Ikati ebuntwaneni bayo bokuqala isisilwanyana Ubudenge kakhulu. Ngokukhawuleza xa amazinyo akhe omntwana eqala ukungena, malunga neveki yesithathu yobudala, uya kuqala ukuziphatha ngendlela abantu abangayithandi kakhulu. Kwaye uya kufuna ukuphonononga yonke into ... ngomlomo wakhe nangezinzipho zakhe. Kule minyaka ayenzi monakalo mkhulu, kodwa inokuyenza amaxesha amaninzi ngemini kangangokuba ngaphezu kwesinye sizibuze ukuba izakuqhubeka injalo xa sele umdala.
Kodwa sinempendulo kulo mbuzo ngokwethu. Ewe Ewe. Kuxhomekeke kwinto esimfundisa yona-ngokuzazi okanye ngokungazi-omncinci uya kuziphatha ngandlela thile. Ngomso wokuziphatha kakuhle, kuyafuneka ukuba wazi uqeqesha njani ikati yeenyanga ezi-2 ubudala. Masibone ukuba kufuneka senze ntoni ukuguqula "isigebenga esincinci" sibe yindawo yokuhlala.
Ndifuna ntoni ukukhulisa ikati eneenyanga ezi-2 ubudala?
Eyona nto uza kuyidinga yile nomonde. Uninzi, umonde omninzi. Ikati liza kukuvavanya amaxesha ngamaxesha ngemini, yonke imihla. Iyakukhwela ethangeni lakho, ngamanye amaxesha uyokulala, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha udlale, kwaye kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba igama elithi 'dlala' kule minyaka kubandakanya ukukrwela nokuluma yonke into oyibonayo, kubandakanya izandla, iingalo kunye nemilenze.
Kodwa nayo sithandwa. Ngapha koko, oku kubalulekile. Ukuba omncinci akafumani uthando yonke imihla, iya kuba yikati endala eza kuziphatha ngendlela engalunganga nosapho kunye neendwendwe.
Ungayifundisa njani?
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uhlale ukhumbula ukuba akufuneki siyivumele ikrwembe okanye isilume. Ungaze (okanye phantse ungaze). Ke, kufuneka siqiniseke ukuba sisoloko sinento yokudlala okanye intambo kufutshane, kuba iya kuba yinto esiza kuyisebenzisa ukudlala naye.
Kwimeko apho singenanto, ukuba umzekelo ufika esofeni, siya kuyithoba; kwaye ukuba iyaphakama kwakhona kwaye isihlasele kwakhona, siza kuyithoba kwakhona. So ade azole. Ekuqaleni kuya kuba nzima kuye ukuba afunde ukuba akanako ukusihlasela, kodwa ngexesha kunye nomonde siya kuyifumana.
Enye inqaku esingenakulibaleka yile yokuhlalisana. Intshontsho lekati kufuneka libe kunye nosapho ngokungcono. Ukuba simgcina egumbini lonke imini yonke, ngaphandle konxibelelwano oluncinci lomntu, uya kukhula abe yikati 'engathandekiyo', aphephe abantu. Isilwanyana kufuneka sibanjwe ngengalo, siphathwe ngabantwana nangabantu abadala, kufuneka sizonwabise sidlala nabo kunye nezinye izilwanyana ezihlala ekhaya,… ngamafutshane, kufuneka senze ubomi bosapho.
Kungelo xesha kuphela apho aya kufunda ukuhlala nathi. Kwaye, ebusuku, uya kuphumla ngokulula.
Uyifundisa njani ikati xa ineenyanga ezimbini nangaphezulu
Nangona kunjalo, xa ikati ingaphezulu kweenyanga ezimbini ubudala, kuya kufuneka uqhubeke nokuyifundisa, kuba kungale ndlela kuphela apho inokuba ikati yabantu abadala ekulungeleyo ukuziphatha kakuhle kwaye ikunike uthando ngalo lonke ixesha ngaphandle kokonakalisa nantoni na endlwini. Emva koko siza kukunika ezinye izikhombisi ukuze ufundise ikati yakho ukuba ibe nokuziphatha okuhle kuba ebemncinci.
Hlanganisa nekati yakho
Ukuze ikati yakho ikuqhele kubalulekile ukuba unxibelelane nayo kwasekuqaleni. Njengabantu, iikati zifunda lukhulu ngokubukela indlela yokuziphatha ebangqongileyo. Ukuze ikati yakho ivelise isimilo esifanelekileyo, kuya kufuneka ukuba uyiqale isencinci kakhulu, ukusuka kwiiveki ezimbini ubudala!
Kukulungele ukuba ugone usana lwakho, ukuba ulubeke kuwe okwethutyana, njengemizuzu eli-10. Ikwangumbono olungileyo ukuzazisa kwabanye abantu ukuba ubenze basebenzise unxibelelwano lomntu. Umkhwa wokudlala nekati yakho uya kuyinika ithuba lokuhambisa indlela yokuziphatha engalunganga okanye esebenzayo.
Kuya kufuneka uzinikezele kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke umonde. Khumbula ukuba ungamohlwayi kwaye umphathe kakubi. Ufuna lonke uthando lwakho ukuze aphumelele ecaleni kwakho.
