Ikati nganye ine "ubuntu" bayo, kwaye malunga noku, kuya kuba kunqabile kakhulu kumaxesha apho kuya kusothusa xa sele sazi ukuba ungumlinganiswa onjani umhlobo wethu. Bambalwa kakhulu sihlala sikhathazekile: Sicinga ukuba kukho into embi engalunganga kuye, kwaye nangona isenokuba sesona sizathu, ayisoloko iyinyani ngokupheleleyo.
Namhlanje ndiza kukucacisela izizathu ezinokubangela Ukutshintsha ngesiquphe kweekati.
Ezi zilwanyana zihlala zihlala zihlala. Le yinto esiyibonayo yonke imihla sihlala nabo: bayathanda ukuphathwa, ukudlalwa kunye, ... ngamafutshane, ukuba siyayonwabela inkampani yabo. Ngoku, xa singenazo ezinye iimfuno zakho ezigutyungelweyo, kunokwenzeka ukuba tshintsha indlela oziphethe ngayo: banokuba krwada, bazihlukanise okanye babonakalise isimilo esibaxekileyo ngenxa yokungakhathalelwa, "kokulahlwa ngokweemvakalelo" (Oko kukuthi, kuyeke ukunika uthando).
Kukho iikati ezinika ngaphezulu kunokuba zifumana. Ngabo bathanda kakhulu mega abathanda ukuchitha usuku lonke kufutshane nomntu obaphathayo, kodwa abathi emva koko bafumane nto ngaphandle kokutya, amanzi kunye nophahla. Nangona ngethamsanqa esiya sincipha, kukho abo basacinga ukuba iikati zifuna kuphela ezo zinto zintathu, kwaye akunjalo. Ikati lilungu losapho nayo Ufuna uthando nengqwalaselo. Yonke imihla.
Kutheni le nto utshintsho olwenzeka ngesiquphe kwindlela yokuziphatha kwekati lusenzeka?
Zininzi izinto ezinokubangela:
Ukungabikho kwenkathalo kumgcini wakho
Kuhlala kucingwa ukuba ezi feline zizimeleyo kwaye zilula ukukhathalela izilwanyana, nokuba ngokubanika ukutya namanzi baya kuba belungile. Kodwa akunjalo. Amakati afuna okungaphezulu kunoko: Bafuna ukuziva beyinxalenye yosapho, kwaye ngenxa yoku, aba bantu kufuneka bazame ukubakhonza, bagcine ubudlelwane, ... Ngamafutshane, mphathe njengelungu elinye.
Ukongeza, kukho iikati, njengoko besitshilo, zinothando kakhulu, zixhomekeke kakhulu emphefumlweni. Baza kuba nexesha elibi xa beshiyeke bodwa, ke ukuba uthatha uhambo eyona nto intle onokuyenza kukucela umntu omthembileyo ukuba abe kunye nabo, okanye ukuba kunokwenzeka, eze kuhlala endlwini yakho de ufike umva.
Intlungu okanye ukungaphatheki kakuhle
Le yinto enokwenzeka nakubantu: iintlungu (ngokwasemzimbeni kunye / okanye ngokweemvakalelo) zenza ukuba indlela esiziphatha ngayo itshintshe ngakumbi, okanye incinci, kodwa iyayeka ukufana. Njengoko iikati ngelishwa zingathethi njengabantu, kwaye kunokuba nzima ukufumanisa ukuba yintoni engalunganga kubo, kufanelekile ukutyelela ugqirha wezilwanyana. Kodwa ukuba wena okanye usapho lwakho nihamba nexesha elibi, ngokuqinisekileyo isilwanyana siyayiqaphela, into eya kubenza bazive bengonwabanga.
Isisombululo si ... Uncedo olulungileyo lokuthambisa yonke imihla 🙂. Ayisiyongxaki enkulu, kodwa ingokumbonisa ukuba umthanda kangakanani. Mnike ukuphatha kwakhe ikati amaxesha ngamaxesha, uya kumonwabisa!
Ikati yam inothando ngaphezu kwesiqhelo, kwenzeka ntoni kuye?
Ukuba ayifakwanga neutered kwaye kusentwasahlobo okanye ihlobo, kunokwenzeka kakhulu ukuba ukuba libhinqa liye langena ebushushwini, kwaye ukuba liyindoda ifuna ukuba uvule umnyango ukuze ufumane iqabane. Kodwa ukuba ukhe wenza utyando olunjalo, kunokwenzeka kakhulu Ndizamile ukukuxelela into: unokufuna inkampani, okanye ufuna uncedo lwezilwanyana.
