Ngenye imini uvuka uqaphele indlela eyenzeka ngayo ikati yakho. Uzama ukukuxelela into, kodwa akakwazi ukwenza isandi. Ngaba uya kuba neengxaki zomqala? Ngokuqinisekileyo inokwenzeka, kodwa kukho ezinye ekufuneka zigcinwe engqondweni.
Ke masazi kutheni ikati yam ingandi meow, kunye nento esinokuyenza ukuze ubuyise ngokukhawuleza.
Zenza nini iikati meow?
I-meow sisandi seekati, kodwa nangona sikufumanisa kunzima ukuyikholelwa, sesinye sezakhono abazisebenzisa kancinane. Baqala ukutyeba xa bebancinci kakhulu, kuba bazalwa, nangona kuyinyani ukuba kwiminyaka emncinci kangaka kune-meow kukukhala kukanina ukuba asondele kubo ukuze bancancise kunye / okanye bakhuselwe kubanda.
Ngokuhamba kweentsuku kwaye ngakumbi iiveki, eso sikhalo, eso sikhalo sinamandla kakhulu, siya kuba "meow" ephuhlileyo. Kwaye njengokuba abantwana beqhubeka nokukhula, baya kusebenzisa ulwimi oluthethwayo nanini na xa befuna / befuna / befuna into.
Meow yeekati, kuthetha ntoni?
Ngendlela efanayo naleyo abantu basebenzisa amagama ahlukeneyo ukuvakalisa izimvo zethu, iikati zisebenzisa iithoni ezahlukeneyo zezwi. Ke, umzekelo siyazi ukuba:
- Ixesha eliphantsi eliphantsi, njengokubhomboloza: Sisandi esisongelayo, ukuzama ukunqanda ungquzulwano olukhulu (iimilo) ezinokuphela kakubi.
- Snarl: imfutshane okanye inde. Benza ngenxa yesizathu esifanayo nesangaphambili, kodwa kule meko, kuqheleke kakhulu kwiikati ezoyikisayo.
- Ukukhala kwentlungu: sisandi esikhulu kakhulu, ngesiquphe, kwaye sisikhalo esikhulu. Bayayenza xa besiva iintlungu (umzekelo, xa amanyathelo abantu ngengozi) okanye emva kokudibana.
- »Miaou» ukuba yome: i-meow emfutshane, ithoni eqhelekileyo yelizwi (hayi ukuphakama okuphezulu okanye okunzulu). Ayinantsingiselo inye: inokuba ngumbuliso olula, okanye ufuna umntu ayiqwalasele, okanye u-meow kuba ubone into.
- Mfutshane kodwa iqhubeka meows: Ezinye zisenokuba lide ixesha elide, kodwa ithoni yelizwi iyavuya, iphakamile kancinci. Yinto abayikhuphileyo xa besazi ukuba siza kubapha isidlo esikhethekileyo (umzekelo wokutya okumanzi umzekelo), okanye xa bonwabile kakhulu ukusibona.
Ikati yam iyanyibilika xa ndindedwa, ngoba?
Xa ikati idibana xa inesithukuthezi, Uyenza ngokuchanekileyo ukuyeka ukuba yiyo. I-meow iba ngumnxeba wokuvuka, "yiza ecaleni kwam" okanye "ungandishiyi ndedwa." Ukuba mdala, oko kukuthi, ukuba uneminyaka elishumi ubudala okanye ngaphezulu, usenokuba Ukuwohloka kwengqondo.
Ikati yam ayiyi kuyeka emnyango, kufuneka wenze ntoni?
Ukuba ngumnyango wangaphambili ekhaya ...
Ukuba sisilwanyana ebesikhe saphesheya ngaxa lithile, loo mvakalelo yenkululeko ayinakuze iyilibale. Ke ngoko, xa edibana emnyango, kuhlala kungenxa yokuba ufuna ukuhamba. Ke, ukuthintela ukukhathazeka, into ekufuneka uyenzile kukuchitha ixesha elifanelekileyo kunye naye, sidlale naye ubuncinci iyure enye ngosuku, masimkhaphe siye esofeni ngelixa sibukele umabonakude okanye siphumla,… Ngamafutshane, masenze ubomi kunye naye.
Ukuba ukhona omnye umnyango endlwini ...
Akukho kati ithanda iingcango ezivaliweyo, ukusukela oko kufuneka ilawule »indawo yayo», ngokupheleleyo. Oku kukunika ukhuseleko. Ke ukuba ungene emnyango, ngaphandle kokuba kukho into eyingozi kuye kwelo gumbi livaliweyo, bavule.
