Kukho iikati ezithanda ukuba ngaphandle. Kwaye banokuyithanda kakhulu kangangokuba beza kutya nje kwaye yiyo loo nto. Ngaba unokwenza okuthile ukubenza bachithe ixesha elininzi ekhaya, okanye ngaba zizilwanyana eziye zaba "sisiqingatha sendalo" kwaye akukho nto yokwenza?
Ukuba ikati yam iza kuphela ukutya, kukho izinto ezinokwenziwa ukuzama ukuba ihlale ixesha elide, kodwa kuya kufuneka ungaguquguquki kuba kungenjalo asizukuyiphumeza.
Kutheni iikati zishiya indlu?
Amakati angashiya ikhaya lakho ngezizathu ezininzi:
Ithuku
Siyalibala rhoqo, kodwa Iikati ezihlala nathi ziphuma kusapho olunye neengonyama, izingwe, njl.; Oko kukuthi, zizilwanyana. Ngale nto ndithetha ukuba siphila nabantu abanoboya abathanda inkululeko.
Zilungiselelwe ubomi kwindalo (ngendalo ndiyathetha emaphandleni, iifama zesintu apho kukho iinkukhu kunye nezinye izilwanyana zemfuyo ezinxibelelana nengca kwaye zingafakwanga kheyiji, ... ngokufutshane, kwiindawo ezingezizo ezasedolophini). Apho banokubona amavumba ahlukeneyo, beva izandi ezahlukeneyo, bachukumise izinto ezahlukeneyo.
Ngaphandle kukho ubomi obuninzi: iintaka, izinambuzane, izityalo. Ngaphakathi endlwini yonke into 'ifile': ifanitshala, iindonga,… yonke into igcwele izinto ezingaphiliyo.
Nangona kunjalo, iikati azi ukuba ngoku uninzi lwabantu luhlala ezixekweni nasezidolophini, kude nasemaphandleni. Kwezitalato zinobungozi obuninzi (iimoto, ityhefu, ...), kodwa uboya bufuna ukulandela ubuchule babo. Kungoko kucetyiswa kakhulu ukuba benze konke okusemandleni ukuze bangaze baphume endlwini.
Ukukruquka
Amakati afuna ukuvuselelwa. Kungenxa yoko le nto ukuba bechitha iintsuku zabo bengenzi nto, besembindini wekona, kunye / okanye belele esofeni, kusenokwenzeka ukuba bazakushiya ikhaya kwakamsinya nje bakufumana ithuba.
Ukuyiphepha, Kuya kufuneka udlale nabo okwethutyana yonke imihla, kwaye ubagcine njengenkampani kangangoko. Akwanele ukubathanda nje: kufuneka ubenze bonwabe ngokwenene.
Uxinzelelo, uloyiko
Akukho mfuneko yokuba babe nemvelaphi efanayo, kodwa iikati ezihlala ziphantsi koxinzelelo, nokuba ngumzekelo ngenxa yokuhamba okanye ukufika kosana okanye isilwanyana esinoboya, sinokuchitha ixesha elininzi kude nekhaya. Kwaye masingathethi nokuba bahlala ngoloyiko: kwezi meko umngcipheko wokushiya kwabo uphezulu kakhulu kunakwisiqhelo, nesempilweni.
Ukuphuculwa kobomi bosapho kuya kuba yimfuneko kwezi feline. Kuya kufuneka wenze intshayelelo ngokuchanekileyo, kwaye wenze onke amalungu osapho aqonde ukuba iikati zifanelwe kukuhlonitshwa nokukhathalelwa.
Kufuneka wenze ntoni ukuze ikati ihlale ixesha elide ekhaya?
Ngaphandle, ikati inokuba nexesha elimnandi: kuninzi ukunuka, ukuphanda, ukuphonononga,…! Ukuba sifuna ukuba achithe ixesha elininzi ngaphakathi endlwini nathi, into ekufuneka siyenzile kukuzama ukumenza onwabe ngokufanayo, okanye angcono, kunangaphandle. Njani? Ukulungelelanisa indlu kwi-feline uhlala nathi.
Uyakuthanda ukulawula ummandla wakhe, kwaye yeyiphi indlela ebhetele yokwenza ngaphandle ukwazi ukunyuka kwishelufu esongelwe ngentambo ye-raffia okanye ilaphu elifakiweyo ke ungathatha isihlwathi ukuba ukozela ngequbuliso.
Omnye umba obalulekileyo lixesha esilichitha naye. Oku kufuneka kube ngumgangatho, oko kukuthi, Kufuneka sinxibelelane naye, sidlale naye, kwaye simnike uthando oluninzi. Xa sikunye nekati yethu ethandekayo kunyanzelekile ukuba simenze abone ukuba angaphila nathi nokuba angonwaba kakhulu.
Ke, amaxesha ngamaxesha sinokumnika itoti yokutya kwekati emanzi, sifihle ukuphatha endlini ukuze abakhangele, okanye Gcwalisa isixhobo sokuhambisa ukuze usijike ukuze ufumane ibhaso lakho.
Ngaba iikati zingahlala endlwini zingaphumi?
Baninzi abantu abacinga ukuba iikati kufuneka zibe nemvume yokuphuma ngaphandle 'ewe okanye ewe', kungenjalo kuya kuba kuchasene nobudoda babo. Kwaye andizukuyikhanyela: Isizathu siyasilela, kodwa Zininzi, iingozi ezininzi ezitalatweni zethu ezibenza bahambe babuye naninina xa beziva ngathi ngumngcipheko ekungafuneki ukuba siwuthathe., Nokuba ziikati okanye iintsapho zabo.
Ukuba siyayiqhelanisa nendlu kuboOko kukuthi, ukuba uthenga abathengisi, ukuba sidlala nabo yonke imihla, ukuba sibenza bazive ngathi bayinxalenye yosapho, Abayi kuphoswa yile nkululeko besithetha ngayo ngaphambiliEwe, ngaphakathi kwamakhaya abo baya kuba beziva bekhululekile.
Ke akukho nto, ndingakuxelela kuphela ukuba ndiyathemba ukuba uyifumene inomdla kwaye, ngaphezulu kwako konke, le uyifundileyo iluncedo 🙂.