Ngayiphi na imeko, ukutyelela ingcali kuya kukunceda wehle, kuba ukuba uyagula uyakufumana unyango, kwaye ukuba akanalo, uya kwazi ke ukuba into ekufuneka uyenzile kukuchitha ixesha elininzi kuye.
Ngaba ikati enoburharha ingaba ngequbuliso ingaba?
Ewe kunjalo, nangona kuya kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba ukuba ndlongondlongo kuhlala kuhamba noloyiko nokungazithembi. Ngamanye amagama: azikho iikati ezinobundlongondlongo, kodwa ke iimeko apho baziphatha ngolu hlobo. Abenzi ngokokulungiselela kwangaphambili, kuba abanasakhono, kodwa ngengqondo.
Ukuthathela ingqalelo oku, Ungaba nomsindo ngesiquphe nini? Kumatyala alandelayo:
- Xa sizisa ikati yesibini engaziwa ngokupheleleyo kuye.
- Xa sibuyela ekhaya sivela kugqirha wezilwanyana kunye neqabane lakhe ekufuneka liphathwe okanye lahlinzwa.
- Xa eye wehlelwa yimeko ebuhlungu kuye.
- Xa uziva ukuba ubomi bakho busemngciphekweni.
Ukumdambisa Kuqala kufuneka sazi ukuba kutheni iziphatha ngolu hlobo. Umzekelo, kwiimeko ezimbini zokuqala, eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuzazisa (okanye ukuphinda ubonise); yisa enye kwigumbi kwaye utshintshe iibhedi kangangeentsuku eziyi-3-4, emva koko uzibeke ndawonye phantsi kweliso.
Ukuba ubukhe waphila okanye uphila kwixesha loxinzelelo olukhulu kunye noxinzelelo, okanye ukuba uziva ngathi ubomi bakho busemngciphekweni, into esiya kuyenza kukususa kude apho kuphela xa kukho ingozi yokwenene; Oko kukuthi, ukuba woyika ingxowa yeplastiki (umzekelo), ukuchukumisa ingxowa kunye nokuyinika ukuphatha amaxesha ngamaxesha ukuze ubone ukuba akukho nto iphosakeleyo yanele.
Ukuba ingozi iyinyani (inja okanye esinye isilwanyana okanye umntu uyakukhathaza okanye uyakuhlasela) sizakuzama ukukukhupha kuloo meko, ukoyikisa umhlaseli wakho okanye umhlaseli, okanye umcele-ukuba ngumntu-ukuba ahambe.
Ungayinceda njani ikati ngokoyika ngequbuliso?
Uzolile kwaye unomonde. Ukuphatha ikati kunokwenza iqhinga, kodwa kuphela xa engoyiki. Ukuba sisilwanyana esihlala sifihlwe kwikona yendlu, Kuya kuba ngcono ukuba uthethe ngelizwi elonwabileyo, elizolileyo nelithambileyo. Musa ukwenza iintshukumo ngequbuliso okanye ingxolo; ubuqili.
Qonda kwaye usebenzise ulwimi lomzimba lomfazi- Qhwanyaza kancinci, jonga umzuzwana, emva koko jonga kude. Ezi nkcukacha, nangona zibonakala zincinci, ziya kwenza uboya buqonde ukuba angaziva ekhuselekile ekhaya.
Ungasusa njani uxinzelelo kwiikati?
Amakati ayalunyamezela uxinzelelo ngokungalunganga, yiyo loo nto xa kunokwenzeka Kufuneka sishiye ukungavisisani ngaphandle kwekhaya. Ukuhamba, amaqela, ukwahlukana okanye ii-duels ziimeko ezibachaphazela kakhulu, ukuya kwinqanaba lokuba isimilo sabo singatshintsha.
Indlela yokubanceda ukuzola, kunye nomonde. Ukuba siyahamba, siya kumshiya egumbini nezinto zakhe de sigqibe (ewe, siya kuba naye ixesha elide, imihla yonke); ukuba uxinezelekile yimibutho okanye utyelelo, singazama ukumdibanisa nabantu; Kwaye ukuba sihamba ngokwahlukana okanye nge-duel, kunzima kodwa kufuneka sizame ukuqhubeka nenkqubo yemihla ngemihla. Ukuba kunzima kuthi, siya kucela uncedo kwiingcali.
Yeyiphi indlela yokuziphatha eqhelekileyo yeekati?
