Iikati ezisusela kwiinyanga ezintlanu ubudala ziya kufuna ukuthatha lonke ithuba eliza kuthi liphume ngaphandle, ngaphandle kokuba siyabagcoba okanye sibabuyisele ngaphambi kokuba babenobushushu bokuqala. Kunzima ukulwa "nefowuni yendalo", ngokuchasene nethuku le-felines, ke ukususela kuloo minyaka kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba siqinisekise ukuba iifestile neengcango zivaliwe ngokufanelekileyo, ukuthintela isilwanyana ekubalekeni.
Esitratweni kukho iingozi ezininzi, ngakumbi ukuba uhlala esixekweni okanye kwidolophu enabantu abaninzi, kodwa ukuba unekati elahlekileyo, Qaphela ezi ngcebiso eziya kukunceda uzifumane.
Ku inqaku elidlulileyo Sithethile ngento ekufuneka yenziwe ukuyifumana, indlela yokwenza iipowusta eziFUNWAYO ezinomfanekiso wobushushu, iinkcukacha zakho zonxibelelwano kunye ukubonelela ngomvuzo wemali (Kude kube namhlanje, ngelishwa, akukho mntu uya kukhangela isilwanyana ukuba akayinikwa imali). Kodwa kufuneka siyifune phi? Ngaliphi ixesha? Yintoni ekufuneka siyenze ukuba siyayifumana?
Into yokuqala ekufuneka siyenzile kukuzama thula. Kunzima kakhulu xa unikwe le meko, kodwa yeyona nto ingcono esinokuyenza. Oku kuyakusivumela ukuba sibe nokuzola kwengqondo, ke kuya kuba lula kuthi ukuyikhangela.
Siya kuphuma siye nini kuye?
Ngokuhlwa, xa kuqala ukuba mnyama. Ukusuka kwezo yure kuxa iikati zisebenza kakhulu.
Uyijonge phi?
Siza kuyikhangela ebumelwaneni bethu, kodwa ayonzakalisi ukuya phambili ngakumbi (ukuya kuthi ga kwiibhloko ezintlanu). Siza kuyikhangela kwikona nganye esinakho, ukumbiza kwaye ujonge ukumtsala kukutya okusemathinini esiza kukuphatha ngesandla.
Kufuneka wenze ntoni xa usifumana?
Ngaphandle kokonwaba kwaye sonwabe, kufuneka simtsalele kuthi. Ukwenza oku, siya kukubiza kwaye sikubonise ukutya okusemathinini. Kuba mhlawumbi ulambile, uya kuza kwangoko atye, Okwangoku esiya kuthatha ithuba lokuyithatha kwaye siyibeke kumphathi.
Emva koko, siya kumthabatha simse ekhaya, simtyise kwaye, ukuba wenzakele kakhulu okanye ukuba ubona ukuba usisiqhwala, siza kuya kugqirha wezilwanyana ukuba uvavanye.
Ukufumana ikati elahlekileyo akusoloko kuyinto elula, kodwa abantu bahlala befumana uboya babo. Sukulahla ithemba.
Mholweni!! Iphepha elimnandi
Ewe, iyandithathela ingqalelo ukuba kwiinyanga ezi-5 iikati ziya kufuna ukuqala ukuthandana
Kulungile ngoku ngoku ngengozi ikati yam yazama ukutsiba yaya kolunye uphahla lwommelwane wam kodwa yawa inja yommelwane yamlandela kwaye ukuba ayifihlanga ibizakumlimaza ndingamthatha ndimzise ekhaya, Kulungile salala, yena wahlala ngaphakathi kwigumbi lokuhlala elele, ekuhambeni kwexesha umakhulu waphakama washiya iingcango zivulekile egadini nophahla xa siphakama wayeshiye indlu, indlela ebendinokuyithatha ngumgca yezindlu zangasemva kwaye kukho imithi eliqela, kodwa apho unokuphumla khona; Inyani yile yokuba akabuyanga kwaye andiqinisekanga ukuba uyayazi indlela yokuya nokubuya, angabuya, akunjalo? Naliphi na ingcebiso- nceda.
Molo Laura.
Andikwazi ukukuxelela ukuba uza kubuya okanye angabuyi 🙁, kodwa ndiyakukhuthaza ukuba uphume uyokumkhangela. Beka uphawu 'olufunwayo' kwindawo yakho, yazisa ugqirha wezilwanyana, buza abamelwane bakho.
Kulungile, amathamsanqa kunye nenkuthazo.
Ndibuhlungu kakhulu kuba ikatana yam izolo ndiyijonge ebusuku kwaye ayisandihoyanga kwaye ayizanga okanye ngengomso ndihlala ndedwa ibinguye kuphela iqabane lam
Sawubona!
Sicebisa ukuba uphume uye kuyikhangela, kwaye ulandele ingcebiso kwinqaku.
Inkuthazo enkulu. Ndiyathemba ukuba niyifumene.