Ngaba unayo ikati esandula ukuphakamisa kwaye ungathanda ukwazi ukuba ungabanika nini abancinci ukuba bamkelwe? Ukuba kunjalo, ndiyakumema ukuba ufunde eli nqaku, njengoko kusoloko kuvela amathandabuzo malunga noku. Amathandabuzo endiza kukusombululela wona, ngale ndlela, bobabini umama wekati kunye neentsana zakhe baqhubeke nokuphila ubomi obuqhelekileyo nasemva kokuba bohlukene.
Ke masibone Ziphi iikati zobudala ezinokwahlulwa kunina.
Amakati ngoomama abagqwesileyo. Banexhala ngabantwana babo kangangokuba bahlala bebajongile. Ukongeza, zihlala zigcina zicocekile, zondliwa kwaye, ewe, zifundisa yonke into abayifunayo ukuba baziikati; Oko kukuthi, ngemidlalo, babanika izifundo ezisebenzayo malunga nokuba bangazingela njani kwaye nini, bahamba njani, njani kwaye bazimela phi, njl. Okwangoku, abantwana bafunda into ebaluleke kakhulu, kwaye igqityiwe lawula amandla okuluma.
Le yinto ekufuneka ithathelwe ingqalelo xa sithathela ingqalelo ukwahlula amantshontsho koonina, kuba ngokwenza njalo ngaphambi kwexesha sibeka emngciphekweni abo banoboya bengazi ukuba mabaziphathe njani.
Endle, okanye ukuba bahlala ezitalatweni, iikati zabasetyhini zikunye namantshontsho azo de zibe neenyanga ezimbini okanye ezimbini ezinesiqingatha ubudala. Ukusukela ngoko, amantshontsho ekati sele efunde zonke iziseko ekufuneka bezazile kwaye baziphatha ngendlela eziyiyo: i-felines. Ke, elona xesha lifanelekileyo lokwahlula lichanekile ngokuchanekileyo Iiveki ezi-8-10 indala, hayi ngaphambili. Ngale ndlela, zombini ikati kunye nabantwana banokuqhubeka nobomi babo ngaphandle kwengxaki.
Kwaye, ngendlela, inokwenzeka ukuba ikati iziva ingaqhelekanga kwiintsuku ezimbalwa, okanye ukuba iyazikhangela, kodwa ungakhathazeki. Mnike ukutotosa okuninzi kwaye akukho xesha liza kudlula 🙂.
Kuhle ukwazi ukuba, malunga nonyaka odlulileyo intombi yam yamkela ikati ukusukela oko umama wakhe wasweleka eshiya inkedama yakhe. Wayengekho ngaphezulu kweeveki ezimbini ubudala kwaye simkhulise ngebhotile kodwa akazange aziphathe njengekati eqhelekileyo, enyanisweni akayazi indlela yokucheba. Sebenzisa izandi ukunxibelelana kodwa ngokungathi yimpempe kunenye into. Mhle kakhulu kodwa akazi ukuba ahlambe njani iikati. Njengokuba besinenye ikati emdala kuye kunaye umfundise izinto ezithile kodwa ngokucacileyo akonelanga ukuba aziphathe njengekati eqhelekileyo.
Sawubona!
Hayi, akukho nto ifana nomama yokufundisa ikati yonke into efuna ukuyazi. Ngayiphi na imeko, ukuba intshontsho lakho linenkosi, nokuba akayazi indlela yokutya, ngokuqinisekileyo uya konwaba.
A ubingelele.