Sonke sithanda iikati singathanda ukwamkela… zonke 🙂. Zizilwanyana, ezinomonde omncinci kunye nentlonipho eninzi, zikubonisa kwangoko ukuba zinomtsalane, zinothando kwaye zithambile. Kodwa ke, oku ngelishwa akunakwenzeka.
Ngalo lonke ixesha sizisa indlu yasekhaya entsha, inkcitho yethu yenyanga iyenyuka. Izitofu zokugonya, ii-microchips, ii-castrations, ukutya, iithoyi, ... ungasathethi ke ukuba kuyacetyiswa kakhulu ukuba uye kwenza iibhokisi zemali xa kunokwenzeka into enzulu. Singachitha malini ngenyanga? Ngaba abo banoboya banayo yonke into abayifunayo? Zingaphi iikati endinokuba nazo ekhaya?
Ukuqonda iikati
Amakati, nkqu neentloni, bafuna uthando nengqwalaselo yonke imihla yobomi babo. Oku kuthetha ukuba zonke iiyure ezingama-24 kufuneka adlale, afumane uthando kusapho lwakhe, amrhuqele ngelixa ephumle, ahlole ikhaya lakhe ukuze kucace ukuba uhlala kulo, kwaye, ekugqibeleni, aziphathe ngale nto ayiyo: ikati.
Ngaphambi kokuthatha isigqibo sokuba siza kukunika iqabane elitsha okanye akunjalo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukumazi kakuhle kuqala. Ukuba uneentloni kunye / okanye umntu omdala, kungcono ukuba ungalonyusi usapho lwekati, kuba kungenjalo uya kuba nexesha elinzima. Kwelinye icala, ukuba iyikati enobuhlobo, ngakumbi ukuba isencinci (ukusuka kwiinyanga ezimbini ukuya kwiminyaka emi-3), ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuthanda ukuba nomntu ofana nayo ayidlalayo kwaye enze ububi.
Ngaba unokuba neekati ezininzi kunye?
Kuxhomekeke kubuntu bomntu ngamnye kubo, ixesha ekufuneka silinikele kubo, kunye nemali esingayichitha ngenyanga. Ukugubungela zonke iimfuno zekati kuthetha ukuthatha ithuba lokuchitha ixesha kunye naye, ukongeza ekuchitheni isixa esithile semali ngenyanga. Ukuba neekati ezimbini kuya kusinyanzela ukuba sichithe imali ephindwe kabini kunaleyo. Ngaba sinokukwazi ukuyifumana?
Zininzi ezinoboya ezifuna uncedo, kodwa ngelishwa asinakubanceda bonke. Akucetyiswa ukuba neekati ezininzi kunye, kuba elowo kubo ufuna ukufumana umlinganiso ofanayo wothando kunye nengqwalaselo, kwaye, njengoko sisazi, sinezandla ezibini kuphela kunye nexesha elilinganiselweyo. Kubuhlungu kakhulu oku, kodwa kuyinyani.
Umntu kufuneka abe nenani leekati kuphela anokuzinyamekela, kungabikho ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi; ukuba ndinokuninzi, abo banoboya ngokwabo baya kuva ubunzima.