Iikati esizaziyo namhlanje, abo babelana ngobomi nathi ngokutshintshela uphahla ukuzikhusela, ukutya nothando, bakha bahlala ngaphandle. Bakhokelela kubomi obuzimeleyo, njengoko uninzi lweekati zisenza kwindawo yazo yendalo, kwaye zazihlangana kuphela xa yayilixesha lokuzala.
Ngaphandle kwexesha elidlulileyo ukusukela ngelo xesha -kujikeleze i-10 lamawaka-, indlela aziphethe ngayo ayitshintshanga. Ithuku lemvelo leekati lisaphila kakhulu namhlanje.
I-Instincts zezi zeempendulo eziguqukayo eziguqulelwa kwimilinganiselo yokuziphatha engagungqiyo. Uninzi lweendlela zokuziphatha kweekati ziyafundwa, kodwa ezo zinxulumene nokusinda sele zizelwe zizazi, ezinje ngesenzo sokuncanca kwangoko xa umama esihlambululayo emva kokubeleka, okanye sokuhlala nabantakwabo ukuze banga ulahlekelwe bubushushu.
Kwimidlalo ungabona ubume bendalo beekati. Emva kwenyanga okanye kunjalo, sele beqalile ukudlala, ukuleqa izinto, ukuluma yonke into abayifumanayo, ukutsiba, ... ngokufutshane, baqala ukuba ziikati. Bazenza ezi zinto ngendlela yokuziphatha, kungekho mntu ubafundisayo.
Kwiikati, iindlela ezintathu zokuziphatha ezinokubonakaliswa ngaphezu kwazo zonke ezibenza babe zizilwanyana ezintle:
Isilwanyana esihlala sodwa ngendalo
Amakati zizilwanyana ezihlala zodwa ngendalo. Azizingeli okanye zitye ngokwamaqela njengeengonyama, kwaye zinendawo enkulu. Banenkqubo yonxibelelwano ebavumela ukuba bazi ukuba baziva njani abanye kwaye ke ngaloo ndlela banomdla wokuphendula kubo; ke ngoko, kulula kubo ukuphepha ungquzulwano.
Zilunge kakhulu, kodwa Kuyimfuneko ukuba ukhumbule ukuba ayizizo izilwanyana zasekhaya ngokwenyani, kodwa zezona zisivumelayo ukuba sihlale kwindawo yabo.
Ithuku lokuzingela
Asisoloko sicinga ngayo, kodwa iikati zizilwanyana ezizingelayo. Kufuneka bazingele ukuze baphile, kodwa ayinguye wonke umntu owaziyo ukuba makenze ntoni ngexhoba xa sele lithinjiwe. Inyaniso, abo bangenayo enye into yokubafundisa ukuba batshaye okokugqibela, into abaya kuyenza kukudlala naye ... okanye bamse ekhaya..
Amakati azingela-okanye azame-kuba zineekati nje ezindala. Umdlalo-ewe, ngeentambo kunye nezilwanyana ezifakiweyo 🙂 -bazivumela ukuba bomeleze izihlunu zabo ngelixa begqibezela izakhono zabo zokuzingela njengokulandela kunye nokuthimba.
Ithuku lokuzala
Zonke izilwanyana zinethuku elisisiseko lokugcina iintlobo zazo ngokuzala. Kwimeko yeekati, ziyazala ngeenyanga ezifudumeleyo ukuze amantshontsho azo abe nethuba elingcono lokusinda. Kodwa, bakudibana, umfazi uya kushiyeka yedwa.
Ikati ngumama olunge kakhulu, ukusukela oko ukhathalela abantwana bakho kude kube bayakwazi ukuzisebenzela, kwaye uya kubakhusela kwiintshaba ezinokubakho. Uya kubakhathalela ngononophelo olukhulu kunye nothando, kwaye xa ixesha lifikile, uya kubafundisa yonke into abayifunayo ukuba babe ngabazingeli abagqwesileyo.
Iikati. Kuyamangalisa, kuyathandeka, kwaye kuyathandwa kakhulu.