Iikati ezimhlophe. Ezinye izilwanyana ezifakwe umbala wekhephu ezithi, xa zijongana, zivuse umoya wokhuseleko. Banoboya obuthambileyo; kakhulu kangangokuba kukho abo bathi ingathi uchukumisa umqhaphu. Nangona kunjalo, kuhlala kucingwa ukuba zonke ezi furries zixabisekileyo zizizithulu, kodwa Yintoni eyinyani kuloo nto?
Ngokwenene ziikati ezimhlophe kuphela ezinamehlo aluhlaza okanye ezinemibala eyahlukileyo. Impendulo siya kuyifumana ngokufunda ngemfuza yabo.
Uhlobo lwe-W, uhlobo lokungeva
Iikati ezizuza le geni ziya kuba zizithulu kwiimeko ezininzi. Uhlobo lwe-W (oluvela kuMhlophe), yenye yezinto ezibizwa ngokuba yi-pleiotropic, oko kuthetha ukuba linoxanduva lokuphucula iziphumo ezininzi. Kule meko, le yimfuza leyo uyakhathala ukuba umbala webhatyi yakhe umhlophe, amehlo akhe aluhlaza kwaye ngelishwa unengxaki yokuva. Kangangokuba kwangoko emva kokuba indlebe yangaphakathi izelwe sele ihambile.
Kubalulekile ukuba uthi ukuba sisithulu kunokuchaphazela iikati zonke, nokuba zithini umbala webhatyi yazo, kodwa kuxhaphake kakhulu kwabo bonisa ezi zinto zichazwe ngasentla.
Ngaba ichaphazela zonke iikati ngokulinganayo?
Inyani yile yokuba ayenzi njalo, kuba isebenza ngokwahlukileyo kwisilwanyana ngasinye. Inye kuphela into eqinisekileyo kukuba zonke iikati ezifumana le geni ziya kuba mhlophe, zonke. Oku kungenxa yokuba iveza ukungena okupheleleyo kombala wengubo, kodwa hayi ngombala wamehlo okanye isithulu.
Ke, kuye kwagqitywa ukuba ikati emhlophe ngamehlo aluhlaza iphindwe kathathu nge-3 ukuba sisithulu kunelomhlophe kodwa ngamehlo anemibala eyahlukileyo. Kwaye ukuba ifeline emhlophe inamehlo ahlukeneyo, uya kuba namathuba amabini ukuba sisithulu kunelinye elinamehlo amabini aluhlaza.
Ngaba zikhona iikati ezimhlophe ezingevayo kwindalo?
Amakati zizilwanyana eziyilelwe ukuzingela, kwaye ngenxa yoku kufuneka babe nemizwa emihlanu, kubandakanya ukuva. Ukuba omnye wabo wazalwa enesiphene okanye isithulu, into edla ngokwenziwa ngumama kwezi meko ayikokumkhathalela. Kunzima kakhulu kuthi, kodwa le yimithetho yendalo, ukhetho lwendalo. Embindini 'wasendle' umntu ongevayo Ndingaba nobunzima bokuphila.
Kwelinye icala, iikati ezimhlophe ziyasitsala. Uninzi lwethu lufuna ukuhlala (okanye esele silwenzile) kunye nomnye wabo, ke kwiihathatheki apho kukhethwe abo basempilweni kwaye bahle kakhulu, kwaye bawela nabanye. Ezinye zeziphumo zalo mkhuba yile isithulu Ezelwe ngabo abaninzi.
Ukwazi njani ukuba ikati yam isithulu
Njengoko sele sibonile, uhlobo lwe-W aluchaphazeli zonke iikati ngokulinganayo, ngamanye amaxesha siyaqonda ukuba umhlobo wethu usisithulu xa sele ekhulile. Nangona kunjalo, Siyakwazi ukubona ukuba unengxaki yokuva ukuba senza ingxolo enkulu kufutshane naye kwaye akoyiki. Ikati engevayo ngeendlebe ingabaleka iye kuzimela, kodwa ukuba kunjalo, kuba ayizukukuva, iya kuhlala izolile apho ikhoyo.
Ukongeza, unokuxela ukuba unengxaki ngendlebe yakhe yangaphakathi ukuba uyangxola kakhulu kuba akakwazi ukulawula ubungakanani belizwi lakhe okanye ukuba unomdla wokujikeleza xa ehamba. Kodwa olona vavanyo phantse luya kuba ukuqhwaba izandla xa ulele. Aba banoboya bayathanda ukulala ngoxolo, kodwa ukuba senza ingxolo enkulu kufutshane naye, njengempama, uya koyika azifihle ... ngaphandle kokuba usisithulu, kule meko uzakuqhubeka nokulala ngoxolo kwaye asizukubanayo ukhetho kodwa ndimse kugqirha wezilwanyana ukuze alivavanye.
