Uyikhathalela njani ikati enenyanga

Amantshontsho eekati amnandi, kodwa xa udibana nawo esitalatweni esishiyiwe okanye xa umama wabo ewalahla, ukuba akukho mntu uwahoyayo, ngekhe afikelele phambili. Kubuhlungu kakhulu, kodwa inyani yile: ukuba abangaphantsi kweenyanga ezimbini ubudala abayazi indlela yokujonga ukutya, kuba baya kuba nzima ukuhamba kakuhle.

Ke ngoko, ukuba uyifumene, ndiza kukuxelela uyikhathalele njani ikati enenyanga enye ubudala ukuze, ngale ndlela, iqhubeke nokukhula ngaphandle kweengxaki.

Ifuna ntoni ikati enenyanga-ubudala?

Umfazi oselula kangako ufuna oku kulandelayo:

• Ukutya okumanzi kweekatiNangona le minyaka sele inamazinyo abantwana, ayakhula. Ngesi sizathu, kubalulekile ukuba anikwe ukutya okuthambileyo ngaphandle kokutya okuziinkozo, okugayiweyo, ukuze akwazi ukuhlafuna ngaphandle kobunzima. Njengakule minyaka yobudala utya kakhulu, eyona nto ilungileyo kukusoloko une-feeder epheleleyo, okanye ukumtyisa rhoqo kwiiyure ezintathu okanye ezine.
• Amanzi: into yesiqhelo kukuba ekuqaleni awuyithandi kakhulu, kodwa kuya kufuneka uqhele amanzi kancinci kancinci. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka wongeze kancinci ekutyeni kwakho.
• Indawo ekhuselekileyo, ekhululekile kwaye eshushu: Uchitha malunga neeyure ezingama-20 ngemini ulele, ke kufanelekile ukuba ibhedi yakho ikwigumbi elingenazo uyilo kwaye lihlale kamnandi.

Inqaku elidibeneyo:

Zitya ntoni iikati xa zincinci?

Iingcebiso zokuba ikhule kakuhle

Ikati, ukongeza kukutya, amanzi kunye nebhedi, uza kucela uthando oluninzi kunye nenkampani. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sichithe ixesha elininzi kangangoko sinako naye, ukuba simbambe ngengalo, simthambise kwaye sidlale naye, umzekelo ngentambo. Kuyinyani ukuba kule minyaka akakabaleki kakhulu, kodwa imilenze yakhe iqala ukomelela ngokwaneleyo ukuze uboya buqale ukuhlala njengenjana.

Kwakhona, kulungile ukuba simse kugqirha wezilwanyana ngosuku lokuqala. Ngoba? Kuba kufuneka siqiniseke ukuba usempilweni. Kuqhelekile ukuba iikati ezilahlekileyo zibe nezidleleli zamathumbu, kunye noomama abazidlulisele ebantwaneni babo. Ukuba intshontsho lekati alibulali iintshulube siza kubona kwangoko ukuba litya kakhulu, ngokuzimisela kwaye lidumbile.. Ukuphucula, kufuneka sinike iTelmin Unidia isiraphu kangangeentsuku ezintlanu (okanye enye into esiyixelelwa yingcali).

Ke, umntwana wethu omncinci angakhula omelele kwaye abe sempilweni.

Yintoni enokuyenza ngekati eshiyekileyo enenyanga enye ubudala

Mhlawumbi ubenethamsanqa lokufumana ikatana enenyanga enye okanye engaphantsi esitratweni, umvile ekhala ekhayeni lakho kwaye khange ukwazi ukunqanda ukumkhangela ukuze ufumane ukuba ufuna uncedo na. Wenze kakuhle, kuba ngezenzo zakho ungasindisa ubomi bakhe.

Ngaba ucinga ukuba ubunokuyifumana ikatana elahliweyo okanye inkunkuma yeekati? Ewe, ixesha elininzi ikati kamama ayikude kakhulu kwaye ayizilahlanga iintsana zayo. Nazi ezinye iingcebiso malunga nokuba inyathelo lakho elilandelayo kufuneka libe liphi.

