Ukufundisa ikati Lithetha ukohlwaya amaxesha ngamaxesha, kodwa igama elithi "ukohlwaya" kwabanye abantu linamagama anjengokuthi "ukuba ndlongondlongo" okanye "ukuphathwa gadalala kwesilwanyana" okunxulumene nako. Kodwa namhlanje, kweli nqaku, siza kuthetha malunga nokuba kuthetha ukuthini ukohlwaya ikati kakuhle, indlela ekufuneka yenziwe ngayo, kwaye ke, siza kuthetha ngendlela ekungafuneki yenziwe ngayo.
Ye imfundo echanekileyo Kuya kuxhomekeka ekubeni ikati yakho iyathandana kwaye inobuhlobo. Ke, ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukohlwaya ikati, sukuyeka ukufunda 🙂.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukohlwaya?
Ngaphambi kokungena kulo mbandela, kubalulekile ukucacisa intsingiselo yolu luvo, kuba kuya kuba lula kakhulu ukuqonda into endiza kukuxelela yona kweli nqaku. NgokweRoyal Spanish Academy, Isohlwayo sineentsingiselo ezilithoba, kodwa Kwimeko esichaphazelayo siza kuhlala noku kulandelayo:
Lumkisa, thintela, fundisa.
Kuyinyani ukuba kumaxesha akutshanje ayisetyenziswanga ngale ndlela, kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba ayisathethi into enokuba yinto entle "njengokufundisa" Yintoni egqithisile, Kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo ukuba, kuxhomekeke kwiindlela, kukho iindlela ezimbini eziphambili zesohlwayo:
- Ukohlwaya ngobundlobongela: njengaleyo inikwa umxhaphazi sisilwanyana okanye ngumntu.
- Isohlwayo esifanelekileyo: esifana nesi sinikwa ngumntu okanye sisilwanyana esihlonipha abanye abantu okanye izilwanyana.
Ngokucacileyo, xa kuziwa ekufundiseni ikati okanye ukumazisa ukuba wenze into embi; Kufuneka uhlale usebenzisa isohlwayo esifanelekileyo.
Ngaba yinyani ukuba iikati aziqondi isohlwayo?
Ewe, ukohlwaya ngokubetha, ukukhwaza, njalo njalo, abayiqondi. Kodwa ke akukho mntu uyiqondayo. Ngale nto, ekuphela kwento enokuthi ifezekiswe kukuba boyika ukuba ngubani omele ukukhathazeka ngabo. Kwaye oku kubi kakhulu.
Amakati nganye anempawu ezichaziweyo: ezinye zinothando ngakumbi kunabanye, zinobundlobongela ngakumbi, zizimele ngakumbi, njalo njalo, kwaye zonke zinelungelo elifanayo lokuphila ubomi obonwabileyo kunye nokonwaba. Ukuba asizimisele ukuqonda ulwimi lwabo lomzimba okanye senze konke esinako ukubenza bonwabe apho bakhoyo kunye nenkampani yabantu abanayo, masingabi nayo ke ikati.
Uyifundisa njani ikati?
Amantshontsho eekati
Siza kuqala ngokuthetha ngamantshontsho ekati, kuba ngokomgaqo ngabo abenza eyona nto iphosakeleyo kunye nabo bafuna imfundo engaphezulu. Iinjana ziyadlala, ziyasebenza, oku kuthetha ukuba ziya kuthanda ukunyuka amakhethini, zilole iinzipho zazo kwifenitshala, njl. Ukwenza oku, siya kuba netyala kuwe nikezela ngesikrweqe okanye ezininzi zihanjiswe kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zekhaya, kwaye ubafundise (umzekelo, ukubamba kancinci inqina, ukususa iinzipho nokuyidlulisa kwisikrelemnqa). Zininzi iintlobo kwiimarike, kubandakanya kukho ukukrwela iingubo, ezilungele ezo kati ziqhelekileyo ukuba zingene esofeni ziyikrwempe. Ezi ngubo zinokubekwa ngaphezulu kwefanitshala, ziyikhusele kwizikhonkwane ezibukhali zomhlobo wethu.
