Amantshontsho, ukusukela ekuzalweni de abe neenyanga ezimbini okanye ezintathu ubudala, axhomekeke kunina ngayo yonke into: ukutya, ukufunda ukuziphatha njengeekati, ukuzingela, ukulawula ubungqingqwa bokuluma, ... ngamafutshane, ukuze babe ngamarhamncwa asebenzayo. Ingxaki kukuba xa bezalwa esitalatweni banobungozi obuninzi kangangokuba amaxesha amaninzi, umama wabo ubulawa yimoto okanye kukugula.
Unokwenza ntoni ukuba ufumana inkunkuma yeekati esitratweni? Ungabanceda njani? Ukuba ufuna ukwazi, ndiza kukuxelela.
Ukuba zintsana kakhulu ...
Amantshontsho eekati asandula kuzalwa ashiyeke engenamama akanalo ithuba esitratweni. Eyona nto inokwenzeka, baya kufa kukushushu / kubanda okanye yindlala kwiiyure ezimbalwa. Ukuyiphepha Kubaluleke kakhulu ukubasa kwindawo apho banokukhuseleka khona, bafudumale nalapho kukho umntu obakhathalelayo, ebondla qho kwiiyure eziyi-3-4. okokuqala ngobisi olungena endaweni yalo (ungalufumana kwiiklinikhi zonyango lwezilwanyana nakwiivenkile zezilwanyana zasekhaya) kwaye ukusukela kwinyanga-baya kuba namazinyo okuqala kunye namehlo avulekileyo-ngokutya kwekati emanzi. Unolwazi ngakumbi apha.
Ukuba zizinja zenyanga ezimbini okanye enye into ...
Amantshontsho eekati amancinci, afana nalawo akulo mfanekiso ungentla, sele zizilwanyana ezihamba okanye ezidlule kwixesha elinobuntununtunu. Ngaphandle kokuba babe phakathi kweenyanga ezimbini ukuya kwezintathu, kuyakubanzima ukubazisa ekhaya njengoko umama wabo ebenexesha lokubafundisa ukuba bangasondeli ebantwini. Ke ngoko, into endikucebisa ukuba ndiyenze kwezi meko kukuba bahambise kwindawo ekhuselekileyo ukuba bakwindawo eyingozi (uxakeke kakhulu, okanye apho kuhlala khona abantu abangalunganga), njengoko kucacisiwe Oku kubhaliwe.
Olunye ukhetho, ukuba uyababona ukuba bathambile, kukuba ubathathe ubase kwindlu enesitiya uzama ukuba ungahlule, kuba bakhule kunye kwaye baziva besondele kakhulu. Ngokukhawuleza xa be-castren (kwiinyanga ezi-5-6) banokunikwa imvume yokuya egadini kwaye bazonwabise.
Ndiyathemba ukuba iluncedo kuwe 🙂.