Ngokuqinisekileyo wakhe wadibana nekati ethi, ngaphandle kokuhlala nosapho, ibe nokunyamezelana okuphantsi kakhulu kunxibelelwano oluye lwaba ndlongondlongo nje nje ukuba uyichukumise, nokuba ibichukumisa nje. Le yeyona mpendulo ixhaphakileyo kunokuba ucinga, kwimeko apho sidibana nesilwanyana, asinakukunyanzela ukuba uvumeleke uthinteke, kungenjalo siya kugqibela ngokukrwela kunye / okanye ukuluma.
Ubundlongondlongo beekati ebantwini kufuneka buphathwe, ngomonde, ngemidlalo nangezinye iindlela esiza kuzichaza. Kufuneka uyihloniphe isilwanyana ngalo lonke ixesha; kungoko kuphela apho sinokuthi simenze atshintshe indlela aziphethe ngayo, okanye ubuncinci musa ukuba ndlongondlongo ebantwini.
Oonobangela bokuba nekati ngomsindo ebantwini
Ngaphambi kokuba uyinyange, kuya kufuneka ufumanise ukuba kutheni iziphatha ngolu hlobo. Kukho iikati ezingafuniyo ukuphathwa, kanye njengokuba kukho abantu abangakuthandiyo ukudibana ngokwasemzimbeni kakhulu, kodwa kukho abanye abahlukumezekileyo ngumntu ngenxa yoko baye baba noloyiko olukhulu ngabo.
Esinye isizathu isenokuba kukuba uziva iintlungu okanye ungonwabanga kwindawo ethile yomzimba wakho. Lo nto, ayikhathazi ukutyelela ugqirha wezilwanyana ukwazi ukuba into ibuhlungu ngokwenene. Kwimeko apho yonke into ilungile, kuya kuba kuthi ukufumanisa unobangela wokuba ndlongondlongo kwakhe: ukuxhatshazwa ngaphambili (okanye okwangoku), okanye indlela yokuziphatha kuye.
Ngokwenene kulula kakhulu kunokuba kuvakala. Ndiza kukuxelela ukuba kutheni: ikati ephethwe gadalala, okanye ehlukunyezwayo ngoku, ukongeza ekubeni ndlongondlongo ebantwini, uyakubona ukuba iyangcangcazela ngamanye amaxesha, ukuba ihlala kude nosapho, ukuba akanamdla kakhulu, okanye nokuba uyazisindisa kwitreyi. Esi sisilwanyana esihlala ngoloyiko, kwaye Uya kudinga umonde omninzi kwaye, mhlawumbi, uncedo lwe-feline ethologist ukuze uphinde ubenako ukuzithemba.
Ungaziphatha njani iikati ezinobundlobongela ebantwini
Nokuba siyintoni na isizathu, gcinani engqondweni ukuba Ukumngxolisa okanye ukumbetha asizukufumana nto. Ukuyiphatha siza kubhenela kwiindlela ezingayi kuba yingozi. Umzekelo:
Chitha ixesha naye
Ikati enobundlongondlongo kubagcini bayo kungekudala iyayeka ukuba ndlongondlongo ukuba bayadlala nayo, ukuba bachitha ixesha nayo. Ewe, akufuneki sisebenzise izandla zethu, kodwa siyakuhlala sibeka into yokudlala (intonga yokuloba, ibhokisi, isilwanyana esifakiweyo) phakathi kwethu kunye noboya. Kwakhona, kumaxesha ngamaxesha Siza kukuvuza ngento oyithandayo kakhulu, njengamathini eekati.