Kwakhona Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sichithe ixesha kwaye sidlale naye. Ngamanye amaxesha, ngakumbi ukuba sithetha ngeekati ezingalawulekiyo, kunokuba kunjalo ukuba bazilola iinzipho zabo kwiindawo esingafuni ukuba siqwalaselwe kuzo. Akufanelanga sibujongele phantsi ubukrelekrele beekatiEwe, bayayazi kakuhle indlela yokufumana ingqalelo yethu.
Iikati zabantu abadala
Kwimeko apho iyikati endala, amanyathelo aza kuthathwa ayakufana; Oko kukuthi, ukusika, kunye nokuchitha ixesha kunye naye. Kukho iikati ezisebenzayo ezifuna ukuzilolonga, kwaye zingabinakho ukuphuma ngaphandle, into eziyenzayo kukutshabalalisa ifanitshala. Abayenzi ngeenjongo ezimbikodwa ngenxa yokuba bayadika. Kule meko akuyi kubakho khetho ngaphandle koku mthengele umtya okhethekileyo kunye neeleash iikati, kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe ukumfundisa ukuhamba ezantsi kwesitalato.
Ngexesha lokuhamba kufanelekile ukuzisa amabhaso ukuze umhlobo wethu azive ekhuselekile. Ukuba ayinakususwa ngesizathu esithile (mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba uhlala esixekweni okanye kwidolophu exakekileyo), akusayi kubakho khetho ngaphandle kokuyiqhelanisa nendlu yomfazi, oko kukuthi, ngokubeka iirampu phantsi kweendonga, i-scrapers kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zekhaya, njl. Uya kuyivuyela.
Uyifundisa njani ikati
Iminyaka emininzi, mhlawumbi mininzi kakhulu, kuye kwenziwa iinzame zokufundisa ikati ngeendlela ezathi, kunokuba ziyincede, zayenza ikati eyoyikekayo. Umzekelo, izinto esingafanele ukuzenza zezi:
- Yifefe ngamanzi
- Dlulisa impumlo kwiimfuno zakhe ukuba uzenze endaweni engeyiyo
- Ukubetha ngephephandaba, isandla sakho, okanye enye into
Ezona ekufuneka sizenzile zezi:
- Qonda isilwanyana, kwaye ujonge imvelaphi yengxaki (ukuba icacile)
- Mnike uthando oluninzi (kodwa ngaphandle kokumthoba ubunzima)
- Ukuba yenza into engalunganga, yithumele kwakhona. Umzekelo, ukuba unomdla wokuluma kuthi, siya kumnika into yokudlala ukuba ayihlafune.
Ukuba ingxaki iqhubeka ngaphezulu konyaka omnye, iya kucetyiswa dibana nengcali yeendlela zokuziphatha feline.
Kufuneka wenze ntoni xa ikati ikufutha?
Impendulo ilula njengoko inzima: fumanisa ukuba bekutheni ukuze akufuthanisele. Isenokuba kungenxa yokuba uye ngqo kuye kwaye loo nto imenze wangakhululeki, okanye ngenxa yokuba eziva ngathi ushiyekile ekhoneni okanye woyisiwe.
Kwaye kunjalo, kuba uboya bulungile, ayimfuneko kuphela ukunika amanzi kunye nokutya, kodwa kananjalo Kuya kufuneka umhloniphe, umnike indawo yakhe, ungamcaphukisi.
Ungayithethisa njani ikati xa iluma?
Oku akunakwenziwa ngekati.