Musa ukuphazamisa iikati

Kungcono ukuqala ujonge umgama kangangeeyure ezimbalwa ukumisela ukuba ingaba umama ubuyela kwindawo yakhe yokuhlala. Inja ikati inokuba ifuna ukutya, ithathe ikhefu, okanye ikufihlele.

Ukuba ubona amantshontsho ekati hayi umama, linda iiyure ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuba uzame ukuwahlangula. Amantshontsho anethuba elingcono lokusinda nomama wawo. Ukuba umama ubuyile, eyona nto unokuyenza kukubeka ukutya kwekati kunye namanzi kuye. Kungcono ukuba ungahlali ubakhangela ngaphezu kwesinye ngosuku ukuze ungabaphazamisi.

Xa umama ebuya namantshontsho akhe eenyanga

Ukuba kunokwenzeka, thatha umama kunye namantshontsho ngaphakathi endlwini ukuba ucinga ukuba anokuba sengozini ngaphandle.

Iinkuku ezindala ezinenyanga enye zifuna indawo entle ngokwazo enebhedi, ibhokisi yenkunkuma ecocekileyo, amanzi amatsha kunye nokutya kwekati. Amantshontsho angalunyulwa xa eqala ukutya ukutya okuqinileyo xa eneveki ezi-4-6 ubudala.. Kodwa qala unikeze ukutya okumanzi okuxutywe namanzi kwiiveki ezi-4.

Xa amantshontsho alunyulwe ngokupheleleyo kunina, umama kufuneka achithwe emva koko amkelwe okanye abuyiselwe ngaphandle. Amantshontsho ekati kufuneka abe sempilweni kwaye amkelwe kwiveki yesi-8-10 ubudala. Bamba iikati rhoqo emva kweeveki ezintlanu ubudala ukunceda ekuhlaleni. Jonga ugqirha wezilwanyana kwangoko ukuba amantshontsho ekati okanye umama abonisa iimpawu zokugula, ukonzakala, okanye uxinzelelo.

What if umama akabuyi

Ukuba ufumene inkunkuma yamantshontsho angaphantsi kwenyanga okanye inyanga kwaye umama wabo engabuyi, unokwenza ntoni? Ishiya usapho ngaphandle kwaye ibonelele ngokutya, amanzi kunye nendawo yokuhlala. Umama uya kususa amantshontsho akho, ungakhathazeki.

Ukuba uyazi ukuba le yindawo ekhuselekileyo enomthombo wokutya ozinzileyo, uya kubuyela kubo. Ukuba ungazibophelela, iinkunzi kufuneka zisuswe kunina xa zinokutya zodwa (malunga neeveki ezi-4-5 ubudala). Xa ubazisa ekhaya, baphathe rhoqo ukuze ubasebenzise ekuhlaleni. 

Amantshontsho ekati kufuneka amkelwe kwithuba leeveki eziyi-8-10 ubudala, njengoko besesitshilo apha ngasentla. Kodwa ukuba umama akabuyi, kuyakufuneka ube "ngumama wabo owamkelayo" kwaye ubondle rhoqo emva kweeyure ezimbini de babe bekwazi ukuzondla. Ukuba awukwazi ukukhuthaza kunye nokunxulumana iikati, zishiye ngaphandle! Musa ukuhlalisana nekati ongeke ukwazi ukuhlala ekhayeni lakho okanye uyamkele. Baza kufunda izakhono zokusinda kumama wabo eziza kubanika elona thuba lokuphila ngaphandle njengekati yasendle, ukuba umama angabuya kungekudala okanye kamva.

Iikati ziye zalahlwa

Kungenzeka kwakhona ukuba iikati zishiywe ngumama wazo. Kule meko, kubalulekile ukuba uthathe ingqalelo kwimiba ethile. Amantshontsho ekati abonakala ngathi alahliwe Yintoni onokuyenza ukunceda?