Lowo ngomnye wemibuzo engenampendulo ibenye, kuba iya kuxhomekeka kakhulu kwikati, kwimfuza, apho ikhuliswe khona kwaye ikhuliswe njani, inkathalo eyifumeneyo kwinqanaba kunye noko ikufumanayo ngoku, ... Kodwa ukuba ufuna ukuba nembono engaphezulu okanye encinci, ikuxelele Amantshontsho ekati aqhelekile, enovalo, ayadlala, kwaye ayaphuma, ngamanye amaxesha kakhulu.
Kuya kufuneka ube nomonde kakhulu kubo, ubafundise ngentlonipho, kodwa kunjalo nangothando. Kuya kufuneka sishiye ngasemva izithambiso, sizigalele amanzi, kwaye sizibethe. Oku kuyakwenza kuphela ukuba basoyike.
Ukuba sithetha ngeekati zabantu abadala, zihlala zineentloni, zinomtsalane, kodwa zinobuhlobo kuphela nezinye iikati okanye nabanye abantu (Oku kuya kuxhomekeka kakhulu ekubeni bangabemi bendalo, oko kukuthi, ukuba bakhulele esitratweni ngaphandle kokunxibelelana nabantu, okanye ngokuchaseneyo, bahlala kwaye bahlala nosapho olubakhathalele ngothando).
Kukho iimeko ezithile ezizodwa apho unokufumana khona iikati ezithandayo inkampani yakhe nabani na ofuna ukuziphulula, kodwa zikwimeko ekhethekileyo. Ukuba nethamsanqa ngokwaneleyo ukuhlala nomntu onje akukho lula. Kuya kufuneka usebenze kakhulu kubudlelwane bomntu-ikati, kufuneka uthathe ixesha lokuqonda ulwimi lomzimba wakhe, umhloniphe ngenxa yento ayiyo nokuba unjani (oko kuthetha ukuba makamnike afike ngefanitshala, umzekelo, okanye ibhedi).
Ndiyathemba ukuba iluncedo kuwe 🙂.
Molweni, ikati yam itshintshile oko ndasusa ikhaphethi endlwini yam, akatyi kwaye ufuna ukuba phantsi kwegumbi elingaphantsi phezu kwezinye iimpahla, ndiyambiza kwaye akafuni ukwehla angandinceda.
Molo Maria.
Ungazama ukumnika ukutya akuthandayo, njengamathini eekati. Njengoko inevumba elinamandla, akufuneki ithathe ixesha elide ukuphuma.
Okanye, tsala umdla wakhe ngento yokudlala okanye ngentambo, kwaye udlale naye.
A ubingelele.
Sawubona,
Oko sabuya eholideyini, ikati yam ayifuni ukunyathela emhlabeni kwaye ukuyishenxisa itsiba ukusuka kwenye ifanitshala iye kwenye ... ingaba inzima na okanye ndiyayiyeka ithi chu ibuyele "esiqhelweni"?
Molo uMaria Inés.
Iikati azikuthandi ukuba semhlabeni kakhulu njengoko le yindawo abanokuziva besemngciphekweni kuyo.
Ngapha koko, kancinci kancinci kufuneka ibuyele esiqhelweni.
A ubingelele.
Molo, ikati lam litshintshe ngesiquphe indlela aziphethe ngayo. Uye woyikisa kakhulu, uyafihla, uyachopha kwaye udlala yonke indawo, ulusu neenwele ziyabulala, kwaye kubonakala ngathi uyimfama. Ugqirha wezilwanyana akayazi ukuba ingaba yintoni. Nceda uncede! Ndixhalabile!
Molo Sofia.
Ndincoma ukubuza uluvo lwesibini lwezilwanyana. Andililo ugqirha wezilwanyana, uxolo.
Ekuphela kwento endinokucinga ngayo kukuba ukutya kungangabi kuhle kuye. Ndikucebisa ukuba ujonge ukuba unazo na iisiriyeli (umbona, ingqolowa, i-oats, njl. Njl.), Kwaye ukuba kunjalo, yitshintshele kwenye engakhokeleli, ukuze ubone ukuba iyaphucuka na.
Inkuthazo enkulu.
Molo apho! Ndinekati eneminyaka emi-6 ubudala, safuduka kwigumbi ukuya ekhaya kunyaka odlulileyo. Ndimenze washiya iingqalutye kodwa iinyanga ezimbalwa ebengene endlwini kanye xa engena endlini. Ngaba kukuswela uthando, ukugula okanye kuya kuba yintoni?
Sawubona Marcela.