Akukho nto ingako inokwenziwa. Ukuba uluma isandla sakho, umzekelo, kuya kufuneka usigcine kude kube kukhutshwa, into aza kuyenza kwangoko. Ikati sisilwanyana esizingelayo, kodwa ukuba siyabona ukuba isandla asihambi, ayisayi kuba nomdla. Nangona kunjalo, ewe, kuya kufuneka uyifumane kancinci kancinci.
Ukuze ingakulumi kwakhona, kuya kufuneka wenze oku kulandelayo:
- Dlala naye, malunga kathathu ngemini imizuzu engama-20 ngalo lonke ixesha. Sebenzisa iithoyi zekati, kwaye musa ukuba krwada.
- Qiniseka ukuba uhlala unento yokudlala ejikeleze, njengesilwanyana esifakiweyo. Qho xa ubona ukuba uza kukuluma, mnike isilwanyana esifakiwe.
- Linda. Kuya kuthatha ixesha ukuba afunde ukuba akulunganga ukuluma abantu. Kodwa ukuhlala uhleli kwaye unembeko, awuzukubona ukuba iyakuluma kancinci, kwaye kuyakufika ixesha apho iya kuyeka ukuyenza.
En Noti Gatos Sichasene nokuxhatshazwa kwezilwanyana. Ukugqiba esi sithuba, sikushiya nebinzana elivela kwi-pacifist uMahatma Gandhi:
Ubukhulu besizwe bulinganiswa ngendlela eziphatha ngayo izilwanyana.
UGiovanna: Ungasitshela ukuba kutheni ucinga ukuba eli nqaku alilunganga?
Ndibuza oku ngaphezulu kwayo nantoni na kuba akukho nto ithethwayo ebandakanya "ukuxhatshazwa kwezilwanyana", endaweni yoko ichasene. Icaciswe ngokucacileyo into ekungafanelekanga ukuba yenziwe, kwaye yintoni ekucetyiswa ukuyenza. Konke okugqibelele.
Molo, ndinekati yabantu abadala eyi-1 kunye encinci kwaye andivumelani namanye amanqaku eli nqaku. Xa ndandinekati yokuqala (leyo sele ikhulile) xa ndandimncinci ndenza yonke into ethi eli nqaku ayifanele yenziwe. Uyazi ukuba ndenze kangaphi ??? Nje enye. Xa ikati yaphuma kwigumbi lokuhlambela, isohlwayo esinye sasanele ukumenza ayeke ukwenza into engalunganga kwaye igama elithi "Hayi" liphindaphindwe amatyeli amaninzi ngexesha lokukhalimela. Oko kwamfundisa imida kwaye kwamfundisa nokuba ndim umphathi. Andililo ingcali kwiikati kodwa mhlawumbi la mava mabi abhalwe kwi-psyche yakhe. Kwaye uloyiko noxinzelelo kuba andazi xk ikati yam isondela kuye azivumele ukuba aphathwe kwaye andithande kakhulu kodwa ukuba xa esenza into endingayithandiyo akusafuneki ndibhenele kuyo nantoni na ndithi "Hayi" kwaye uyeka ukuyenza. Kwaye andimvalelanga, uyaphuma angene xa efuna kwaye ikati incinci afunda ngayo ngohlobo olufanayo apho kufanele ukuba angahambi kwaye angahambi nalapho aya khona kwigumbi lokuhlambela, iikati zikrelekrele intwana iyathanda ukuyenza ngaphakathi endaweni yepati. Into endiyenzileyo kukuba xa eqala ukugalela kuba efuna ukungena khange ndimhoye kwaye bayayazi into ayenzileyo? Wayengenandlela yimbi ngaphandle kokugrumba ukungcola ahlambe, wazogquma emva koko ndangena endlini. Ndijonge yonke into, ke into endingayenziyo indikhonze ngaphezulu kokuthambisa: s
Icala elisezantsi leli nqaku kukuba ithi "mnike uthando, uya kuqonda" kwaye "ungambethi" kulungile, kulungile kodwa kufanele ukuba aqonde njani ukuba akufuneki afike etafileni okanye akrwele imifanekiso kwigumbi lokuhlala Ukuba inye into eli nqaku eliyicebisayo "mnike uthando ayikhathali nokuba uphule umzobo"?
