Xa sizisa ikati yesibini ekhaya, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ezinye iingxaki zivele, ngakumbi ukuba asizilandelanga izikhokelo zentlalontle. Ngamanye amaxesha kuyenzeka ukuba uboya (ihlala ingulowo ebehlala nathi ixesha elide), ungcungcuthekise omnye.
Oku kuziphatha akufuneki kubhidaniswe nesimo abanokubanaso xa befuna ukudlala. Inkqubo ye- Ukuhlukunyezwa phakathi kweekati Ingxaki enkulu kakhulu, ethintela zombini izilwanyana ekubeni zikhokele ubomi obuqhelekileyo: kwelinye icala, umntu osoloko ejonga ujonge kwelinye, elinde elona thuba lincinci lokumngcungcuthekisa; kwaye kwelinye, ubomi obuhlukumezekileyo bunokungazithembi kunye noloyiko lokuba angenza okuthile kuye. Singayibona kwaye siyisombulule njani le meko?
Into yokuqala ekufuneka siyenzile kukugcina zombini iikati. Ngokukhawuleza siza kufumanisa ukuba ngubani umhlukumezi kwaye ngubani oxhatshazwayo:
- Ukuhambisa ikati: Yahlukile ekuhlukunyezweni ngokuba namandla. Uchitha ixesha lakhe elininzi eyilawula, esenza kucace ukuba le yintsimi yakhe ngokushiya iipheromones (nokuba ziyakrwela okanye, ukuba uyindoda, umakisha ngomchamo) kwaye akayamkeli entsha. Ngalo lonke ixesha embona uyamsukela, amenzele umlozi aze amngxolise. Unokulwa naye.
- Ikati exhatshazwa: Uziva engonwabanga, engazithembanga kwaphela. Uyakubona ukuba utya ngokukhawuleza okukhulu, kwaye nje ukuba akubone umntu omlandelayo uhamba ngokukhawuleza. Zama ukuyiphepha xa kunokwenzeka. Akunakwenzeka ukuba aphile ubomi obuqhelekileyo, ukuya kwinqanaba lokuba akwazi ukuzikhulula kwitreyi.
Ingasonjululwa njani ingxaki? Ukuqala ekuqaleniOko kukuthi, ukuzenza ngathi lusuku lokuqala ukuba ikati entsha ihlale ekhaya. Ukwenza oku, siza kumbeka kwigumbi elinetray, ibhedi, ukutya namanzi kude kube lusuku olulandelayo, nalapho sizakuqala ukubanxulumana nabo.
Amantshontsho ekati adlalayo
Ngentsasa elandelayo, into esiya kuyenza kukutshintsha iibhedi ukuze ngale ndlela baqale ukulinyamezela ivumba lomnye, kwaye siza kulishiya iveki. Emva kwelo xesha, Siza kuthatha ikati ehlaselwe siye nayo endlwini apho anokubona khona ikati ebalekayo kodwa ngaphandle kwengozi. Ukuba ubona kufanelekile, ungabanceda ngokutshiza igumbi kunye neemveliso zokuthomalalisa i-felines.
Ukuba konke kuhamba kakuhle, ngosuku olulandelayo ungasusa isithintelo esibahluleyo. Njengendlela yokulumkisa, ukusukela ngoko ukuya kuthi ga ngoku kude kube kanti bayavana ngokupheleleyo, ndincoma ukuba uqhubeke usebenzisa iimveliso ezibanceda ukuba bazole. Kwimeko apho umhlukumezi eqhubeka nokuziphatha ngokufanayo, zigcine zahlulwe ngumqobo elinye ixesha, ude ube uzolile phambi kwabantu abahlukumezekileyo.
Uya kubona ngokuhamba kwexesha le ngxaki iba yinxalenye yexesha elidlulileyo 😉.