Ikati yam iyanyibilika xa isiya entlabathini, yintoni unobangela?
Imicimbi yesanti kunye netreyi inzima ngakumbi kunokuba ibonakala. Kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba iikati azithandi ukuba indlu yangasese yabucala ibe ecaleni kwesikhongozelo senkunkuma, ukutya kwabo, okanye kwigumbi elinengxolo okanye elixakekileyo.
Ukongeza, isanti yendalo ngakumbi kunye nothuli oluncinci olukhupha, ngcono. Masikuphephe ukunuka kunye nomgangatho osezantsi. Kungcono ukuchitha imali encinci kunokuthenga enye engafunisi umchamo okanye ivumba elibi. Zininzi iindidi, kwaye kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba ikati nganye inokhetho lwayo, ke ukunqanda ukuchitha imali eninzi kakhulu, ndincoma ukuba ujonge izibonelelo abaqhele ukuba nazo, ngakumbi kwiivenkile ezikwi-intanethi zeemveliso zezilwanyana ukuze ungazama.
Kwaye ngasendleleni Ungalibali ukususa umchamo kunye nelindle yonke imihla, nokucoca itreyi kube kanye ngeveki okanye njalo.
Kodwa ukuba yonke into ilungile kwaye usaqhubeka meows, ungathandabuzi ukumsa kugqirha wezilwanyana njengoko besinokuthetha ngezinye cystitis okanye usulelo.
Kutheni iikati zidla ebusuku? Kwaye ungayiphepha njani?
Kukho izizathu ezibini ezinokubakho:
- Lixesha lokukhwelana, apho iikati ezingathathi cala ziya kuba shushu kwaye iikati ziya kuzama ukuzifumana.
- okanye yiyo baziva bengamalolo.
Ukuba yeyokuqala, banokuthenwa (oko kukuthi, amadlala okuzala asuswe) kwaye ngenxa yoko abasayi kuphinda babe nesidingo sokudibana. Kodwa ukuba yeyokugqibela, kuya kufuneka uyenze le nto besikhe sayithetha ngaphambili: ukuchitha ixesha elinomgangatho kunye nabo.
Kutheni ikati yam ingandi meow?
Zininzi izizathu:
Uyagula
Amakati kunye nabantu babelana ngezifo ezithile, kwaye enye yazo Ingqula, ebangela ukudumba komqala. Ukuba utya okanye usele into ebanda kakhulu, ngakumbi ukuba uyenza ekwindla okanye ebusika, umngcipheko wokuba uya kugqibela ngeaphonia uphezulu kakhulu. Ngoku, into eqhelekileyo kukuba iyenzeka ngeentsuku ezimbalwa.
Yiba noxinzelelo
Esinye isizathu isenokuba kunjalo gxi niniswa. Ewe kunokubonakala kungaqhelekanga, kodwa inqanaba eliphezulu loxinzelelo liya kubangela ukuba umhlobo wakho aphulukane nelizwi. Ukuba uva i-meow erhawuzayo, le yindlela yabo yokuphendula kutshintsho lwesiqhelo kunye / okanye nokusingqongileyo. Umzekelo, ukuba kukho ilungu elitsha losapho, okanye ukuba uyahamba, inokubonisa iimpawu zokugula ... nokuba sempilweni. Oku kuthetha ukuba, ukongeza kwi-aphonia, unokugabha, urhudo, kunye / okanye ukulahleka kwesidlo.
Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha kuyenzeka ukuba i-aphonia yekati ayiyeki. Kuya kuba ngelo xesha apho kuya kufuneka sikhathazeke, ukusukela unokuba nesifo esifuna ukunyangwa. Isizathu esinye sosuleleko olunzulu lokuphefumla kukusezela umoya weegesi ezikucaphukisayo, ke kufuneka kuthathwe kugqirha wezilwanyana ukuba ahlolwe kwaye afumane unyango olufanelekileyo.
Akukho meko uya kuzinyanga, kuba amayeza abantu anokubulala kuye. Khumbula ukuba, ukuba ihlala ngaphezulu kweentsuku ezi-5-6, kuyacetyiswa ukuba ihlolwe yingcali.
Yikati engadibaniyo
Kukho iikati ezingadibaniyo, okanye ezikwenzayo kodwa ngelizwi eliphantsi kakhulu lelizwi, okanye ezingathethi tu. Oku akuthethi ukuba bayagula. Kwaye, nangona zikhona ezinoboya obudibanisa okuninzi, zikhona ezinye ezinokuba neentloni okanye ukuqhele ukungazidibi.
