Siyazi ukuba ixesha lokuphila kwekati, ngelishwa, lifutshane kakhulu kunelabantu, kodwa njengentshisakalo singahlala sizibuza ukuba ingaba ubudala bethu bubudala kangakanani ukuba bekungubudala bethu.
Ukuqonda utshintsho olwenzekayo emzimbeni wakho yazi mingaphi iminyaka yabantu ikati iphila yinto eza kuza iluncedo, kuba ngaloo ndlela sinokuyinyamekela ngcono.
Ikati yam indala kangakanani umntu?
Singafunda njani kwi Oku kubhaliwe, Kuxhomekeka ekubeni iya phesheya okanye ayifumani, ikati ingaphila iminyaka eli-15. Ukongeza kwezi zinto, zikhona ezinye ezinje ngokutya, izitofu zonyango kunye namayeza-anikwa nanini na xa kukho imfuneko yoko phantsi kwengcebiso yeengcali-angabandisa ubomi bakho; Kuyinyani ayisiyonto ingako, kodwa mhlawumbi yanele ukuze sikwazi ukulungiselela ukuhamba kwakhe.
Ngesi sizathu, ukuba netafile apho sixelelwa khona ukuba mdala kangakanani oyena mhlobo wethu onobuhle yinto enokuba luncedo kakhulu kuthi, ke nantsi unayo:
| Ubudala bekati | Ubudala bomntu |
| 0 - 1 inyanga | 0 - 1 unyaka |
| Iinyanga ezi-2 - 3 | Iminyaka engama-2 |
| Iinyanga ze4 | Iminyaka engama-6 |
| Iinyanga ze6 | 10 iminyaka |
| Iinyanga ze8 | 15 iminyaka |
| 1 ngonyaka | 18 iminyaka |
| 2 iminyaka | 24 iminyaka |
| 4 iminyaka | 32 iminyaka |
| 6 iminyaka | 40 iminyaka |
| 8 iminyaka | 48 iminyaka |
| 10 iminyaka | 56 iminyaka |
| 12 iminyaka | 64 iminyaka |
| 14 iminyaka | 72 iminyaka |
| 16 iminyaka | 80 iminyaka |
| 18 iminyaka | 88 iminyaka |
| 20 iminyaka | 96 iminyaka |
| 22 iminyaka | 104 iminyaka |
Ndingenza ntoni ukuze ihlale iminyaka emininzi?
Sonke esithanda iikati zethu singathanda ukuba zihlale iminyaka emininzi. Ukuphumeza oku, sicebisa oku kulandelayo:
- Nika enye ukutya okusemgangathweni (ngaphandle kweesiriyeli).
- Mse kugqirha wezilwanyana xa kukho imfuneko ukumnika isitofu, i-microchip kwaye nanini na xa egula okanye efumene ingozi.
- Mtyhale; Oko kukuthi, mthathe ugqirha wezilwanyana ukuze kususwe amadlala akhe okuzala, ngaphambi kobushushu bokuqala (iinyanga ezi-5-6 ubudala).
- Ndimthande kakhulu ukuba yintoni kwaye yintoni ayinikezelayo. Mhlonele kwaye umphathe ngokufanelekileyo.
Okwangoku, siya kuba nakho ukwandisa ixesha labo lokuphila. 🙂