Xa siza kuthatha isilwanyana, ngaphambi kokuba siye naso ekhaya, baya kusenza sisayine isivumelwano sokukhulisa umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho. Olu xwebhu lusemthethweni kwaye luya kuba luncedo kakhulu, kokubini kumamkeli nakwindawo yokuhlala yezilwanyana kude kube ngoku ibinyamekela leyo inoboya. Kodwa, Yintoni kanye kanye?
Ukuba unamathandabuzo malunga nesi sihloko kwaye awufuni ukuthatha isimanga, ndiza kuzama ukusombulula bonke 🙂.
Isivumelwano sokwamkelwa komntwana ngumntu ongamzelanga ibengowakho ezomthetho nezibophelelayo ukuba bobabini umkhuseli kunye nomqondiso wokucwangciswa komntu abengowomnye umntu okanye abantwana ngexa lokufakwa kwesilwanyana Icacisa izivumelwano ekufikelelwe kuzo, ezinje:
- Imirhumo yokwamkelwa komntwana abengowomnye umntu okanye abantu ngokusemthethweni kufuneka ihlawule
- Isimo sezempilo sezilwanyana
- Ukuzibophelela komntwana lowo, njengokuhambisa isilwanyana ukuba asinakho ukusikhathalela, yazisa ukuba iyayitshintsha idilesi yaso kwaye siyikhathalele
Olu luxwebhu olubaluleke kakhulu, kuba into elindelweyo kukuba isilwanyana siyakuphela sisezandleni ezilungileyo hayi kwezi zingenjalo. Ngale ndlela, kuyathintelwa ukuba iphele ishiywa okanye isetyenziselwa ezinye iinjongo ezingavumelekanga, njengokufuya.
Ngapha koko, Ukuze isebenze ngokwenyani, yonke idatha yomkhuseli kufuneka ibandakanywe (I-CIF; iofisi ebhalisiweyo, inombolo yobhaliso lombutho), i-ID yomntu owamkele umntwana lowo wamkelayo kunye nedilesi yakhe, kunye omabini la maqela makayisayine. Kwangokunjalo, kuyacetyiswa ukuba kunye nekhontrakthi kunikezelwe ingxelo yezilwanyana okanye ikhadi lokugonya eliqinisekisa imeko yezempilo yesilwanyana.
Okwangoku, sinokuthatha umhlobo wethu omtsha simgoduse simnyamekele ngendlela efanele yena. Ewe kunjalo, kufuneka sazi ukuba xa siyiphatha kakubi, siyityeshele okanye singayitheni ngexesha elimiselweyo, umkhuseli unelungelo elisemthethweni lokuphinda afumane isilwanyana.
Ngaba ibikubangela umdla kuwe?