Amantshontsho ekati ziibhola ezintle ezizelwe zingaboni kwaye zingeva. Ngexesha leenyanga ezimbini zokuqala zobomi baxhomekeke kunina (okanye umntu olungileyo, ukuba ulahlekile) ukuze bakwazi ukuzigcina bekhuselekile kwimozulu embi kunye nokuzondla.
Kodwa zikhula ngokukhawuleza okukhulu, kangangokuba kungcono ukuba ikhamera ilungele yonke imihla ukuze ikwazi ukuthatha ezinye zazo. Kwaye kukuba, nje ukuba siyilinde, iya kuba lixesha lokuba siqale sibanike olunye uhlobo lokutya. ewe ewe ufuna ukwazi ukuba kunjani ukulunywa iikati, musa ukuyeka ukufunda.
Amantshontsho ekati kufuneka anakekelwe ngumama
Njengokuba sithanda iikati, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba babe kunye nomama wabo kwiinyanga ezimbini zokuqala zobomi. Nguye kuphela oya kukhathalela ukubonelela ngayo yonke into abayifunayo: ubisi olunesondlo, ukufudumala, imfundo ... nothando lukamama.
Ngesi sizathu, ndicebisa kuphela ukuthatha uxanduva lokugcina abo banoboya ukuba umama wabo akekho, ukuba uyabalahla abancinci okanye ukuba kukho izizathu ezithile zezilwanyana zokuba kutheni abantwana bengenako ukusela ubisi kunina.
Kwenzeka ntoni ukuba bohlukana naye ngaphambi kwexesha?
Kulungile yintoni ezi ngxaki zingavela:
- Ukungabikho komkhwa kwindlu yangasese
- Kunzima ukufunda ukusebenzisa ibhokisi yenkunkuma
- Ukungabikho kolawulo lokuluma nokukrwela ngexesha lokudlala
- Iingxaki zobudlelwane, zibonisa isimilo sokuziphatha ngendlela engathandekiyo
- Ukhuselo olusezantsi
- Ukunqongophala kwezakhamzimba, ezinokuthi zikhokelele ekuziphatheni okungaqhelekanga, njengokutya iiplastikhi
Oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka sizikhathaze kakhulu malunga neekati esizikhetha esitalatweni, kodwa oko kuthetha ukuba kuya kufuneka sizazi ngakumbi.
Zilunyulwa nini kwaye njani iikati?
Kwiimeko eziqhelekileyo, umama wekati uya kuqala ukubalumla kwakamsinya nje bakuba neeveki ezintathu ubudala. Kancinci kancinci, kwaye uhlala enononophelo olukhulu, uya kubanyanzela ukuba batye ezinye izinto (ukuba uhlala ngaphakathi endlwini, okanye ezinye izilwanyana ezinjengeempuku okanye iintaka ukuba ubesendle). Ewe, abancinci baya kuqhubeka nokusela ubisi lwebele, kodwa kancinci nangaphantsi.
Ukuba ezi kittens ziye zanelishwa ngokwaneleyo ukuba zilahlekelwe ngumama wazo, kuya kufuneka sikhathalele yonke into. Lo nto, Nje ukuba bafike kwiveki yesithathu sizakubazisa ukutya okumanzi kweekati ngaphandle kokutya okuziinkozo. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ekuqaleni abafuni kuyitya, kodwa ngenxa yoko singavula imilomo yabo kwaye sazise ukutya okuncinci kakhulu - kakhulu, kuncinci kakhulu - kwaye emva koko sikuvale ngokuqinileyo kodwa ngobumnene.
Banike ukutya kangaphi kwaye bangaphi ubisi?
Kuya kuxhomekeka kakhulu kwinto efunwa ziikati. Ukususela kwiveki yesithathu ukuya phambili, ubisi alusabondli njengangaphambili, ke kuya kufuneka ubazi kakhulu. Ukukunika umbono, ndiza kukuxelela indlela endiyilumle ngayo enye yeekati zam:
- Iveki yesithathu: 3 ukondla ubisi + 2 kokutya okumanzi kweekati.
- Iveki yesine: 2 ukondla ubisi + 3 kokutya okumanzi kweekati.
- Iveki yesihlanu: 1 ubisi olutyiweyo + 4 ukutya okumanzi kweekati.
- Ukususela kwiveki yesithandathu kuye kweyesibhozo: Ndimnike ukutya okumanzi kuphela, kuhlala kufakwe ubisi okanye amanzi.
- Ukususela kwiinyanga ezimbini: ukutya okumanzi nesiselo sayo kuzaliswe ngamanzi ecaleni kwaso.
- Ukususela kwiinyanga ezine: Ndicinga ngekati kunye nomseli wayo ogcwele amanzi.
Kwaye ngoku uyikati ekhule kakuhle kakhulu, kwaye ndiyayithanda. Ewe uneponti eshiyekileyo, kodwa unentliziyo engalinganiyo esifubeni. 🙂
Ikati yam uSasha
Ndiyathemba ukuba iluncedo kuwe 🙂.