Uxolo, andikuqondisisi kakuhle. Uyithathile ibhokisi yenkunkuma kwikati yakho ukuze ikwazi ukuzikhulula ngaphandle kwaye ngoku ibuyela ukuyokuyenza ekhaya? Ukuba kunjalo, mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba ukhululekile ngakumbi ukuzikhulula ngaphakathi endlwini.
Ngayiphi na imeko, ngekhe kube buhlungu ukuba ugqirha wezilwanyana amvavanye, ukujonga ukuba akanalo na usulelo.
A ubingelele.
Holi… ndineebhokhwe ezimbini. Unye unyaka omnye ubudala kwaye wathena omnye kwiinyanga ezisixhenxe ezamphosa kwiiveki ezi-1 ezidlulileyo. Babethandana, bahlala kwaye behlala bekunye. Ukusukela oko waphosa eyona incinci ... Olona tshintsho lukhulu kwaye uhlala ehlasela kwaye akonwabanga ... (bobabini bagonyelwe umgada). Andazi ukuba ndenzeni ukumnqanda ahlasele ii-lamas ezincinci. Ndizama ukubapompa ngokulinganayo kodwa akukho nto iyisebenzisayo .. Omdala uhlala enomsindo. Nceda!
Molo uCarla.
Ndikucebisa ukuba ubangenise kwakhona. Thatha omncinci umse egumbini iintsuku ezintathu. Kwelo gumbi kufuneka ibhedi yakho igqunywe ngengubo. Gquma enye ibhedi ngenye ibhedi. Ngexesha losuku lwesibini nolwesithathu kuya kufuneka uzitshintshe, ke baya kwamkela kwakhona umbala womzimba wenye.
Ngosuku lwesine, yekela ikati phandle kwaye ubone ukuba basabela njani. Caress enye kwaye kwangoko enye ukuze kancinci kancinci babe nevumba elifanayo, nto leyo eya kubanceda bazive bezolile.
Yiba nomonde. Kungekudala baya kudibana kwakhona.
A ubingelele.
Mholweni. Ndidinga uncedo. Ndinekati ephantse yaneminyaka eli-9 ubudala, sele i-neutered. Kwiiveki ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo uqale ukugabha kakhulu kwaye ndimse kugqirha wezilwanyana. Benza iimvavanyo zegazi kwaye yonke into ihambe kakuhle kwaye uvavanyo lokukhupha i-pancreatitis lubuye lungelulo. Kwagqitywa kwelokuba zazenzelwe iinwele kwaye bamisela imithombo. Kwaye emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa ndiyeke ukugabha. Kodwa emva koko waqala ukuphefumla ngokungaqhelekanga kwaye akasasebenzi, akakhethi, okanye ufuna ukudlala, uchitha ixesha lakhe elininzi elele phantsi. Ibonakala ilusizi. Ayifani. Ngamanye amaxesha iyangqubeka engaqhelekanga kwaye iphakamise umsila. Inokuba yintoni? Zeziphi iimvavanyo ekufuneka uzazile onazo? Enkosi.
Molo Cris.
Imalt isenokungakwenzi kakuhle.
Kodwa loo nto inokwaziwa kuphela ngugqirha wezilwanyana (andinguye).
Ungazama ukuyinika ioyile encinci, ukubona ukuba iyabambeka na, kodwa ndicebisa ukuba uphinde uyithathe.
Inkuthazo enkulu.
Molo, kuye kwavela ukuba bendikunye nekati yam yasePersi engathathi cala kangangeminyaka emi-3 kwaye kwezi veki zimbalwa uqhelekile, njengoko engazinzanga kunesiqhelo kwaye esoyikisa, ngamanye amaxesha, ngequbuliso, uhlala endijongile ngaphandle kokuqhwanyaza nokuleqa ngokungathi ndingowasemzini ongene endlwini yakhe, ngokungathi akandazi, uba ndlongondlongo, andirhale ade andiqhwabe ngempama xa ndisondela. uloyiko, andiqondi, uloyiko Yintoni? Okokugqibela le nto yenzeke kum, ngaphandle koko, besidlala imidlalo. Yayingeyiyo ikati enobundlobongela, enyanisweni, yayiyikati enezinto, enkulu, kodwa yatshintsha ngesiquphe, ayizange indihlasele ngaphambili, kwaye kubonakala ngathi ndisisoyikiso kuyo. Okanye kutheni isenza loo nto? Ndiyabulela kwangoko.
Sawubona!
