Kwiminyaka embalwa ngoku, iikati bezingafunyanwa emakhaya kuphela, kodwa zikwanceda abo bazidinga kakhulu: abantu abadala, abagulayo abasezibhedlele, okanye abantwana. Ezi zilwanyana zivelisa okona kulungileyo kuthi, kwaye zisigcina sixakekile, ke siyabulela kuzo Siziva siluncedo kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke, sithandwa.
Zombini ziyinkxaso yomzimba kunye nengqondo, ke ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo ikati lolona nyango lulungileyo lwabantwana.
Kwaye kukuba izibonelelo zonyango kunye neekati zininzi kwaye zahlukahlukene, phakathi kwazo esigqamisa kuzo:
- Babuyela kowona mntwana unovelwano: Amakati awagwebi, ajonga wena kuphela kobo buso bumnandi bufunileyo bathandana. Isimo sakhe esizolileyo senza konke okunye.
- Bayayiphucula imeko yabo: Xa begula, bahlala bezalathisa iingcinga zabo kwisifo sabo, kodwa ukuba banekati ejikelezayo, kulula ukuba bayeke ukuchitha ixesha lokucinga ngayo kwaye bachithe ixesha labo bekhathalela isilwanyana.
- Yehlisa uxinzelelo lwegazi: ukusebenzisana nekati, oko kukuthi, ukuba iphulwe kunye / okanye yathetha kuyo, uxinzelelo luyehla
- Banxibelelana ngcono nonyango lwabo: Xa abantwana bechitha ixesha neekati, kancinci ukuzithemba kwabo kuyanda, kunye nokuzithemba kwabo. Ngokwenza njalo, ubenza baveze iimvakalelo zabo. Ke ingcali inokukunceda.
- Zikwenza uzive uluncedo: usenokufuna ukulungisa ukutya kwakhe kwaye adlale ngawo, esisizathu esomeleleyo sokuba umntwana onwabele ukuba kunye nekati.
Amakati ziqabane elihle. Banokukunceda nakweyiphi na imeko, nokuba unengxaki. Bayayazi indlela yokunxibelelana ne "me" yakho yokwenyani, kwaye kufuneka benze ntoni ukuze, kancinci kancinci, ube neentsuku ezintle. Ngenxa yokuba bangamaqabane afanelekileyo. 😉