Molo Alfonso.
Ingcebiso yam kukujonga 'ingxaki' kwenye indlela. Awunakho ukuqeqesha ikati ngokungathi ibingumntu, kuba ayisiyiyo. Ke ukuba uchazela ikati ukuba akufuneki aphule umzobo okanye akhwele kwifenitshala, ngekhe aqonde.
Ke ungayifumana njani ukuze ungophuli imifanekiso okanye ukhwele kwifenitshala? Ukubonelela ngezinye izinto onokuthi uzophule kunye nezinye onokukhwela kuzo.
Umthi okrwemayo (okanye aliqela), iithoyi zekati, iintambo, iibhola.
Dlala ngekati, ngaphandle kokwenza iintshukumo ngesiquphe, amaxesha ngamaxesha ngemini. Ngale nto, isilwanyana sizolile kwaye sonwabile.
Nibuliso!
Ndicinga ukuba inqaku lilungile ngaphandle kwezizathu zokunikwa kwayo indlela yokufundisa udidi, ndiyabelana nawe kuba ndamkela intshontsho endilifumene esitalatweni, xa wayenenyanga emalunga nogqirha wezilwanyana, ndathenga Ibhedi yakhe, ukukrwela iiposti, ineethoyi ezininzi, indawo ebanzi yokudlala kwaye ndidlala ngayo umndilili weeyure ezi-3 ngosuku, kuba andinayo ipatio, kwigumbi elininzi ixesha kwaye u "hayi" khange anele, ngoncedo lwesitshizi samanzi simfundise imida ekufuneka ebenayo endlwini, kuyingozi kakhulu ukuhlafuna intambo okanye ukungena phantsi kwefriji okanye umatshini wokuhlamba impahla. Ndikwamfundise ukumakisha umda phakathi kwezinto zakhe (izinto zokudlala, ukukrwela, ibhedi, iitawuli, iibhola, ukutya, njl.) Kwizinto zam (ilaptop, ibhegi, izitulo), ekugqibeleni intshontsho laqala ukuqonda kwaye ngoku akusafuneki. ukusebenzisa isitshizi Ukuba uqala ukwenza into engalunganga, kufuneka amfundise kwaye ayeke ukuyenza yedwa.
Ndiyakholelwa ukuba nangona ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kwezilwanyana bekungafanele ukusetyenziswa ukuba bekukho indlela ethile yokulinganisa, efana nesitshizi samanzi, ukuba bekungenziwa, ikati ngesele ifile okanye into ibolile.
Molo Lau.
Ewe, andinguye othanda ukufefa okanye izinto ezinje. Ukuba u "hayi" awusebenzi, kulungile, impama eyomeleleyo yezandla, okanye izinto ezinjalo.
Ndiyavuya ikati yakho ifundile
Imibuliso kunye nombulelo ngokulandela!
Ndinombuzo, masicinge ukuba ikati ikhe yenze into embi kwaye ndenza uthando nayo, ikati ayinakuyichaza le nto njengoko ndimthanda ukuba ayenze kwaye uya kuqhubeka ukuyenza? Njengoko usitsho, iikati zilumkile kwaye ziyaqonda yonke into D:
Molo Wendy.
Njengoko usitsho, ukuba kwangoko emva kobubi uyiphulula ikati, ukumthambisela kwakhe ngumvuzo kwaye uya kuyidibanisa nento elungileyo. Ngamanye amagama: ukuba ndenza ububi, bandinika ii-caresses (okanye iilekese); yiyo loo nto izakuqhubeka isenza njalo.