Ewe, into oyithethayo ayiqhelekanga kakhulu. Ukuba akukho lutshintsho, ndicebisa ukuba umse kugqirha wezilwanyana ukuze ahlolwe ngokupheleleyo.
Ngamanye amaxesha kunokusinika ukuziva ngathi usempilweni, kodwa xa kusenzeka kuwe, akukho ngxaki yezilwanyana inokukhutshelwa ngaphandle.
Ukuba yonke into ekugqibeleni ilungile, zithembele ngesisu: mnike ukutya kwekati emanzi kunye nokuphatha ikati. Mthambise njengomntu ongayifuniyo loo nto xa esitya, ke uya kudibanisa lo mboniso wothando kunye nento elungileyo eyikukutya.
Mmeme ukuba adlale ngeentambo, izilwanyana ezifakiweyo, iibhola ezincinci. Ukuba uyakukrwela / uyakuluma okanye uzimisele ukwenza njalo, yeka umdlalo kwaye uwushiye umzuzu okanye emibini ubuninzi.
Kuya kufuneka ube nomonde, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha uncedo lwe-feline ethologist lunokufuneka, kodwa ekugqibeleni ungabona ukuphucula.
Inkuthazo enkulu.
Molo, ikati yam iqale ukuhlasela ikati yam ndingabikho ndawo, le ndawo ingummandla lutshintsho olukhulu kakhulu kwaye andazi ukuba yintoni ingxaki yakhe.
Ikati yam iyahamba kwaye ifihle kuba iyamkhathaza kwaye imphethe kakubi kakhulu, imhlasela ngamandla kwaye ngaphandle kwesizathu.
Kwenzekani?
Molo Natalia.
Ngaba lukhona utshintsho ekhaya? Ukuhamba, ukusebenza, ...?
Ukuba akubangakho nto, kuye kuthi qatha kum ukuba mhlawumbi ikati ikwimpilo enkenenkene. Ngamanye amaxesha xa bengalunganga benza ngobundlongondlongo, kungoko ndingacebisa ukuba ndimse kugqirha wezilwanyana ukuze ndimjonge.
Kwimeko apho kulungile, ke ndikucebisa ukuba uchithe ixesha elininzi kunye nabo, nidlale, kwaye nibanike uthando olufanayo. Ke, kancinci kancinci, bobabini baya kuzola.
Inkuthazo enkulu.
Ndinekati endala emalunga neminyaka eli-10 ubudala kwaye ibihlala inothando kakhulu kwaye mva nje xa ndimphuza uyayithanda njengesiqhelo kwaye uyandihlamba kwaye uyandikhotha kodwa emva kwethutyana ndiye ndamphulula uyacaphuka aze andithulele xa ndiphatha yena, inokuba yintoni?
Molo barbara.
Kufuneka ibe lutshintsho kwindlela yokuziphatha eqhelekileyo kubudala. Ukuba uphila ubomi obuqhelekileyo kwaye awusaboni zimpawu, ngokuqinisekileyo akasathandi ukuphathwa ixesha elide.
A ubingelele.
Ndinekati eneminyaka emi-5 ubudala, yayihlala ingenalo uthando (ngakumbi ebantwaneni, kwakubonakala ngathi ayibathandi), yanyamalala phantse iiveki ezimbini, kwaye ngoku ndibuyayo inomdla kakhulu kwaye uvumela ukuphathwa ngabantwana, nam ndinekati engunyana wakhe, kodwa ngoku ebuyile ikati iyamgquma kwaye ifuna ukumbetha, inokuba yintoni?
Molo Elmer.
Ngaba i-neutered? Ukuba akakho, unokukhulelwa kwaye indlela aziphethe ngayo itshintshile ngenxa yale meko akuyo.
Kwimeko apho iqhutywa khona, kungenzeka ukuba ikati ayilamkeli ivumba lomzimba kanina, kwaye liyibona ingamazi. Ukuyisombulula, kuya kufuneka ubaphathe bobabini, kuqala enye, emva koko enye, emva koko ubuyele kweyokuqala. Ezi zilwanyana zikhokelwa kakhulu livumba, ke ukuba ziyaqonda ukuba zonke zinuka ngokufanayo, ziya kuthi chu ukuzola.
Kukwabalulekile ukubanika ukutya okumanzi (iinkonkxa) kwaye wenze imeko efanayo kubo bobabini.
A ubingelele.
Molo, andazi ukuba ungandinceda na.