Ke, ukuba siyayamkela ikati ethi, nangona ibikhe yahlala nosapho, khange iyithathele ngqalelo ingako, okanye ukuba sisilwanyana ebesisesitalatweni, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ingadibani okanye yenze njalo ngamaxesha athile. Ndiza kukuxelela ukuba iikati zam, uSasha noKeisha, uya kuva kuphela meow ngezwi elivakalayo ngokuvakalayo xa besiva igama "latita"; kunye nekati yam Bug xa efuna ukudlala (kwaye inedada lakhe eligcwele emlonyeni). Ukuphumla kwemini, akukho nto. Ungabatsalela umnxeba ngokungathandabuzekiyo, abayi kuba meow. Ngaphezu kwesihlandlo esinye ndithathe iselfowuni ukubona ukuba ngaba basendlwini na okanye hayi (iikati zithwele Isacholo somqala weGPS).
Ke akukho nto. Subanexhala. Ukuba yikati ehleli ikhamisile kwaye iyema ngesiquphe, okanye iqala ukurhola, okanye ukrokrela ukuba iyagula, yise kugqirha wezilwanyana; kodwa ukuba awuzange uyenze kwaye uphile ubomi obuqhelekileyo ngokupheleleyo, akukho nto yenzekayo.
Molo, bandinike ikati lokuzalwa kwaye kuba andikaze ndilichithe, bendinalo ukusukela ndisemncinci kwaye alivelisi sandi, besicinga ukuba sisimumu 🙁 kodwa bendingazi ukuba inokuba nengxaki, Ngempelaveki sizakuyisa kugqirha wezilwanyana ayokutofa okokuqala, ndiyathemba ukuba konke kuhamba kakuhle
Molo Jessica.
Sukuba nexhala lokuba akazukulala - ayizizo zonke iikati ezenzayo.
Ukuba uphila ubomi obuqhelekileyo kwaye ujongeka emhle, andicingi ukuba akananto 🙂
A ubingelele.
Ikati yam ayazi kodwa iyanyibilika xa ijonge ngaphandle kwefestile kwaye xa kukho iminyango evaliweyo kungenjalo ayidibani kwaphela inonyaka.
Molo namhlanje.
Kukho iikati ezingadibaniyo okanye ezingafane zenziwe.
Ukuba uphila ubomi obuqhelekileyo kwaye ulungile, akukho nto inokukhathazeka ngayo.
A ubingelele.
Ikati yam yaqala ukwenza izandi zangasese, ayithethi, ndiyazi, ndiyaqaphela ukuba yenza umzamo wokuzama kwaye kuphume irhorho. Yitya kwaye wenze okufanayo njengakuqala
Molo uSilvina.
Unokuba uginye into ongafanele ukuba nayo, okanye unokuba nentlungu emzimbeni wakho. Ukuba ukuza kuthi ga ngoku ayikaphucuki, kuyacetyiswa ukuba ubonane nogqirha wezilwanyana.
A ubingelele.
Molo, kwiinyanga ezimbini ezidlulileyo bandinike ikati, ngoku ineenyanga ezi-6 ubudala kwaye ayikaze inyanyeke njengekati eqhelekileyo, ekuqaleni sasicinga ukuba sisimumu, xa ifuna into iyasilandela kuyo yonke indawo kwaye ivule umlomo wayo ngokungathi bebezama. . . Uyathandeka kwaye wenza izinto iikati ezininzi ezingazenziyo
Uyakuthanda ukukhwela emotweni, ezingalweni zakhe kwaye unxibe iimpahla. . . Kodwa ndisexhaleni lokuba akandibethi
Molo Paula.
Kukho iikati ezingafumani meow. Ukuba uphila ubomi obuqhelekileyo kwaye wonwabile, kunokwenzeka ukuba usempilweni.
A ubingelele.
Mholo! Kwiinyanga ezine ezidlulileyo sasinekati elifike ekhaya lisandul 'ukuzalwa, akaze afike, wenza isandi nje ... yonke into igqibelele ... Senza ntoni?
Molo Magali.
Kukho iikati ekunzima ukuba zi-meow. Oko akuthethi ukuba bayagula, kodwa banjalo nje 🙂.
Enye yeekati zam ayizenzi ezinye iikati.
A ubingelele.
Molweni, molweni ekuseni, ndinekati kwaye sele igabha iintsuku ezininzi, ndenza iakhawunti kwaye kungoko ndafumanisa ukuba ndikhulelwe ukuba kwiinyanga ezi-4 ezidlulileyo ngoku ndiyeka ukucola ... andazi nokuba uya kumbuyisela kugqirha wezilwanyana
Molo Paula.