Le yinto ekufuneka siyiphephe. Ukuze ingaphinde iyenze, into endiyithethileyo kwimpendulo edlulileyo ihlala isebenza: uQINISEKILE, ukuqhwaba izandla okunamandla ... Kodwa kungaphezulu kokucebisa ukuba ungasebenzisi izitshizi zamanzi okanye izinto ezinjalo kuba zinokubakho ngaphezulu kwengxaki entsha kunesisombululo sengxaki 'yakudala' ukuthetha.
Kuya kufuneka ube nomonde kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke uqonde ukuba kutheni usenza le nto. Inokuba injana efuna ukudlala nje, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha iyenye into, iyinto yomnxeba wokuvuka. Kwaye ukuba kunjalo ngekati yakho, uzama ukukuxelela into. Awunakuchitha ixesha elininzi naye, okanye imeko yangoku inokuba noxinzelelo okanye uxakeke kuye wonke umntu. Akumelanga silibale ukuba nabo banako "ukuzibamba" iimvakalelo zethu, ezilungileyo nezimbi, kwaye sithi kufuneka sitshintshe.
A ubingelele.
Inyani yile yokuba iyafana kakhulu nendlela echanekileyo yokuqeqesha inja.
Ndicinga ukuba sele unayo ikati okanye inja, ingafundiswa okanye ifundiswe ukuhlala kunye ngaphandle kokuyohlwaya. Inkuthazo, uthando kunye nedosi elungileyo yomonde zisebenza ngcono kakhulu. 🙂
Molo, mkristu!
Ewe, ndineekati kunye nezinja. Njengoko usitsho, uthando oluninzi kunye nomonde konke okufunekayo ukuze kulungiswe isimilo esibi (okanye esingafunekiyo). Konke okugqibelele! 🙂
Molo uIvan.
Ukuba le ndlela iyakusebenzela, qhubeka. Kukho ezinye iindlela zokusebenzisa, njengokusebenzisa into egxothayo kwiindawo ozikhulula kuzo, kwaye nje ukuba ubone ukuba uziva ngathi, yithathe uyise kwitreyi yakho. Okanye umanzise i-napkin ngomchamo wakhe kwaye uwubeke esantini.
Kuthatha ixesha, kwaye kufuneka ube nomonde kakhulu. Nam ndinekati ethi ngamanye amaxesha, ngakumbi kwiimeko zoxinzelelo losapho, ichame kwiikona ezahlukeneyo zendlu.
Ingxaki isenokubangelwa kukungavisisani nokutya ekhaya. Kodwa inesisombululo.
Umbuliso! 🙂
Molo zinjani izinto! Ndinekati elimnyama elingaphezulu konyaka nje ubudala; Ndamkhulisa xa wayenenyanga ezintathu ubudala kwaye ukusukela ngoko ndandimteketisa kakhulu (bekungenakuphepheka ukungabikho), wayehlala ngaphakathi endlwini kwaye wayenayo yonke indlu kuye. Xa waqala umdla wakhe wokuphonononga kwakunzima ukumthintela kuba wayekrwesha umnyango de wonakala (oko kwabangela ingxaki enkulu emyenini wam) ke andinandlela yimbi ngaphandle kokuba ndinikezele ndimkhuphe. Emva kokumlungiselela ucango, wayeqhele ukuhamba engena nangaphandle nanini na xa efuna njalo kwaye wayesazi kakuhle ukuba uyasilawula kuba siqhubekeka nokuzonwabisa, nangona kungenjalo njenjana. Uyekile ukulala ngaphakathi wakhetha ukulala kwenye indawo nabamelwane, simbona kuphela xa elambile kwaye okwethutyana ekuseni xa e deigned ukusonwabisa ngobukho bakhe. Kutshanje uye wagula ngolusu, waqala wazikrwempa wade wenzakala ulusu, simse kugqirha