Ndineekati ezimbini, eneminyaka emi-4 ubudala kunye nomntwana oneminyaka emi-2. Nangona bobabini benobuntu obahlukeneyo, bathanda ukuhlala kakuhle, kwaye babehlala befunene kwaye bebeka ndawonye ngaphandle kwengxaki. Kwiiveki ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo sithathe isigqibo sokukhathalela intshontsho elinenyanga-enye ubudala iiveki ezimbalwa, kwaye omncinci ukwazile ukuyiphulula, ngelixa indala iqhele nje ukuba nomonde.
Ngeli xesha ikati yayilapha, sagqiba kwelokuba simse kugqirha wezilwanyana ukuze ahlolwe kwaye kwafumaniseka ukuba unee-parasites, ke siye sathatha ezinye iikati zam ezimbini ukuze sihlolwe. Ikati yam endala yabonakala ilungile, kodwa umntwana oneminyaka emi-2 wayenosulelo olomeleleyo, ke ugqirha wezilwanyana wagqiba kwelokuba amtofe ngenaliti, iintshulube kunye neevithamini. Waqala ukuphucula kancinci, kwaye wabonakala elusizi ngokungabikho kwekatana, kodwa wayebonakala ephucula impilo. Ude waphinda wabuyela kwimeko yakhe, saphinda samthatha kwaye ugqirha wezilwanyana wathi kunokwenzeka ukuba unesifo se-parasite, ke wamnika i-iron, iivithamini kunye nonyango lwe-antibiotics kwakhona. Kodwa ikati yam yayisoyika ukuya kugqirha wezilwanyana, kwaye inaliti zentsimbi zamkhathaza kakhulu. Iiveki ezimbini zidlulile ukusukela ngoko. Ikati yam ijongeka ichache ngokupheleleyo, inovalo oluncinci kodwa ngokubanzi ibuyile yayilikati elinothando elalililo. Yonke into yayilungile, de ikati evela esitalatweni yaqala ukuza kuphawula indawo. Zombini iikati ziyachaphazeleka, kwaye ikati encinci ibinengxaki ezimbalwa ekubuyiseni kwayo kwispay, kodwa yonke into ibonakala njengesiqhelo. Ngoku, iikati zam ziyalwa zilume zodwa, kwaye ikati yam enkulu ikhafisa enye ikati yam, kwaye ikati encinci iziphosa kuye ilume kwaye ikrwempe kakhulu. Kwaye bobabini bayekile ukutya ukutya esibanika kona, kwaye bashiya yonke into imdaka kwaye igcwele ngamaqhekeza eecroquettes (khange bayenze loo nto). Ndiyaxolisa kakhulu ukuba umyalezo wam mde kangaka, kodwa kuba andazi ukuba yeyiphi kwezi ziganeko inokuba ngunobangela wotshintsho ekuziphatheni kweekati zam, ndikhethe ukuxelela yonke into eyenzekileyo mva nje enokuba yingxaki. Ndiyabulela kakhulu ngexesha lakho, kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba ungandinceda ndenze ntoni neekati zam, ndiyazithanda kakhulu kwaye andifuni ukuba babe ngoluhlobo nabanye, ngakumbi kuba babevana ngokumangalisayo ngaphambili.
Molo Alison.
Okokuqala, ndicela uxolo ngokulibazisa. Ibhlog ibingasebenzi ixesha elithile.
Ziqhuba njani iikati? Ndiyathemba ukuba baphucule; kwaye ukuba akunjalo, ndiza kukuxelela:
Andililo ingcali, kodwa kule nto uyithethayo oyena nobangela wale ngxaki inokuba zizinto ezininzi:
-ivumba le-vet (iikati ngokwazo zibangela ukungonwabi kunye noxinzelelo; kwaye ngamanye amaxesha abo bahlala ekhaya babaphatha abo bebelapho kakubi)
-ukubonakala kwale kati yasesitalatweni (ngaba ichithwe okanye ayifakwanga?) , kwaye ke kananjalo ukubakho kobushushu). Ukuba azinanzala, inokuba kwenzeka ntoni kubo kukuba xa bebona ivumba lenye ikati, bayacaphukisana ngenxa yokungakwazi ukusondela kuye.
Enye into enokwenzeka kukuba, icacile kwaye ilula, abayithandi loo kati ikhoyo, kwaye bahlawulela umsindo wabo kunye nenye.