Kwaye lufuna luphi unonophelo ikati engevayo?
Ikati engevayo yikati eya kufuna uthando nengqwalaselo, njengayo nayiphi na enye. Kodwa kuyinyani ukuba kuyakufuneka ukumthintela ukuba aphumele ngaphandle, kungenjalo ubomi bakhe bunokuba sengozini ngokungamva isandi seemoto, umzekelo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uhlale ungaphakathi ekhaya ukuze uphile ngolonwabo iminyaka emininzi.
Omnye umba ekufuneka uthathelwe ingqalelo yindlela esijongana nayo. Iikati, ngokubanzi, zijongana nezinye iikati okanye zisuka ngaphambili zenze uhlobo lwejika, azisondeli ngasemva (ngaphandle kokuba zidlala ngokucacileyo 🙂). Ewe, xa sinekati engevayo nathi kufuneka senze njaloUkuhlala kunye kuya kuba mnandi ngakumbi kuye wonke umntu.
Khumbula ukuba lo gama engeva, unezinye izivamvo ezi-4 ezingatshintshiyo (5, ukuba ucinga ukuba 'unoluvo lwesithandathu'). Mnakekele kwaye umhlonele ngokungathi akanangxaki yokuva: umfanele. Thatha ixesha lokudlala naye yonke imihla, myeke achithe ixesha kunye nawe, kwaye nobabini niqinisekile ukonwaba kakhulu iminyaka emininzi, emininzi.
Ndiyazi kuphela iikati ezinamehlo antsundu kwaye ezo ndinekati ezinamehlo aluhlaza zazingezozithulu.
Ukungeva kunxulumene nohlobo lwe-W kunye ne-s gene (iikati ezithile ezimhlophe) kunye nee-albino, ngokubhekisele kumbala wengubo. Kungenxa yoko le nto ingxelo abayenzayo "Ngokwenyani, ziikati ezimhlophe kuphela ezinamehlo aluhlaza okanye imibala eyahlukileyo." ayichanekanga, kuba ikwenzeka nakwiikati ezinamehlo ansundu. Umthombo, ngaphandle kokuba ngumncedisi wezilwanyana, kukuba ndineekati ezimhlophe ezinamehlo angaboniyo, enye imhlophe enye inendawo encinci kwaye inzala yabo khange kubekho njana zezithulu sinolwazi ngazo. Kwaye enye kukuba ndamkele ikati elimhlophe ngokupheleleyo elinamehlo amdaka kwaye ngequbuliso xa sibadala saqonda ukuba wayesisithulu ngokupheleleyo.
Kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo ukuba inkqubo apho amehlo athabatha umbala inokubangela ukuba imibala eyahlukileyo, ingabi luhlaza okwesibhakabhaka kuphela, kodwa ikwahlula namehlo, kodwa konke oku kuchatshazelwa ziipolitiki eziphembelela uhlobo lweW.
Ke kuya kufuneka uqale ngokugxotha iintsomi ezithile.
Phendula nge quote
Enkosi kakhulu ngengcaciso, gsd 🙂
Ndinekati emhlophe emhlophe ngokupheleleyo enamehlo eorenji (ithoni eyomeleleyo) kwaye isithulu, ndiyabona ukuba unoburhalarhume kakhulu, ayivumeli ukuba icinezelwe kwaye imow igqithise kakhulu, iyangxola xa isiza kutya, ebusuku uyasebenza kwaye uyankqonkqoza yonke into phantsi.
Molo Judely.
Ngandlel 'ithile, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba aziphathe ngale ndlela. Ukuphulukana nokuva kwabo, okanye ukuzalwa bengeva, kufuneka 'bazazise'. Kungenxa yoko le nto ephakama kakhulu kunesiqhelo.
Ingcebiso yam kukuba akaphelelanga, menzele isitokhwe. Oku kuyakwenza uzive ukhululeke ngakumbi njengoko ungasayi kuphinda uye kufuna iqabane.
Ukuba awuvumeli ukuba ucinezelwe, ewe, kuya kufuneka uyihloniphe. Mnike ukuphatha kwekati amaxesha ngamaxesha, umjonge kancinci evula kwaye evala amehlo, hlala kufutshane naye umgcina enenkampani.
I sibindi!