Ukuncamathisela ikati yinto yendalo ngokupheleleyo, kuba sisilwanyana esizenza sithandwa kakhulu, hayi kakhulu. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha olu thando lunokusijikela (zombini ololusapho kunye nolosapho), kuba akukho namnye kuthi onokuphila ubomi obuqhelekileyo.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sobabini sibe nenkululeko ethile, kuba kungenjalo siya kuxhomekeka komnye ... kwaye oko kuya kuphelela kusinika ityhefu kubudlelwane obungaphilanga kwaphela. Ke, Ndiza kuthetha nawe malunga ne-hyperapego kwiikati… Kuba ndinayo kwaye akukho lula ukuyidlula.
Ndazi njani ukuba andinalo tu uxinzelelo kwikati yam?
Ukuba ungumlandeli webhlog kungenxa yokuba ucinga ukuba unekati, okanye ngenxa yokuba sele unayo kwaye ufuna ukuyinyamekela ngcono, okanye kuba unomdla ngezi zilwanyana. Kodwa kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba akukhathalisekanga ukuba mna okanye nabani na ungubani ndikuxelela okanye ndikucebisa, ekuphela kwendlela yokwazi ukuba ukuhlala nomnye ngumbono olungileyo okanye hayi ... kukuhlala naye. Yonke ikati lilizwe, kwaye wonke umntu naye.
Ndingomnye wabo bacinga ukuba kukho ikati kumntu ngamnye, kwaye xa oko kusenzeka, oko kukuthi, xa umntu efumana ikati yakhe efanelekileyo (okanye uyifumana), yonke into ihamba. Kodwa kuya kufuneka ulumke, kuba kungenjalo sinokuba nobudlelwane bokugula naye.
Iimpawu »zehyperapego zezi zilandelayo:
- Cinga kuphela ngentlalontle yekati.
- Musa ukuya eholideyini ukuze ungamshiyi yedwa.
- Thetha ngekati xa kuvela ithuba elincinane.
- Ungabinabomi ekuhlaleni.
- Ukuchitha imali eninzi kwizinto ikati ekukholelwa ukuba iyazidinga.
Inyangwa njani?
Ngokwamava ndingakuxelela lonto akukho lula konke konke, kwaye kuncinci xa uyondle ngebhotile ikati ekuthethwa ngayo. Uziva ngathi "ngunina" okanye "utata" wakhe, kwaye uyoyika ukuba kwenzeke into embi kuye uyeke ukwenza izinto oqhele ukuzenza. Kodwa ndiyakuxelela, ayilunganga. Ungaziva uxinzelelo okanye uxinzelelo kangangokuba ungade "usulele" ikati ngeemvakalelo zakho ezimbi.
Isonjululwa njani le ngxaki? Kulungile. Into yokuqala yile Qonda ukuba wena kunye nekati kufuneka nizimele kancinci. Abantu banobuhlobo ngokwendalo; Yinto esiyiphatha kwimfuza yethu, kwaye kusikhathaza kakhulu ukuba sedwa ngalo lonke ixesha. Ke ngoko ndikucebisa ukuba wenze oku kulandelayo:
- Qala ukudibana nabahlobo bakho. Ukuba ufuna ekhaya, kodwa ungalibali ukuphuma amaxesha ngamaxesha.
- Sukuchitha ngaphezulu kwemali ekuboneleleni ngekati. Uboya bakho bufuna iithoyi ezimbalwa (eyam kuphela idlala ngentonga kunye nebhola eyenziwe ngefoyile yealuminium), ibhedi (okanye ezimbini kwezona zininzi), isikhuhli, kunye nesondlo, isitya sokusela kunye nenkunkuma Itreyi. Musa ukumthengela iimpahla, akazidingi.
- Musa ukwenza ikati njengesiqhelo. Umnombo wesilwanyana sisilwanyana, kwaye ungumntu. Nobabini baneemfuno ezahlukileyo neendlela zokuphila.
- Ukuba ufuna uncedo olongezelelekileyo, jonga ingcali yentyatyambo yekati, Ngubani oza kukunceda nge-Bach Flowers ukubuyisa ubomi bakho.
Ndiyathemba ukuba ikukhonze 🙂. Tyhila!