Kwimeko nayiphi na into, ndincoma ukuba wenze ngathi awazi nhlobo. Njengokuba bekuyiveki yokuqala abahlala nawe. Thatha omnye waba babini (mncinci) umse egumbini elinebhedi, isondli, amanzi, ibhokisi yenkunkuma. Iintsuku ezintathu, tshintshisanani ngeebhedi. Emva kwelo xesha, mabadibane kwaye banukelane. Yiba neenkonkxa ezimbalwa zokutya kwekati emanzi zilungile. Sukungxola okanye uthethele phezulu: kungcono ukwenza intshukumo ethambileyo, echuliweyo… kwaye uthethe nabo ngokungathi ngamantombazana amancinci (kakhulu, ihlala isebenza 😉).
Ukurhona kuyinto eqhelekileyo, kwaye nokukhaba omnye komnye. Kodwa ukuba ubona iinwele zabo zimile, bayagquma omnye komnye kwaye, ekugqibeleni, ukuba bazokulwa, beka umtshayelo okanye into phakathi kwabo, kwaye uzame ukufaka omnye kwaba babini egumbini. Zama kwakhona ngosuku olulandelayo.
Kuya kufuneka ube nomonde kakhulu, kodwa ngokuhamba kwexesha uza kubona iziphumo.
Tyhila.
Molo, ikati yam kwezi ntsuku zimbini ayimangalisi, ndithetha ukuba incinci kakhulu kunothando kuneentsuku ezimbini ezidlulileyo; Ikati ngokwendlela yokutya kunye namanzi ayisiyongxaki, kodwa kwakude kudala yayiyiropu, yayilala esifubeni sam, yalala nam, ndakwazi ukuphatha yonke indawo.
kodwa ngoku ngethemba lokuba ungena emilenzeni kwaye ehle kwangoko akafuni ukungena endlwini awayefudula engena kuyo ngaphandle kokucinga
Molo Monse.
Ungamsa kugqirha wezilwanyana ukuze umjonge, ubone ukuba unayo nantoni na. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha xa kushushu kakhulu umzekelo, okanye xa bekhula, nabona bantu bathandekayo bayayeka ukuba njalo. Banokuba neentsuku xa bengafuni kunxibelelana nabantu.
Nibuliso!
Molo unjani?
Sihlangule ikati eneenyanga ezimbini ezinesiqingatha isitalato samkelwa. Ekuqaleni wayenothando kodwa safumanisa ukuba uyazingela kwaye uyadlala. Kuyenzeka ukuba kusuku olunye kuye kolunye usuku wayeka ukufuna ukuba simwole. Phambi kokuba aphinde nathi kodwa wayeka ukuyenza. Ngaphandle koko, ngenye imini ndamwola, wandiluma ngokungathandekiyo ebusweni kwaye inyani yile, ndambetha ngaphandle kwengqondo. Ukusukela ngoko uye wacaphuka kwaye enomsindo nangona ndizama ukusondela, ndimwonge, ndimyeke ahambe xa efuna ndimange, ndimnike ukutya kunye nokuphatha ikati, kunye nezinto zokudlala. Ndiziva ngathi ndilahliwe kwaye andazi ukuba ndenzeni. Iintombi zam zifuna ukudlala naye kodwa naye uyacaphuka abe nomsindo.
Molo Paula.
Ingcebiso yam kukuba udlale nekati, kakhulu, kodwa usebenzisa iithoyi (iintambo, iibhola, ...), kwaye ungaze ngendlela engalunganga.
Musa ukumnyanzela ukuba enze nantoni na; Oko kukuthi, ukuba awufuni ukuba semathangeni, akukho nto yenzekayo. Ukushiya indawo yakhe uya kuba nakho ukuphinda uzithembe.
Ukubulisa kunye nenkuthazo.
Molo, ikati yam inothando kakhulu kwaye inzima kakhulu, ayihlali nezinye iikati, iyavana nenja yam eneminyaka emi-6 ubudala
Intombazana yam izakube inonyaka ubudala ngo-Okthobha u-4 izakuba bubushushu bayo bokuqala andazi kuba ibindithanda kakhulu ibikunye nabafundi bayo abakhulu njengesangqa esikhulu kakhulu xa yoyika abambalwa. kwiintsuku ezidlulileyo waqala ngokuziphatha ukuba makenze okuninzi Enkosi
Molo Cami.
Eyona nto icetyiswayo kukuthatha i-castrate. Ngale ndlela uya kuhlala uzolile kwaye, ngelishwa, uphile ixesha elide.
Kodwa apha sithetha ngezinye iindlela.
Ukubulisa
Mholweni!!
Ndineekati ezimbini uSimba oneenyanga ezisi-8 ubudala kunye no-Oliver osondele kwiinyanga ezintathu.
