Ikati iyakwazi ukusothusa ngokuziphatha kwayo. Ngamanye amaxesha kuyasihlekisa, ngamanye amaxesha kuyasikhathaza, kwaye abanye abaninzi kusishiya nolwandle lokuthandabuza xa singakwazi ukukuqonda. Kwaye esi silwanyana, ngenkangeleko yasendle, nangona sikwazile ukuziqhelanisa nehlabathi elinabantu, akayekanga ukuba yindyikitya yokufa, njengengwe okanye ingonyama.
Ke, ukufumanisa ukuba kutheni ikati yam iqengqeleka emhlabeni, sinokufumana impendulo ukuba sijonga iikati ezinkulu ezihlala endle.
Kutheni iikati ziqengqeleka emdaka?
Ngokwenza njalo, siya kuyazi ngokukhawuleza loo nto iipheromones badlala indima ebaluleke kakhulu kubudlelwane bakho boluntu. Enkosi kubo, banokwazi umzekelo ukuba umntu obhinqileyo ushushu, okanye ukuba enye ikati ifuna ukukhusela indawo yayo ngokushiya ivumba lomzimba wayo. Ke ngoko, xa eqengqeleka emhlabeni, into azama ukuyenza yile yokugqibela.
Zonke izilwanyana, kubandakanywa nabantu, zikhupha ivumba lomzimba elinokuqondakala kancinci okanye kancinci kuxhomekeke kwindlela ephuculwe ngayo ivumba, kwaye ukuba kukho ilungu "elongezelelekileyo" elisivumela ukuba siphunga amavumba kuninzi lwezinto eziphilayo abakwazi ukuqonda. Kwimeko yeekati, eli lungu longezelelweyo libizwa ngokuba yiJacobson, ebekwe ezantsi nje kwenkalakahla. (Olunye ulwazi malunga nokumakisha kwe-feline apha).
Kodwa hayi, ayenzi nje kuphela ukumakisha kodwa kwakhona ukupholisa Ngexesha leentsuku zasehlotyeni, kuba, nangona iguqulelwe kwimozulu efudumeleyo, ayisiyonto ilulutho ukuba isuka entlango, ukuba amaqondo obushushu aphezulu kwaye ahlala iintsuku ezininzi, kunokuba nexesha elibi ukuba akunjalo ikhuselekile. Enye indlela athe wafumanisa ukuba uyenzile le kukulala phantsi aqengqe kwiindawo ezibandayo, ezinjengeethayile.
Ikati yam iqengqeleka emhlabeni xa indibona, ngoba?
El Ulwimi lomzimba lweekati lucebile kakhulu, kwaye le yinto abantu abahlala nabo abanokuyiqinisekisa yonke imihla. Kodwa ukongeza, ezi zilwanyana zinokwenza ubudlelwane obukhethekileyo nosapho lwakho-okanye umntu osapho lwakho-ongumntu. Yiyo loo nto xa sibuyele ekhaya emva kokuhamba ithutyana, belala phantsi kwaye beqengqeleka.
Umbuzo ngulo, kutheni bayenza ngokuchanekileyo? Ewe, xa izilwanyana okanye nasiphi na isilwanyana silele ngomqolo sishiya ezona ndawo zisemngciphekweni zivelile, kungoko sinokuthatha ukuba bayakwenza kuphela xa baziva bekhuselekile kwaye beqinisekile. Ngamanye amagama: ukuba ikati yakho iqengqeleka emhlabeni xa ikubona, Ukuxelela ukuba uyavuya kakhulu ukukubona.
Ikati yam idibanisa kwaye iyathambisa, ifuna ntoni?
Le yiklasikhi. Ubuyela ekhaya, okanye ilixa elikhethekileyo, kwaye ikati isondela kuwe uzibambe ngendlela enomdla ngelixa uziphulula. Yintoni le izama ukusixelela yona? Ngaphambi kokuba uphendule lo mbuzo, mandikuxelele ukuba le sisilwanyana esilandela inkqubo yesiqhelo. Le ndlela inokulungiswa kuphela ukuba uyayithanda okanye uyaxhamla kule nto intsha ngandlela thile, kuba kubiza imali encinci ukuyifaka kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla.
