Ithetha ukuthini ikati ukuba ikulandele

Ithetha ukuthini ikati ukuba ikulandele? Ukuba uboya bakho okanye omnye umntu ongaziwayo uye wakulandela kwaye uye wazibuza ukuba kutheni, lixesha lokuba uyazi ukuba ibingunobangela, kuba ezi zilwanyana zihlala zineendlela zokuziphatha ezinomdla kakhulu. 😉

Masibone ke ukuba uzama ukuxelela ntoni xa ekulandela.

Kutheni ikati ikulandela? Izizathu eziphambili

Ufuna ukutya

Indawo eqhelekileyo: uvuka kusasa, utshintshe iimpahla zakho, wenze isidlo sakusasa ... kwaye ngalo lonke elo xesha ikati yakho ikulandele, kwaye ingaphezulu kokunokwenzeka ukuba iye yahlala ngaphezulu kwesihlandlo esinye, ngakumbi xa ubonile uzakutya ntoni?

Yintoni le izama ukukuxelela yona? Ewe, kulula kakhulu: ukuba ulambile. Kungenzeka ukuba umondli akananto okanye ufana nekati yam uSasha ocela ukutya phantse lonke ixesha 😉.

Inqaku elidibeneyo:

Ungakukhetha njani ukutya kwekati okugqwesileyo?

Cela ingqalelo

Ikati yasekhaya

Umzekelo, kusenokwenzeka ukuba ubusebenza kwikhompyuter kangangeeyure kwaye ngelo xesha awukhathalelanga kakhulu ikati yakho, eya kukulandela ngokukhawuleza xa uvuka esihlalweni. Uya kukunika ukujonga okumnandi, hlikihla emilenzeni yakho, kwaye ngamana ungamthwala..

Ukwenza? Yenza imiyalelo yakhe, ewe. Mthathe ezandleni zakho umgcwalise ngokumanga (ngaphandle kokukunika ubunzima). Mbonise ukuba umthanda kangakanani kwaye udlale naye.

Ikati elahlekileyo

Kukhe kwenzeka kuwe ukuba ikati elahlekileyo ikulandele? Ukuba kunjalo, isizathu sihlala sihlala sinye: ufuna uthando. Inokuba ulahliwe kwaye ungaziva ungakhuselekanga kwaye ulambile..

Kule meko, into ekucetyiswa ukuyenza kukucela uncedo kumkhuseli (hayi indlu yenja) ukuze bayithathe bayise kwindawo yokuhlala. Ikati enjalo inamathuba amancinci kakhulu - kunokuba hayi - okusinda esitalatweni.

Yiba neentlungu

Nangona kunqabile ukuba ikati, nokuba ingekhaya kangakanani, ibonakalisa iintlungu, Ukuba unentembelo enkulu (kodwa kuninzi, okuninzi) emntwini wakho, ewe, ungamlandela ukuzama ukumxelela ukuba akaphilanga. Kule meko iimeko zabo ezinkulu ziya kuba zifutshane kwaye bajongeke belusizi.

Ukuba uyathandabuza, mnike ukutya kwekati emanzi (okanye into oyaziyo ukuba uyayithanda) - ukuba uyayala, kungenxa yokuba engaziva mnandi. Unganqikazi ukumsa kugqirha wezilwanyana ukuba uphonononge.

Ungathini ukuba ikati yakho ikulandela yonke indawo?

Ukuba ikati enye okanye nangaphezulu ekhayeni lakho, bayinxalenye yosapho lwakho. Usenokuba uqaphele ukuba ikati yakho ilandela yonke indawo. Ayinamsebenzi nokuba yeyokupheka okanye kwigumbi lokuhlambela, ukuba uwedwa ikati yakho ihamba nawe. Awunanto ikhathazayo kuba oku kuyenzeka kuye nabani na onebhondi elungileyo nekati yakhe. Ngelixa ingqalelo yekati yethu inokumangalisa, kukho amaxesha apho kunokuba yingxaki. Umzekelo kuxa sizama ukulala.