Nje ukuba ususe iintsana kwindawo enobungozi esitratweni, kufuneka uzigcine kubushushu obufanelekileyo bomzimba. Kule meko, unokusebenzisa ibhokisi eneetawuli ezicocekileyo, ezithambileyo kunye neebhotile zokufudumeza. Yenza indawo yokuhlala ngaphakathi kwebhokisi kwaye ubeke iikati ngaphakathi. Zigcine kude kuyilo kunye nokufuma.

Bafuna igumbi elihlala lifudumele ngalo lonke ixesha. Iikati ezingalulwanga zifuna ukunakekelwa iiyure ezingama-24 kunye nokulandelelwa. Amantshontsho ekati kufuneka ondiswe ngebhotile ngobisi endaweni yawo rhoqo emva kweeyure eziyi-2-3 (nokuba kungobusuku nje obunye) kwaye zigcinwe zifudumele kwaye zomile. Yintoni egqithisile:

• Iiveki ezi-1 ukuya kwezi-4 ubudala: kufuneka utyiswe ngebhotile.
• Iiveki ezi-5 nangaphezuluUkutya okunkonkxiweyo kunokunikezwa ngeekati ezintsana kuphela, kodwa kungafuneka zondliwe ngebhotile.Ukutya okunkonkxiweyo kufuneka kube bukhrim, kwaye kungabikho kutya kutyiwayo okanye iziqwenga ezinkulu. Zama ukufumana owona mgangatho ubalaseleyo wokutya kwekatana kwivenkile yezilwanyana.

Ukuba wena, ummelwane, umhlobo, okanye isihlobo singaluthatha olu xanduva, unganika ezi kiti zishiyiweyo ithuba! Ukuba ishedyuli okanye uxanduva lwakho alukuvumeli, kusenokubakho izixhobo ekuncedeni wena, ezinje ngemibutho ekhusela iikati kwaye ibafumanele ikhaya. Yazi ukuba uninzi lweendawo zokuhlala alunabasebenzi ukondla amantshontsho emini yonke kwaye amazinga okusweleka kwezi kiti aphezulu kakhulu. Kodwa ngoncedo lwakho ungasindisa ubomi babo.

Ukondla abantwana abalahliweyo abanenyanga enye ubudala

Musa ukubondla ngobisi lweenkomo, isoya okanye irayisi. Ukutshintshwa kobisi (ifomula yekati) kwaye unokuthengwa kwiivenkile zezilwanyana. Landela imiyalelo kwiphakheji yokucoca nokulungiselela iibhotile kunye nomlinganiso ofanelekileyo wokuxuba wokutshintsha ubisi.

Sukuwufudumeza ulwelo ngokuthe ngqo, endaweni yoko faka ibhotile embizeni yamanzi ashushu ukuyitshisa kwaye uvavanye esihlahleni sakho. Hlamba izandla ngaphambi nasemva kokuphatha ubisi olungumgubo kunye nokondla iinkukhu.

Musa ukutyisa amantshontsho emiqolo (ujonge phezulu). Beka ubuso babo phantsi kwaye uphakamise ngobumnene isilevu sakho. Hlikihla i-liner yebhotile ngapha nangapha emilebeni nasezintsinini de ikati liqale ukungcamla ifomula kwaye lingene kuyo.

Khumbula ukugoba ibhotile phezulu ukuze intshontsho lekati linganyisi umoya. Ukudropha kunokuba yimfuneko kwiveki yokuqala okanye ezimbini. Isondlo ngasinye sesithathu, nikeza amanzi amancinci kwibhotile ukuqala. Amantshontsho ekati aya kuyeka ukuncanca xa sele egcwele. Musa ukondla ngokukhawuleza okanye ubanyanzele. Amantshontsho eekati atya ubisi olungumgubo afunwa ukuba agqunywe Oku kwenziwa ngokuzibamba zijongise ezantsi kwaye uzibeke ethangeni lakho okanye egxalabeni lakho emva koko uziphulule kamnandi emqolo.

Ukuba unemibuzo engakumbi malunga nokondla iikati ezinenyanga-enye ubudala, thetha nogqirha wezilwanyana ukuze abantwana bakhathalelwe ngalo lonke ixesha.