodwa ngekati enovakalelo ngakumbi, eli lithuba elihle lokufundisa abantwana ngovelwano kunye neemfuno zabanye.
Unxibelelwano olufanelekileyo kunye nekati
Unolawulo malunga nokuba unxibelelwano nekati yakho luya kuba lolungileyo okanye olubi. Ixesha lokudlala linokuba lulonwabo olukhulu kuni nobabini, umzekelo, kodwa ulumkiswe: into ocinga ukuba iyadlala inokuchazwa njengokuhlekisa okanye ukuhlekisa ngekati yakho. Soloko usebenzisa iithoyi zokudlala kunye naye kwaye mvumele ukuba athathe into yokudlala amaxesha ngamaxesha.
Ngaphambi kokunxibelelana nekati enovakalelo, zama ukucinga ngento onokuyenza ukuze unxibelelwano lube lolulungileyo ukuze yakhe ukuzithemba kwekati yakho. Thatha lonke ithuba onalo ukuze wakhe ubudlelwane obuhle kunye nawe!
Sebenzisa ukuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo ukuvuza ukusebenzisana okuhle
Ungasebenzisa ukuphatha, ilizwi elithozamisayo, jugar okanye nokuphulula (ukuba uyayithanda) ukuvuza nakuphi na ukuziphatha okuhle. Kananjalo ungasebenzisa nayiphi na kwezi zinto ukukhuthaza ikati yakho ukuba yenze into (njengokuphuma ekufihleni, umzekelo) ... kodwa basihlonele isigqibo sabo sokungayenzi into (unganiki mvuzo).
Ukuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo, okunikezelwa ngokungaguquguqukiyo, kunokuba yindlela elungileyo yokwakha ukuzithemba kwekati kunye nokunxibelelana nokuba wenze into entle. Ikwayindlela entle yokumfundisa ukwenza nantoni na, kubandakanya amaqhinga ... Intshontsho lekati liya kukuxabisa ukuvuselelwa kwengqondo kwaye oko kuya kukunika enye indlela elungileyo yokubopha kuye.
Khumbula ukuba ikati iyoyika kwaye inkqubo yokuthembela ayenzeki kwangoko, kungathatha iintsuku ezininzi okanye iiveki ukuba ikwazi ukukuqhela kwaye uthembe iinjongo zakho. Nje ukuba avakalelwe ukuba uthembekile, yonke into izakuhamba kakuhle kwaye ungabeka umanyano olomeleleyo phakathi kwakho.
Siyathemba ukuba iluncedo kuwe.