Ekuqaleni, le ndlela yokuziphatha inokubonakala ingaqhelekanga. Ngokuyinxenye kungenxa yenkolelo exhaphakileyo yokuba iikati zizinto ezizimeleyo ezingayithandiyo inkampani. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba wonke umntu azi ukuba iikati zinesithukuthezi bubuxoki. Nangona kuyinyani ukuba bayakwazi ukonwabela ukuba wedwa, bayazi kwaye bafuna ukonwabela ukuba kunye nabathandekayo babo, ekule meko nguwe. Funda ukuze ufumane okungakumbi malunga kutheni ikati yakho ikulandela yonke indawo.

Kutheni esenza oku?

Kwabanye abantu, iikati zifumana i-rap embi. Bajongwa ngabaninzi njengabangenabantu, abazingcayo nabangendawo. Nangona benendalo ezimeleyo, inyani kukuba iikati ziyakuthanda ukuba nabantu "babo". Banokuzimela kwaye abanakho ukufuna ingqalelo engako njengezinja, kodwa iqhina abalenzayo nomntu lelona liqhelekileyo onokucinga ngalo.

Iikati ziyakukulandela ngezizathu ezininzi, kubandakanya:

• Yokhuseleko
• Bayadika
• Ummandla
• Dinga uncedo
• Ufuna ukudlala
• Ufuna into
• Ngokulula ... kuba uyakuthanda

Iindlela apho iikati zinxibelelana nabantu zahlukile kunye nembonakalo yeemvakalelo zabo zahlukile ngokulinganayo. Ngelixa kukho izithintelo ekuqondeni ezi mvakalelo, kodwa sivela indlela ende ekuqondeni unxibelelwano lwendalo. Asinakuthetha ulwimi olunye, kodwa ulwimi lomzimba, ukuma komzimba, imbonakalo yobuso, kunye nokuziphatha kunokutyhila okuninzi malunga nekati efuna ukuba siyazi. Ukusilandela macala yenye yeendlela zokuziphatha.

Kuba sibathanda kakhulu, ukuba nekati engaze isishiye yinto esinokuyithemba. Kuthetha ukuba uyasithanda kwaye uyaluqonda uthando lwethu ngabo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ikati yakho ikulandela yonke indawo, inokubonisa ukuxhomekeka. Oku akunampilo njengoko kunokuthetha ukuba baneengxaki xa singekho. Makhe sijonge izizathu zokuba ikati yakho ikulandele yonke indawo ukubona ukuba singenza ntoni ngayo.

Izizathu zokuba ikati ikulandele ngeenxa zonke ayithethi ukuba zikulandela phi. Umzekelo, nangona benokwazi ukuba kukho ukutya ekhitshini, abanokuwuqonda umahluko phakathi kwegumbi lokuhlambela, igumbi lokulala, igumbi lokuhlala, njl. Ngokubanzi bakhetha iindawo zabo ngenxa yokuba ngubani okhoyo kwaye leliphi inqanaba lokuthuthuzela abaziva.

Amakati alandela ukhuseleko

Amantshontsho athanda ukulandela oomama bawo yonke indawo. Iqala xa besitya ubisi olusuka emabeleni abo. Bafunda yonke into kuye kwaye, kwangaxeshanye, baziva bekhuselekile ngakumbi. Abanini abaninzi, nokuba ikati yabo indala, bagcina ubudlelwane phakathi komama nomntwana. Bathatha indima yokuba ngumkhathaleli weekati ngokuzondla, ukucoca iibhokisi zabo, ukuzikhathalela, ukubakhuthaza ukuba bazidlale kwaye babanike uthando oluninzi. Kungenxa yesi sizathu le nto ingaqhelekanga ukuba ikati yakho ikulandele kwigumbi ngalinye.

Nangona kunjalo, kuba ixesha elichithwa yikati nomama walo libaluleke kakhulu, iikati ezishiya inkampani kanina kungekudala zinokujamelana neengxaki. Khange bavunyelwe inkqubo yokulunyulwa yendalo apho umama aqala ukubala ukubanakho ukuzihlasela ngokwabo. Ukuhlaliswa koluntu kubaluleke kakhulu kwiikati, ke iikati ezisuswe zisencinci kakhulu kunina kunye nabantakwabo zinokuxhomekeka kakhulu ekuzimeleni kwabantu.