Chonga iimpawu zobundlongondlongo
Ikati eziva ingonwabanga kwaye / okanye iba ndlongondlongo iya kuqala ukubetha umhlaba ngencam yomsila wayo ukusuka kwelinye icala ukuya kwelinye, ukujonga kwayo kuya kujika kujonge 'kumchasi' wayo, iinwele zayo ziya kuma, iindlebe zayo ziya kuthi Yima nabo ekupheleni. Uya kuba nabo ngasemva (ukuba uyoyika okanye uziva unganqabisekanga) okanye uye phambili (ukuba ukulungele ukuhlasela). Kananjalo iya kubonisa ukubola kwayo kwaye incamathele ngaphandle. Iyakwazi ukukhwaza, ukukrwela kunye / okanye ukuluma, ke eyona nto intle ukuyenza kukulindela kwaye uyeke wedwa.
Uxinzelelo lwendalo kwiikati
Ukuba ikati yethu iyakhathazeka okanye inomdla wokuba ndlongondlongo, ayizukunyanzeleka ukuba siyinyamekele kwaye ibe nomonde omkhulu, kodwa sinokuyinceda ukuba izole ngokwenza oku kulandelayo:
- Ukutshiza nge ioyile efunekayo yeorenji indlu, okanye ukufumana amakhandlela anale oyile.
- Ukongeza ii-4 zehla U ku sindisa ukusuka kwi-Bach ukuya ekutyeni okanye emanzini akho.
- Unyango nge iipheromones. Ezi mveliso zinokufumaneka kwiiklinikhi zonyango lwezilwanyana okanye kwiivenkile zezilwanyana zasekhaya.
Ukuba ndlongondlongo kweekati ebantwini kunokulungiswa ngokuba nomonde nangokuhlonipha isilwanyana 🙂.
enkosi ngedatha, ndiza kufunda ukunika lonke uthando kwikati yam!
Molo Monica,
Ndiyayithanda le post, nangona bendingazukuthetha 'ngoburharha'. Kuwo onke amatyala achaziweyo, ikati 'ayihlaseli' kodwa IYAZIKHUSELA, (umahluko omkhulu lowo). Ukuba siyabazi, sifunda ulwimi lwabo lomzimba kwaye siyazihlonipha iikati zethu, hayi 'ukuzihlikihla' ukuba / xa bengafuni, sikuphepha ngokulula ukuphendula okungathandekiyo.
Ityala elikhethekileyo liikati eziye zaphathwa gadalala. Omnye wabahlobo bam abathandana nabantu abane-sequelae ebonakalayo yobomi ngenxa yokuphathwa gadalala, kuthathe iinyanga ukuzivumela ukuba achukunyiswe, eluma ngokungakhathali). Ngomonde omninzi kunye nenkxaso kaFlores Bach, namhlanje uyikati ekrelekrele kakhulu. Ngendlela, zingama-4 × 4 amathontsi / imini kwaye nangona uhlangulo lusebenza kakuhle kuzo zonke iimeko zoxinzelelo, kungcono ukunyanga uloyiko kunye neengxaki ezithile ngomxube owenzelwe umntu ngamnye ngumgqirha. Ioyile yeorenji ayinakukucebisa, kuba iikati azithandi ivumba le-citrus.
Imibuliso kaFeline
Ndiyavuya uyayithanda 🙂
Kuyinyani ukuba ayilithandi ivumba le-citrus, ke kuyacetyiswa ukufafaza iikona okanye ezo kona apho ikati ingachithi kakhulu.
I-Bach Flowers esetyenziswe kwiikati, kwaye isetyenziswe ngokuchanekileyo, iyamangalisa. Ndinike owam uhlangulo ehlotyeni kwiholide, kwaye u-Agasti lowo wayeyeyona cwaka sasinayo. Kakhulu, kucetyiswa kakhulu, ngakumbi emva kokuba ulifundile ityala lomnye wabahlobo bakho abathandekayo.
A ubingelele.
Enkosi kuwe 🙂
Ikati yam iqale ngohlobo oluthile lokoyika kubazala bam, ndicinga ukuba banoluhlobo oluthile lobundlongondlongo okanye benza into kuye, ndiza kuphanda ngakumbi.
Molweni neenkampani.
Ngethemba ukuba ungayilungisa.
Tyhila.
Siyavuya uyayithanda, igalufa 🙂