Xa ukhathalela i-feline koloni, ngamanye amaxesha uzifumana ukwimeko yokuba uthathe elinye lamalungu uye kugqirha wezilwanyana, nokuba wenze uvavanyo okanye umthathe angabinayo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba loo ndoda inoboya ayinakuthemba kakhulu okwangoku, kuya kuba nzima kakhulu ukumbamba. Okanye mhlawumbi akunjalo 😉.
Kuyinyani ukuba ayisiyonto ilula leyo, kodwa ayinakwenzeka. Ndiza kukucacisela apha ngezantsi indlela yokutsala ikati elahlekileyo ngaphandle kwesidingo sokukhusela izandla zakho ngeiglavu.
Yintoni ekufuneka uyazi malunga neekati ezilahlekileyo?
Ukwazi ukuba ubatsala njani, kufuneka kuqala ubazi kancinane 🙂. Ezitratweni zeedolophu nasezixekweni sinokufumana izilwanyana ezininzi ezinoboya, ezihlelwa njenge:
- Iikati zangaphandle: ngabo bazalwa bakhulela esitalatweni, phantse ngaphandle kokunxibelelana nabantu (ngaphandle kwabo baphethe ukubaphathela ukutya, kodwa nangona kunjalo kwaye lonke olu hlobo loqhakamshelwano lubonakala ngakumbi kunayo nayiphi na enye into; ukuvumela ukuchukumisa, kuncinci ukukhetha). Olunye ulwazi.
- Iikati ezilahliweyo: ngabo bahlala nabantu emakhayeni abo, kodwa belahliwe ngenxa yezizathu ezithile. Ezi zinoboya zihlukaniswa ngokukhawuleza kwabanye, kuba nangona zinokoyikisa ekuqaleni, zihlala zinokuzithemba kwangoko xa zibona ukuba ufuna ukubanceda, ukubanika ukutya kunye / okanye uthando.
- Amakati kwimeko yenkululeko: ezi kati azilahlekanga, masithi, ziyinyani, kuba zinosapho lwabantu. Nangona kunjalo, njengoko banokuchitha ixesha elininzi ezitratweni, kunokwenzeka ukuba baya kusondela kwikoloni okanye batyelele kakhulu ukuya kwinqanaba lokuba lilungu layo. Umlingiswa wabo uhlala enobuhlobo, mhlawumbi engafane yenzeke, kodwa ababonakalisi uloyiko xa bekunye nabantu. Ukongeza, ezi kati ziqhelekile ukunxiba ikhola.
Kuxhomekeke ekubeni luhlobo luni na lwekati, kuya kuba lula okanye kube nzima ngakumbi ukubatsala. Ngoku, kukho iqhinga ekunzima ukuba usilele kulo.
Indlela yokutsala iikati ezilahlekileyo?
Iikati ezilahlekileyo, ngaphandle kokuba zinokutya imini yonke, zihlala zizilwanyana ezifuna into yokuyifaka emlonyeni wazo rhoqo. Ndingakuxelela nokuba, kwikholoni endiyikhathaleleyo, kuhlala kukho ikati endikhangelayo kwaye inditsalela umnxeba ukongeza enye ndicinga, kwaye ndishiya umkhombe ugcwele uphuphuma.
Ukutsala, Kuya kufuneka uthathe ithuba loko, kwindlala-okanye umnqweno wokucela ukutya- abaziva, kwaye ubanike iitoti zokutya kwekati emanzi. Uloyiko yimvakalelo enokubakhubaza, kodwa ithuku lokusinda lomelele ngakumbi. Ke ngoko, ukuba uza kudibana nesilwanyana esidinga uncedo lwezilwanyana, kuyacetyiswa ukuba uyiyeke ilambe kancinci kwaye wazise isondli ngokutya okumanzi ngaphakathi kwekheyiji yekati (kwintengiso apha), emva koko ufihle.
Ngamanye amaxesha kungathatha ixesha ukumfaka ehokweni, kodwa ukuba ulambile uyakuphela esenza njalo. Nje ukuba uyifezekise injongo yakho, mgqume ngetawuli ukuze azole kwaye amse kugqirha wezilwanyana. Ukuba uthi uphilile kwaye into ayifunayo kukutyeba, unokumthwala kunye nabanye; Nangona kunjalo, ukuba unesifo esosulelayo, kungcono ukuba nomnye umntu ongenazo iikati amnyamekele ade ayifumane kwakhona impilo yakhe, kuba kungenjalo uya kubeka impilo nobomi bezinye izilwanyana ezinoboya emngciphekweni.
Kufuneka nini ukubatsala?
Iikati ezilahlekileyo zizilwanyana ezihlala kufuneka ziphephe okanye ziphephe iingozi ezininzi ukuze zisinde. Nokuba zezasendle okanye zilahliwe, iingozi kunye neetyhefu, kunye nokuphathwa gadalala kwazo, ngelishwa ngumhla wosuku.
Kungenxa yoko, soloko kufuneka ujonge ukuba indawo abakuyo ikhuselekile ngokuphakathi na (iipaki okanye izitiya umzekelo), kwaye ukuba akunjalo, jonga ukubatshintshela kwenye. Kwimeko yokuba ziikati ezingekho semthethweni, eyona nto ifanelekileyo kukuba, kuqala, kukuba iintsapho zabo zibase kugqirha wezilwanyana ukuze bancitshiswe, emva koko banxibelelane nabo xa kufanelekile ukuze babazi ubungozi bokubaleka kwemfuyo yabo. njengoko besenokuba bafudukile kutshanje.
Enye imeko apho kufuneka kutsalwe iikati ezilahlekileyo yile kufuna ingqalelo yezilwanyana. Ukophuka, ukugula, ukonzakala ... Nakuphi na ukungonwabi abanako kunye / okanye esikrokrela ukuba kuyabakhathaza kwaye / okanye kubenzakalisa, kufanele kube ngaphezulu kwesizathu esaneleyo sokubasa kugqirha wezilwanyana. Kuya kufuneka kwakhona ukubatsala xa ilixesha lokuba ubasuse (malunga neenyanga ezintandathu ubudala) ukulawula ikati kuloo ndawo.
Kwaye oku sigqibile. Siyathemba ukuba yonke into oyifundileyo apha iluncedo kuwe kwaye uyakwazi ukutsala iikati ezilahlekileyo.