Amakati amlandelayo egumbini lakho okanye apho alala khona ngokuyinxenye ngenxa yenkxalabo yokhuseleko. Iikati zasendle zisengozini xa zilele, ngoko ke ukulala ecaleni kwakho kubonisa ukuba ziziva zikhuselekile.

Iikati ziyabalandela kuba bayadika

Kuqhelekile ukuba "iikati zangaphakathi" zikruquke ngokulula. . Oku kuhlala kubangelwa kukuba bengakwazi ukwenza imisebenzi yabo yokuzingela kunye nokuphonononga ngaphakathi endlwini. Kungenxa yoko le nto xa ikati iziva udikiwe kakhulu unokuzibona unoxanduva, unikwe umsebenzi wokudala ukhuthazo.

Amakati afuna indawo etyebileyo enokuwagcina evuselelekile ngokwasengqondweni. Olu khuthazo luthatha indawo yemisebenzi eyimfuneko abanokuthi bayenze ngokwendalo. Njengoko sibakhusela, abayidingi ukwenza le misebenzi. Kungenxa yoko iikati ziya kukulandela. Nguwe umthambo othatha indawo yawo.

Kananjalo, ukuba uchitha iiyure ezininzi ngosuku ungekho ekhaya, kunokwenzeka ukuba xa ubuya, ikati yakho iyakukulandela njengenja: uyiphosile. Chitha ixesha elininzi naye, uyakuthanda kwaye uyakukhumbula.

Amakati ayindawo

Endle, enye yezinto ezenziwa yikati yonke imihla kukuhambahamba kwindawo abayijonga njengentsimi yabo. Oku kukhupha ivumba lalo kwaye kuyasasaza ukunqanda abangeneleli. Ukuba uqaphela ukuba ikati yakho ihlala irabha ngokuchasene nefanitshala nawe, oko kuthetha ukuba ikati yakho iyajikeleza kwaye iphawula indawo yayo.

Ukuba ukwindlu evaliweyo okanye iflethi, i-feline ayikwazi ukwenza imikhwa yayo yemvelo ngendlela ebiya kwenza ngayo endle, kodwa ukuhamba kwayo ejikeleza indlu kungacebisa ikati yakho ukuba iphawula indawo. Ngenxa yale nto, ikati yakho inokuthatha isigqibo sokuhamba nawe kule ndima. Amakati zizilwanyana eziqhelekileyoKe ngoko, ukuba sele beqhele lo msebenzi, ikati yakho iya kuthi ngokuqinisekileyo iqhubeke nokumlandela kwigumbi ukuya kwelinye.

Kutheni ikati ikutyelela

Ikati inokukhetha ngesiquphe kuwe. Ekuqaleni unokumangaliswa kukuba ikati elahlekileyo ikuchole. Mhlawumbi xa yonke imihla okanye yonke imihla usazi ukuba ikati yakho ikutyelele, iya endlwini yakho okanye ihlala emnyango ixesha elininzi emini.

Mhlawumbi uyawabona amandla avela ekhayeni lakho kwaye ufuna ukuba yinxalenye yawo. Ezinye zezinto ekusenokwenzeka ukuba zikucela zezi:

• Indawo yokubalekela
• Ukutya
• Ubushushu
• Molo

Yiphathe kakuhle loo kati ikukhangelayo kwaye uyondle, Nikezela ngengubo okanye ibhedi, amanzi acocekileyo ukongeza kukutya. Ngale ndlela, ikati iya kuhlala ikutyelela. Kodwa khumbula ukuba ungumphefumlo okhululekileyo, uthatha isigqibo sokuba ufuna ukuchitha ixesha elininzi okanye elincinci kunye nawe, kodwa ungaze ubalahle ububele bakho kuye. Ukhethe ngenxa yesizathu kwaye licebo elihle ukuba ubuyisele isenzo esihle kangaka ngobubele bakho kunye nothando lwakho.

Ukuba ubona ukuba ufuna ugqirha wezilwanyana kwaye awukwazi ukumthatha, ungatsalela umnxeba ubuze ukuba angaza na ekhayeni lakho xa efuna naluphi na uhlobo lonyango.

Nokuba siyintoni na isizathu, yonwabele ikati yakho kwaye ubone ukuba kutheni ekulandela, umqonda ngcono kunaye nabani na! Ndiyathemba ukuba iluncedo kuwe.