wezilwanyana, samshiya apho ukuze anyangwe khona iintsuku ezi-3 kuba ukumfumana ekhaya elandela imiyalelo kagqirha kwakungenakwenzeka! Emva kokubuyela ekhaya simgcine ngaphakathi iveki ngaphandle kokukwazi ukuphuma kwaye yayiyeyona veki ibiyoqhwithi kuye nakuthi! Simphazamisile ngokumvumela ukuba alale nathi ebhedini, sidlale naye saza samteketisa, kodwa noko oko bekungonelanga kuye, uvele wanyanzelisa ukuphuma kwakhona. Sithe xa sicinga ukuba inxeba lakhe sele liza kuphucuka, waphinda walonzakalisa kwaye sayidibanisa nenkani yakhe yokufuna ukuhamba, ke besingenandlela yimbi ngaphandle kokumkhupha ngoba ebengayeki ukukrwempa umnyango kwaye bekungekho mqobo. kuye okanye kwakhona saqala ukuba nengxaki ngenxa yomnyango owonakeleyo. Ngoku, inxeba lakhe lisahleli linjalo kuba unenkani kwaye akayeki ukukhotha, kwaye nangona indenza ndibebuhlungu kwaye ndibuhlungu kodwa uphulukene nelungelo lokulala ebhedini nathi kuba andisazi ukuba uphi enye kwaye zeziphi iincukuthu. bekungafanelekanga ukuba abe nayo; Khange ndivume ukuba ndingene endlwini rhoqo. Ndiyamthanda uboya bam omncinci, kodwa ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo uyinkosi yeenkani !! Hi ndlela leyi, ndandisebenzisa ubuchule bokumtshiza ngamanzi, ndimnike ukubetha (nangona kwakundilimaza ngaphezulu kunaye) ndide ndimbuyekeze nangokutya, kodwa nangona kunjalo, eyona njongo yakhe yayikukuphuma aye kuzonwabisa nabahlobo bakhe .
Molweni .. Ndinekati enenyanga ezi-3 ubudala. Simfumene emncinci kakhulu, eneentsuku ezili-15 ubudala. Siyamkhathalela ngokumnika ubisi kwibhotile kunye neebhotile ezishushu kwaye ke ukhule emhle kude kube namhlanje.
Ingxaki kukuba sele eluma kakhulu .. uluma izandla neenyawo zam kakhulu, akaboni zihamba .. uzihlasela njengexhoba lakhe .. unezinto zokudlala, nangona ziyinyani, ngamanye amaxesha asidlali naye ngalo lonke ixesha.ixesha, kwaye akakuthandi ukuphululwa ngalo lonke ixesha .. nangona wayehluke kakhulu njengosana. Sizamile ukufefa, kodwa uyawathanda amanzi, ke uyawahoya, sithi HAYI phezulu, kodwa xa efuna uyahamba aphinde abuye kwakhona.Sisoyika ukuba xa sele emdala uzakuba mandundu okanye enzakale. uya komelela. .. singenza ntoni .. Ahh enye into .. akazithambisi okanye azihlikihle njengokuba ezinye iikati zisenza kubaninizo, kutheni inokuba njalo? Ndiyathemba ukuba ungandinika isisombululo ... enkosi!
Molo Pearl.
Ngelo xesha ke kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba zilume zikrwembe. Kodwa yonke into inesisombululo 🙂. Kuya kufuneka umfundise ukuba angayenzi, ngomonde nangokuhlala ungaguquguquki. Kula manqaku sichaza indlela yokwenza: fundisa ikati ukuba ingaluma, akusekho kukrwempa https://www.notigatos.es/ensenar-gato-no-aranar/ ).
Ngokubhekisele kumbuzo wakho, ewe, ikati nganye inobuntu bayo. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba uyikhathalele.
A ubingelele.