Ke Ukuba uqhele ukumnika, umzekelo, itoti yokutya okumanzi ngaxeshanye yonke imihla, ndiyakuqinisekisa ukuba le kati iyakuqala ukuzicola nokuzikhuhla xa umzuzu usondela. Ewe akazazi iiyure, kodwa akukho mfuneko yakwenza oko. Uziva ukuba uza kuyinika iintshukumo zakho, kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba ngamazwi owathethayo kuye (kwaye hayi, akayikuqonda intsingiselo yala magama, kodwa ayanyaniswa nento leyo uza kumnika).
Kutheni ikati yam iwela phantsi?
Ukuba sinekati, kusenokwenzeka ukuba iwele phantsi ngenxa yezizathu esele sizichazile (ifuna into kwaye / okanye inomdla nje), kodwa ukuba ayithathiOko kukuthi, ukuba khange simse kugqirha wezilwanyana ukuba asuswe amaqanda okanye isibeleko, kabini ngonyaka baya kuba nenzondelelo.
Ngala maxesha, uya kuba nothando ngakumbi. Iza kuwela emhlabeni, iya kugudla imilenze yethu rhoqo, kwaye iya kuthoba kancinci ebusuku. Konke ngenjongo eyodwa kukuba simvumele ashiye indlu ukuze aye kufumana iqabane, into esingafanele kuyenza kuba umngcipheko wokuba siphulukane nayo ngonaphakade okanye ukuba ingozi yenzekile iphezulu kakhulu, ngakumbi ukuba sihlala esixekweni okanye edolophini.
Ukuthintela iingxaki, kungcono ukuyicola, kucetyiswa ukuba uyenze ngaphambi kobushushu bokuqala (okt, ukusukela kwiinyanga ezi-5-6 ubudala).
Ke ukuba ikati yakho ityikitya emhlabeni, uyazi ukuba inokuphawula indawo yayo okanye ikhangele indlela yokuzikhusela ebushushwini 🙂.
Ndinomdla omkhulu, ndinekati eyayineentsana kwiintsuku ezingama-28 ezidlulileyo, kwaye into engaqhelekanga kukuba iyafunxa (yomile) umchamo wepodle kwaye uyathanda ukuziqengqa kuyo
Molo Andrea.
Ewe, inyani kukuba andazi kutheni esenza njalo. Mhlawumbi uyenza ngenxa yevumba, ekufuneka alithande.
Ukuba ubona ukuba uphila ubomi obuqhelekileyo, andinakukhathazeka, kodwa ukuba uyabona ukuba indlela aziphatha ngayo iyatshintsha okanye unazo naziphi na iimpawu ezenza ukrokre (ukugabha, isicaphucaphu, urhudo, ukuphelelwa ngumdla ...), ungathandabuzi ukumsa kugqirha wezilwanyana.
A ubingelele.
Kuba ikati yam xa yayimphulula ize ijikeleze emhlabeni, iyikati engathembakali
Molo Ana.
Kungenzeka ukuba ufuna ukufumana iphunga lomzimba wakho phantsi.
Ngapha koko, ukufumana ukuzithemba kwabo, okanye ukuqinisa, ndincoma ukubanika ukutya kwekati emanzi (iinkonkxa) amaxesha ngamaxesha, kwaye badlale ngayo yonke imihla.
A ubingelele.
Molo Gise.
Uxolo, andinakuxelela. Andililo ugqirha wezilwanyana.
Ndicebisa ukumsa kugqirha wezilwanyana ukuze ajonge.
Ndiyathemba ukuba niza kuba bhetele kungekudala.
A ubingelele.
Nokuba ziphi izizathu ezibini ezichaziweyo, zikwayindawo yokutsala umdla, ngokwenza umboniso !!! Ndayihlala iminyaka engama-20 nenye yosana lwam. Ukuba uyamqhwabela izandla athethe izinto ezintle angazibhuqa ...