Mfundise ukulandela ulwalathiso
Nangona ingeyiyo inja, iikati zinokufundiswa ukulandela umkhombandlela olula. Ukuba nekati ethobela imiyalelo kuya kuyenza ibe mnandi ngakumbi kwaye uya kuyinceda ukuba ikhule ngcono ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwasengqondweni. Yintoni egqithisile, kuluncedo kakhulu ukukhulisa ikati ethobelayo kwaye yamkelayo.
Inkuthazo kunye nokuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo kuya kuba zizixhobo zakho eziyimfihlo kweli nqanaba. Ukuba, umzekelo, ufuna ukufundisa ikati yakho ukuba ihlale kwaye ihlale esitulweni, khokela kwaye ukhuthaze ikati yakho kwinkqubo ukusebenzisa ukutya njengenkuthazo. Enye indlela yokufundisa iikati ukuba zithobele ukusebenzisa ingxolo nokutya ukuze ikati lakho liqale ukudibanisa isandi kunye nokuziphatha okuhle kunye nesithembiso somvuzo.
Mfundise ukusebenzisa ibhokisi yenkunkuma kakuhle
Eli nyathelo lelona libaluleke kakhulu, kwaye linzima kakhulu. Ngethamsanqa, konke kuyehla kukuzingisa kwinxalenye yakho kunye nenkuthazo kwikati yakho. Thatha indawo yebhokisi yenkunkuma. Ukuba ufuna ikati yakho iyisebenzise, kufuneka ubanike isizathu. Khetha indawo ethe cwaka kwaye kulula ukuba ikati yakho ifikelele kuyo.
Kuya kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba awuhlali nje kuphela kwibhokisi yenkunkuma, kodwa kunye nezinto eziyimfuneko njengokutya, amanzi, kunye nezinto zokulala, kunye nezinto zakho zokudlala zekati. Ngayo yonke into abayifunayo kwindawo enye, baya kuqala ukusetyenziswa kwibhokisi yenkunkuma.
Elinye iqhinga elisebenzayo kukubeka ikiti yakho kwibhokisi yakhe yenkunkuma ngalo lonke ixesha evuka okanye egqiba ukutya. Okubaluleke nangakumbi kukwenza xa ubona iimpawu zokuba ukulungele ukuya kwindlu yangasese. Wenziwa njani lo msebenzi? Qala ujonge ikati yakho kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Oku kuyakunceda ukunciphisa iingozi kwaye kwenze uqeqesho lweebhokisi zenkunkuma lungadinisi.
Dlala ngekati yakho
Kubalulekile ukuba udlale nekati yakho ukuze iqhubeke ekukhuleni kwayo. Asithethi nje ukuba udlala ngeethoyi ezincinci zekati, kodwa, kukuba udlala nawe. Ukuba iithoyi ezisetyenzisiweyo zikulungele ukudlala kunye nokuba ninokunxibelelana. Ukudlala kunika ikati yakho indawo yokukhuthala ngamandla, ngokwengqondo nangokwasemzimbeni, ithuba lokonelisa ithuku lokuzingela kunye nethuba lokudibana nawe..
Njengezinye iintlobo zoqeqesho, kukho indlela efanelekileyo yokudlala. Kuya kufuneka uhlengahlengise umdlalo ukuze uhlangabezane neemfuno zekati yakho kwaye uqinisekise ukuba imidlalo oyidlalayo iyaqhubeka, ngaphandle kokuphindisa ikati yakho. Nokuba iithoyi ozikhethayo zinempembelelo enkulu ekuzimiseleni ukudlala ikati yakho. Xa uthenga izinto zokudlala, kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba uthenga izinto zokudlala ezifanelekileyo iikati, hayi iikati ezindala.
Ukuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo
Xa isimilo esihle siqiniswa kukuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo, iikati zifunda ukuziphatha ngokuchanekileyo. Usenokuba uqaphele ukubaluleka kokuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo kwamanye amabakala obomi bakho, kuba neekati ziyafana. Oku Inika ikati yakho isizathu sokuqhubeka nokuziphatha ngokuchanekileyo.
Ukuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo kunceda ukukhuthaza indlela yokuziphatha esempilweni kunye nokuphelisa isimilo esibi. Oku kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule xa ikati yakho isenza isenzo, kuba unokuya ukohlwaya ... kodwa ayisoze ibe yinto elungileyo kuye ukuba aziphathe kakuhle.
Ukohlwaya ikati ngenxa yento abayenzileyo ayiyongcamango intle konke oko njengoko isonyusa uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo kwaye inokuphazamisa ubudlelwane obuhle obusebenze nzima kangaka ubakha. Ngokuchaseneyo, ukuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo kubonisa ukuba isimilo esihle samkelwe kwaye siyavuzwa, kwaye kulungiselela ikati yakho ukuba iphumelele.
Ukuqukumbela, nangona ukufundisa intshontsho lakho kunokubonakala ngathi ngumsebenzi onzima ekuqaleni, Kancinci kancinci uza kuyibona ilula njengoko usiya usazi ikati yakho kwaye ikati yakho ikwazi ngcono. Ngokulandela ezi ngcebiso, yonke into iya kuba lula kakhulu kuni nobabini. Ikati yakho iya kuziphatha kakuhle kwaye uya kuziva ukhululekile malunga nokukhuliswa kwakhe. Uya kuba nekati ethandekayo onokuzola kunye nayo kwaye ngubani oya kuyiphulaphula imiyalelo yakho xa kufuneka njalo!