Ewe yeyona ilungileyo. Ke uyakwazi ukuba yintoni engalunganga.
Ndiyakuvuyela ngokukhulelwa kwakho
Molweni ndinekati enosana oluneentsuku ezi-3 ubudala ineenyanga ezi-4 ubudala kodwa khange alicenge, uyandigezela, bandixelela ukuba kungenxa yokuba ebengenamama wokumfundisa, andina Ndiyazi ukuba ndenzeni ngoba xa ndingamfumani, ndiqala ukumbiza abaleke kwaye ame aphakame okanye abaleke aye ezinyaweni zam ukuze ndimbone, wayenxibe intsimbi ukuze azi ukuba uphi kodwa ndafunda ukuba kubi, andazi ukuba ndenzeni, nceda, ukuba umntu unento ayaziyo, enkosi.
Molo Rosa Ester.
Kukho iikati ezingasokuze zikhule, nokuba bakhuliswe ngoonina okanye hayi. Oko akuthethi ukuba abasempilweni, kodwa abayifumani kwaphela.
Ukukhwaza ewe, kubi. Kwixesha eliphakathi kunokubangela ukungonwabi okuninzi. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba ikati iyakwazi ukuva isandi semouse ukusuka kwi-7m kude; ukuba nentsimbi akukuncedi nganto.
A ubingelele.
Ndifumene ikati eneenyanga ezi-2 ubudala esitalatweni yodwa kodwa yahamba kodwa yazama kodwa xa yayineenyanga ezi-4 ubudala ndamyeka ndaza ndanomdla kwaye ukuba ubaleka ngokwesiqhelo andazi ukuba kufuneka simse kugqirha wezilwanyana okanye kwenzeka ntoni enyanisweni uhlala neekati ezingaphezulu zizonke zi-4 andazi ukuba yiyo loo nto okanye kufanelekile.
Molo, kwiveki nje edlulileyo, mna nosapho lwam sithathe ikatana ebiye yodwa esitalatweni. Sasihlala simva ethe xibilili edandathekeni kwaye umama wakhe engamtyisi, kwaye simgcina kwaye simkhathalela.
Inyani yile yokuba oko afikayo khange simve nakanye nokuba kukanye kwaye besifuna ukwazi ukuba yingxaki na kufuneka ugqirha wezilwanyana abonisane naye.
Ikati imalunga nenyanga ubudala kwaye sade samngenisa, uchithe iiveki ezimbalwa esitratweni yedwa ngokupheleleyo, engakhange atye kwaye mhlawumbi ayabanda.
Sifuna ukwazi ukuba unengxaki okanye iza kuhamba ngeentsuku ezimbalwa.
Sawubona uCarlos.
Hayi, ayongxaki ukuba wayeka ukucola. Ngokwenyani, iikati eziziva zikhuselekile kwaye zonwabile kuphela zi-meow kunqabile kakhulu (ukubulisa, xa uza kuzinika, ...).
Sukuba nexhala
A ubingelele.
Ikati yam yayinamantshontsho kwaye malunga neentsuku ezi-4 kamva yaqala ukukhala okanye ukungxola kodwa ayizange ivezwe kwaye yayigqibile iintsuku ezimbini kwaye yayingasavakali ngokupheleleyo
Andazi ukuba ndenzeni, akaguli okanye anayo kwaye inyani yeyoba ndiyoyika ukuba angabhubha?
Molo Karen.
Kukho iikati ezidibana zisencinci, ezinye azikaze ziyenze, kwaye ezinye ziyeke ukucheba.
Ukuba ukongeza ekuyekeni ukutya, uyabona ukuba ulahlekelwe ngumdla wokutya okanye ujongeka elusizi, ungathandabuzi ukumsa kugqirha wezilwanyana.
A ubingelele.
Ndiyinkati yeenyanga ezimbini. Ixesha awayekulo nomama wakhe kunye nabantakwabo lalihamba kakhulu Ngapha koko, yayiyeyona isondeleyo kunina. Ngoku ulapha kunye nam kunye neentsuku zokuqala zokugcwala, kodwa khange abenentsuku. Uvula umlomo wakhe kum meow kwaye isandi siphuma sithambe kakhulu ngokungathi utshile.Mhlawumbi ebekhuthele ngakumbi nosapho lwakhe ngaphambili. Ngoku kukho amaxesha emini endimshiya yedwa ... mhlawumbi sele eqhele ukuthula. Ngaba kuyinto eqhelekileyo? okanye ndimse kugqirha wezilwanyana? Enkosi
Molo Khaleesi.
Ngokuqinisekileyo ayisiyonto, kodwa kwimeko apho ndincoma ukuba uyithathe. Kungcono ukuthintela kunokunyanga.
