Amakati kunye nemivundla zizilwanyana ezahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo: ezokuqala zizilwanyana ezizingelayo, ngelixa ezokugqibela zingamaxhoba kwezinye izidlo ezinoboya. Kodwa abantu bafeze izinto indalo ebingasoze ziyicinge nokuyicinga. Ngapha koko, kulula ukufumana iividiyo kwiYouTube yamafene aziphatha ngendlela enobuhlobo kakhulu kunye nokuba lixhoba lazo malibe njani.
Ngoko ke, ukuba uyazibuza ukuba ingaba ukuhlala kunye phakathi kweekati kunye nemivundla kunokwenzekaNokuba kungenxa yokuba unomdla nje okanye kuba ucinga ukwamkela enye okanye enye, en Noti Gatos siza kusombulula amathandabuzo akho.
Ngaba unokuba ngumhlobo?
Inyani yile, ukuba sicinga ngeempawu zomntu ngamnye kunye nokutya abakulandelayo, ngaphezulu kwesinye kwaye nangaphezulu kwababini baya kuthi hayi. Kwaye ngesizathu esivakalayo: ukuba ujoyina ikati yabantu abadala kunye nomvundla -ingakumbi ukuba yimbuzi encinci- kusenokwenzeka ukuba uya kuba neengxaki ezininzi, kuba ithuku lalo ikati ... kukuzingela.
Kodwa njengoko besitshilo ekuqaleni, le meko inokwahluka. Njani? Ilula kakhulu: ukwamkela ikati eneenyanga ezi-2 ubudala. Isizathu kukuba iikati ezinobudala obufikelela kwiinyanga ezintathu zidlula kwixesha loluntu; Oko kukuthi, iiveki ezisibhozo kufuneka zinxibelelane nezinye iikati, ezinye izilwanyana nabantu ukuze baziqhele. Kwaye ngeli xesha apho ikati inokuba ngumhlobo womvundla, kuba ayizukuyibona njengexhoba.
Uyonwabisa njani ikati kunye nomvundla?
Ukuba ucwangcisa ukwamkela enye okanye enye, sicebisa ukuba ulandele ingcebiso yethu:
Zombini kufuneka zibe ziinjana
Ingakumbi ikati. I-Feline, njengoko besitshilo, phakathi kwe-2 kunye ne-3 yeenyanga ubudala idlula ixesha elibaluleke kakhulu lokufunda, apho kufuneka banxibelelane nazo zonke iintlobo zezilwanyana ukuba usapho lwabo lwabantu bafuna ukuba bahlangane (okanye ubuncinci basebenzise ubukho babo). Oku kuyakukhupha kwiingxaki ezininzi kwixesha elifutshane neliphakathi.
Ukongeza, xa kufikwa kumvundla, esi sisilwanyana esikhawulezayo sokufunda ekufuneka sizikhusele kumarhamncwa. Ke ngoko, ukuba ufuna ukuba ahambisane nekati yakho, kuya kufuneka umthathe xa esemncinci, ngakumbi ngakumbi, phambi kokuba abe neenyanga ezintathu ubudala. Kodwa ewe, musa ukumehlula kunina ade afunde ukutya yedwa, kuba ayizomlunga lonto naye.
Bakhathalele kwaye udlale nabo yonke imihla
Yonke imihla kufuneka ubaphe ukutya -ukutya kweekati kwi-feline, iminqathe umzekelo kumvundla- Zombini ngaxeshanye. Kodwa kuya kufuneka udlale nabo kwaye uqaphele kakhulu. Kuya kufuneka uchithe ixesha kunye nabo, ungaze ubashiye bengagadwanga. Nokuba awukho, kuyacetyiswa ukuba uwushiye umvundla kwindlwana yayo-enkulu kwaye ibanzi kangangoko-ukuze iqhubeke nokudibana nomnwe kodwa kwindawo ekhuselekileyo.
Zive ukhululekile ukuphulula enye kuqala kwaye emva koko enye. Ngale ndlela, imizimba yabo iya kuba nevumba lomnye, kwaye kulungile kakhulu kuba ngale ndlela bayakwazisana njengosapho.
Nayi ividiyo apho ungabona khona ikati kunye nomvundla onethuba elimnandi:
Thintela uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo
Izilwanyana zithambile kwaye zinokuchaphazeleka kakhulu kukungonwabi kwethu. Ukuba sizisa uxinzelelo ekhaya, kulula ukuba izilwanyana ezinoboya azikwazi ukuhlala ngokonwaba, kuba ayisiyiyo leya yokuba 'ziyaphefumla' ekhaya. Ukongeza, kubalulekile ukuba bangaphazanyiswa, kuba ukuba kukho umntu ofuna ukubabamba rhoqo okanye abanyanzele ukuba benze izinto abangazifuniyo, akufuneki kusothuse xa kuvela iingxaki kwaye abakwazi kuhlangana ngendlela echanekileyo.
Ke, ukuba sihamba ngexesha elibi, kungcono ukuba siyokuhambahamba, siqhelise imidlalo okanye senze eyona nto siyithandayo, kwaye sifike ekhaya ngokuzolileyo ukuze abo banoboya bonwabele inkampani yethu ngokupheleleyo.
Ungayithintela njani ikati yam ekuhlaseleni umvundla?
Indlela yokuphepha olu hlaselo kukunxulumana zombini xa zizinjana. Ukuba ikati sele indala xa umvundla usamkelwa, ngelishwa eyona nto iqhelekileyo kukuba ifuna ukuyihlasela ngokulandela ithuku layo.. Ungalibali ukuba iikati zizilwanyana ezitya inyama, zizirhamncwa; Imivundla kwelinye icala, ixhoba kwindalo yendalo.
Ukuba sifuna ukutshintsha imeko kancinane, ukuba sifuna ukuba bobabini sibe ngabahlobo endaweni yeentshaba, kuya kufuneka sibamkele besebancinci; kungenjalo siyakunyanzelwa ukuba sizigcine zahluliwe ukuze sikhusele umvundla.
Ndiyathemba ukuba iluncedo kuwe.