Le meko imi ngolu hlobo lulandelayo: USimba yinkwenkwana ephumayo kakhulu, uyathanda ukudlala kwaye abaleke. Ngokuhamba kweenyanga, ndiye ndabona ukuba uziva elilolo kakhulu, uziva edimazekile emoyeni kwaye wakhala kakhulu, kulapho sagqiba khona ukuba udinga ubhuti omncinci. Sizise uOliver kwiiveki ezimbini ezidlulileyo onobuntu obufanayo, odlalayo, onomdla, onomdla. Ndothuke xa uSimba eyamkela kakuhle kakhulu, ekuqaleni sibahlukanise kumagumbi ohlukeneyo sazama ukumnika indawo. Kwisithuba esingaphantsi kweveki besele besabelana ngesanti kunye nelanga kunye, ungabaxelela ukuba bonwabile ukudlala kunye nokwabelana.
Bobabini bagule kutsha nje kwaye u-Oliver usabanda kancinci esinyanga nogqirha wezilwanyana. Utya ngesiqhelo, uyasela amanzi, kodwa ulala kakhulu. Kananjalo, ndiye ndaphawula ukuba indlela aziphethe ngayo itshintshe kakhulu ngeSimba. Ungamnaki kwaye uphephe ukusebenzisana naye ngokupheleleyo. USimba unyanzelisa ukuba adlale naye kodwa uOliver uqengqeleka ukuba alale. USimba uphazamisekile kakhulu, kwaye ndicinga ukuba unexhala. Ngaba ucinga ukuba yeyethutyana ngelixa uchacha okanye ubuntu bakho bunokutshintsha ngesiquphe? Ndinomdla kancinci wabantu abaye banamava afanayo.
Gracias
Sawubona Julieta.
Subanexhala. Kwenzeka ntoni kubo kuqhelekile. Naliphi na ikati eligulayo lide lichache ngokupheleleyo lihlala litshintsha indlela eliziphethe ngayo kancinci ukuya kwabanye.
Ndiyakholelwa ukuba, xa uOliver echacha, bazakudlala kwakhona. Yonke into ngumba womonde, kunye nokuyitotosa
Nibuliso!
Molo, unjani? Ikati yam ineenyanga ezisibhozo ubudala kwaye kutshanje ezinye izinja ziyibambile .. Uye waba nothando ngakumbi kunaye, kwaye ujonge kuthi ngakumbi ukuze athabathe xa wayehamba ngaphambili ukuba wawusondela .. Ngaba kufanelekile kwingozi?
Molo uBhelen.
Ukuba kuyenzeka. Emva kwemeko enjalo, banokutshintsha kancinci.
Ukubulisa
Molo, ndinekati endala phakathi kweminyaka esi-8 ukuya kweli-10 ubudala, inyani kukuba ekuqaleni ibisoloko iphambuka, kwaye ingenalo nothando kakhulu, xa ifika ekhaya yayingakuthandi ukudibana ngokwasemzimbeni, yayisitya kuphela kwaye wenza into yakhe.
Kutshanje kuye kwafunyaniswa ukuba ukusilela kwezintso kwaphucula iimpawu kunye namayeza. Xa waziva engcono kwiintsuku ezimbini ezidlulileyo waya esitalatweni ngoku wabuyela ekhaya, indlela aziphethe ngayo isuke yaqhela, wafuna ukuba ngaphezulu kwam, wahlikihla amadolo, wafuna ukudibana, kutheni kwenzeka ntoni utshintsho? Ngaba kungenxa yokugula kwakhe?
Ndilinde impendulo yakho!
Molo uSara.
Ngokuqinisekileyo ndikukhumbule, wena, ukufudumala kwekhaya, ukuthathelwa ingqalelo ... Yonwabele 🙂
Mholo. Ikati yam ibalekile endlwini, ibingaphandle kweentsuku ezili-10 de ndamfumana, enesisindo somzimba, wayenovalo kakhulu, elambile kakhulu kwaye emdaka. Ngoku sele ebuyile, uyamangalisa kakhulu kwiintsuku zokuqala ezi-2, ulele kakhulu, uchitha usuku elele phantsi, akafuni kudlala, ufuna nje ukuba kumqamelelo wakhe, uyathandeka ngakumbi, wayehlala edlamkile kwaye edlala.
Molo Karle.
Jonga ukuba usempilweni na. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ugule, kodwa xa utshintsho kwindlela oziphethe ngayo ngequbuliso, musa ukuyikhupha nantoni na.
Nibuliso!