A ubingelele.
Molweni, ndaye ndamkela ikati kwaye yonke into yayiqhelekile ngenye imini waqala ukuba nezinto ezininzi ezimbi kwaye ethimla, ndamsa kugqirha wezilwanyana wandixelela ukuba xa ndicoca ngeklorine, uza kuyisusa kwaye asombulule ingxaki ngoku akasekho Uyathimla kodwa yonke le nto uyibamba ngeliso elinye.Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha akakwazi ukuyivula, ndiyayicoca kwaye ibengcono kodwa ukusukela emva kwemini uyonqena, ulala nje alale angadibanisi, yena wenza ngathi uyafuna kodwa i-meow yakhe ayiphumeli ndinexhala kuba akade agqibe neenyanga ezimbini kwaye andifuni afe kuba abantwana bam bayamthanda kwaye uthobela kakhulu, ingaba yintoni?
Molo uNeyla.
Unokuba ne-parasites yamathumbu (iimbungu) Kule minyaka baqhelekile. Kuya kufuneka umse kugqirha wezilwanyana ukuze ahlolwe ngokupheleleyo, kwaye umse kunyango.
A ubingelele.
Ikati yam ayenzi meow
Uhambisa umlomo wakhe kodwa akukho sandi siphuma, andazi nokuba kungenxa yokuba iinkukhu ezi-2 zifikile nje endlwini ngesiquphe
Uhamba, utya ngesiqhelo kodwa ndiyoyika ukuba emva koko kuya kuba kubi kwakamsinya nje ukuba ndimve namhlanje
Molo uErik.
Kukho iikati ezingadibaniyo, okanye ezenza ubuvila kangangokuba zingaviwa.
Ukuba uhlala esiqhelo, ungakhathazeki
A ubingelele.
Molweni, ndinekati endiyikhulisileyo ukusukela oko ndineenyanga ezimbini ubudala ...
Molo Andre.
Ewe kuqhelekile. Kukho iikati ezingafumani meow.
A ubingelele.
Molweni ngemini elungileyo; Ndinekati elineminyaka emithathu ubudala kunye nam, ndamthatha ekubeni ebeselusana kwaye uyadlala kwaye uphaphile kodwa khange afumane ntsuku zimbini, akahambi ebhedini yam ayolala nam kwaye uyalala ngaphezu kwesiqhelo; Ndineenyanga ezi-3 ndikhulelwe kwaye ikati entsha ize endlwini endlwini kwiinyanga ezimbini ezidlulileyo, esele iyamkela; Ndinexhala loLolita wam, nangona esitya, esiya kwigumbi lokuhlambela azikhathalele, akasafani nangoku. Anokuba yintoni ????
Sawubona, uNancy.
Uxolo andinakukunceda, kodwa andazi ukuba inokuba yintoni Inokuba nje inexesha "elibi", kodwa kwimeko apho ndingacebisa ukumsa kugqirha wezilwanyana kwimeko apho kunokwenzeka.
A ubingelele.
Bandinike ikati elimalunga neenyanga ezintathu ukuya kwezintathu kwiveki edlulileyo kwaye ayivumi, ivula umlomo kwaye ivelise isandi esisezantsi, esingaqondakaliyo. Ngaba iya kuba sisidenge? Uphilile, uyatya, uyalala kwaye uyadlala kwaye ubonakala emhle.Ndifanele ndenze ntoni, enkosi!
Molo Ana.
Kukho iikati ezingadibaniyo, okanye ezenza kancinci kangangokuba ungeva nokuziva. Kodwa iqhelekile loo nto.
Ukuba uyatya, ulale, kwaye konke kulungile, akukho nto inokukhathazeka.
Ukubulisa kunye nokuvuyisana 🙂
Molo, intshontsho lam lekati ukusukela ekuzalweni kwakhe liyazama ukucheba kodwa isandi asivakali kwaye xa sisiva asinabunzima, bendicinga ukuba ayizukuchaphazela kodwa ngoku andisamboni edlala kakhulu (unenyanga ezintathu), yena akasadlali nabantakwabo abancinci, ulele nje.
Molo Damaris.
Kukho iikati ezingadibaniyo kunye nezinye ekuhambeni kweminyaka zilahlekelwe lilizwi.
Kwenzeka ntoni kwikati yakho, ndingakucebisa ukuba ubonane nogqirha wezilwanyana, kuba akuqhelekanga ukuba akafuni kudlala xa eneenyanga ezintathu ubudala.
Ukubulisa, ndiyathemba ukuba iyaphucula.