Uma unekati ekhaya, noma ngesikhathi esithile empilweni yakho uke waba nethuba lokuhlanganyela nelilodwa, ngokuqinisekile uzibuzile:uzwe ikati likukhuhla kuwe? Ngendlela efanayo, kungenzeka ukuthi uke wacabanga ukuthi isizathu esenza ikati lakho likuthinte ngoba kungenxa yokuthi uyindlela yokubonisa ukubingelela kwakhe noma uthando lwakhe, kepha ake ngikutshele ukuthi kuningi kakhulu okudala lesi senzo.
Eqinisweni, okufunwa yisilwane sakho esincane akusikukubingelela noma ukukukhombisa ukuthi sikuthanda kangakanani, kepha ukwenza ukushintshana ngephunga nawe. Kunezindlala ezithile ezikhethekile nezikhethekile zephunga emathempelini nasemakhoneni e-boa yesilwane sakho. Kukhona nezinye ezisezansi komsila wazo, ngakho-ke lapho ikati lakho liqala ukukugcoba, lokho elikwenzayo ngempela ukumaka indawo yalo ngephunga elivela ezihlokweni zalo.
Uma lokhu okwenzayo kumgoba futhi umphulula, ngokuqinisekile uzoqala ukukuhlikihla nangaphezulu, ezama ukukwenza gcoba umlomo wakhe esandleni sakho noma ngokuthinta phezulu kwekhanda layo amahlandla ambalwa.Lokhu kuyinto ejwayelekile impela kanti nephunga lingase libonwe isilwane sakho noma amanye amakati.
Lapho usuqedile ifayela lakho le- isiko lokuhlikihla, uzonquma ukuhamba aqale ukuhlanza uboya bakhe ngokubukhotha. Lolu hlobo lwesenzo sokuzihlikihla kuwe, kwenzelwa kuphela ukuthi isilwane sizizwe sikhululeke kakhudlwana, ngoba sishiya izimpawu zokuhogela ezisivumela ukuthi sazi ukuthi besikhona, ukuthi ayikho ingozi nokuthi kuzolunga. Ngakho-ke usuyazi vele ukuthi lapho isilwane sakho esincane sisondela eceleni kwakho bese siqala ukukuhlikihla, akufanele usicindezele, umane usivumele sivumele iphunga laso kuwe ukuze kube nobudlelwano obungcono phakathi kwenu nobabili.