Ukuba sithathela ingqalelo ukuba ikati inokuya kubushushu ukuya kathathu ngonyaka kwaye ukuba ikhulelwe nganye inokuzisa ukusuka kwelinye ukuya kwelishumi elinesine lamantshontsho, siya kukhawuleza siqonde ukuba Ubuninzi be-feline yingxaki yokwenyani. Ingxaki ekude isonjululwe, kuba baninzi abantu abafuna ukukhulisa iikati zabo kwaye bangazi ukuba mabenze ntoni nabancinci, abaya kuphelela kwindawo yokuhlala okanye, rhoqo, bahlala esitratweni .
Ukuzama ukuyisombulula sinokukhetha ukuthenwa kwesilwanyana, kodwa Ungayithumela nini ikati? Ukuba usandula ukuyithenga kwaye awazi ukuba uyokuhlinzwa nini ukuze ususe amadlala okuzala, siya kukukhupha kwintandabuzo yakho okomzuzwana 🙂.
Kukho izimvo ezahlukeneyo xa kufanelekile ukukhupha ikati. Kukho abo bacinga ukuba kufanele ukwenziwa xa sele benobushushu (malunga neenyanga ezi-6 ukuya kwezi-7), okanye xa ugqibile ukukhula (unyaka omnye). Ewe, oko Kuya kuxhomekeka kumntu omnye: ngokwakho nalapho unayo ikati. Makhe ndichaze: ukuba unaye ngaphakathi endlwini ngaphandle kokumka ungalinda unyaka, kodwa ukuba uyemka, eneenyanga ezintandathu angangutata / umama kwaye kukho umngcipheko wokuba angabuyeli ekhaya. .
Ukuthathela ingqalelo oku, Kucetyiswa kakhulu ukuba umthathe ngenxa ye-neutering kwiinyanga ezintlanu okanye ezintandathu, Phambi kokuba ndifudumale kuqala. Yindlela yokuphepha ukuba ikati eyindoda iqhelane nokumakisha umchamo endlwini, kwaye ikati idada ebusuku. Ukongeza, ukuba bayaphuma abayi kuba kude nekhaya labo (eyam ayisoze ihambe ngaphezulu kwesitalato esinye okanye ezimbini), ukuze uhlale usondele.
Ukungathathi cala kwikati yindlela yokuyikhathalela. Kukusebenza apho achacha khona ngokukhawuleza kwaye, eneneni, kufanelekile, kungekuphela ngenxa yokuba umthintela ekuziseni iikati emhlabeni apho uyazi ukuba ziya kuphelela phi, kodwa nangenxa yokuba engenabushushu akazukufuna ukubaleka ekhaya okanye ukukhusela ummandla wabo okanye ukufumana iqabane.
Ndinekati eneenyanga ezintandathu ubudala kwaye uzise inja nje, iintsuku ezi-4 zokuqala bade babelana ngebhedi kwaye badlala imini yonke, kodwa ngequbuliso ikati iyekile ukuyinyamezela kwaye iba mbi kakhulu xa injana isondela kuye ukuba idlale. Isifuba sixinekile kwaye andinakukwazi ukusibamba okanye ukusondela, kucacile ndiyabahlula kwaye nganye kwigumbi elahlukileyo ngaphakathi endlwini yam, ibangela uxinzelelo oluninzi kuba andifuni bonzakale kwaye bendithanda kwaye ndikonwabele ukubabukela bedlala kunye, ngoku ndibeka injana ebhedini ndaya kwelinye igumbi ukuze ndenze i-kitty upa ndimmpompeze. Ndingawenza njani kwakhona unxibelelwano phakathi kwezi zimbini? Ndihlala ndinezinja kwaye ngamava am okuqala ngeekati, ikati yeza kuqala ngo-Matshi kunye nenjana emva kweenyanga ezi-3, ungandinceda ngale nto? Enkosi
Caterina
Molo uCaterina.
Zama ukogquma iibhedi zabo ngelaphu, kwaye uzitshintshele ngaphandle iintsuku ezimbalwa. Ngale nto, uyakufumana ikati ukwamkela ivumba lenjana kwakhona, okuya kubanceda ukuba babe ngabahlobo kwakhona.
Xa iyeka ukukhwela kwilaphu, zibuyisele kunye. Ukuba umbona ebhomboloza, kuqhelekile. Into ongafanele uyenze kukuzama ukumkrwempa okanye ukumluma.
Ukuba unemibuzo, qhagamshelana kwakhona kwaye siya kuyisombulula ngokukhawuleza.
A ubingelele.