Molo zinjani izinto! Ndine-1! / Ikati eneminyaka emi-2 ubudala engafakwanga ikati kwaye kwiinyanga ezili-1 ezidlulileyo ndaye ndathatha ikati eneenyanga ezi-5 ubudala engenazintsholongwane, ndahamba yonke inkqubo yokuziqhelanisa, ndisebenzisa kude, kukho amaxesha apho ikati yam irhabaxa kakhulu ikati kwaye iyamluma, ndiyinyange ukuba ndifundise ngo-Hayi, kodwa ayisebenzi kakhulu uyishiya kwaye iphinde imlume kwakhona.
Molo Andrea.
Kufuneka ube nomonde. Kukho iikati ezithatha ixesha elide ukuziqhelanisa.
Dlala nabo, banike uthando-ngokwakho, bobabini-kwaye uzinikele ixesha elininzi kangangoko unako kubo.
Uza kubona ukuba iintsuku zihamba-kwaye ngakumbi iiveki-uyakubona ukuba imeko iyaphucuka.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uyayibona ikati idlala ngokungenantloni kunye nekati, yibethe ngamandla. Ngale ndlela uza kuyikhupha ngokukhawuleza kwaye kancinci kancinci uyakufunda ukuba awufanele uyenze.
A ubingelele.
Mholweni. Ikati yam iyekile ukusebenzisa inkunkuma kwaye yazikhulula ngaphandle kwayo. Ndineemitha ezili-1200 zepaki kwaye igalari iyangcola. Ndisuse amatye ndibeke isanti kwaye hayi. Iyandikhathaza kakhulu lonto kuba kuye kwanyanzeleka ndimyeke alale phandle ngoba bendizovuka ndifumane yonke into imdaka. Uya kuba nonyaka ubudala kwaye ngale ndlela yokuziphatha kwiinyanga ezi-2 ezidlulileyo.
Sawubona Julieta.
Ndingacebisa ukuba ndimse kugqirha wezilwanyana ukuze ahlolwe umchamo. Unokuba nosulelo.
Ngendlela, ayifakwanga neutered, ndingacebisa ukuba iyithathe ukuze inyanzelwe ingalahleki.
A ubingelele.
Molweni, nindixolele, ndiyayithanda ikati yam ngomphefumlo wam wonke, kodwa inyani kukuba indlela aziphethe ngayo iyandicaphukisa kunye nosapho lwam lonke, ndihlala eflethini nosapho lwam kunye nenjana, bakhule kunye bobabini. Ikati yam imalunga nonyaka kunye nenyanga enesiqingatha, ikhutshiwe iinyanga ezi-4 (njengenja) kwaye iyandiphambanisa ukuba ichame kuyo yonke indawo, ndiyitshintshe ngokupheleleyo inkunkuma izihlandlo ezininzi ndizama iintlobo ezahlukeneyo, ndizamile ngezandi ezivakalayo, nesitshizi phakathi kwezinye izinto, nge-catnip ukuze azive ngathi ngumngxunya wakhe omncinci, ndiyamgcina ecocekile kwaye ndibeke iphephandaba ukuze azicoce xa eshiya okoko exakekile kwaye esanyanzelisa ngokuchama ngokukhethekileyo phambi emnyango Kwisipaji sikamama, enyanisweni, kutshanje wazichamela, wafika esifubeni sakhe, ngequbuliso wamchopha. Asinakushiya nayiphi na ikhabhathi ivulekile kuba iyachama engathambisi nobuso emchameni wakhe, namhlanje uphinde wazichamela esipajini sikamama, ndaphinda ndambetha ngenqatha lenja (njengabantwana), kuba andiyazi enye into emandiyenze, wazichamela esiseleni umnxeba kwaye ugqithiselwe kumatrasi, andifuni ukuyeka ikati yam ihambe kuba ndiyamthanda kakhulu kwaye ndinaye oko wazalwa kodwa andikwazi ukuhlala ndicoca umchamo wakhe ngalo lonke ixesha, ixesha elininzi usebenzisa inkunkuma ibhokisi kwaye ndizama ukumgcina ecocekile kuba ndiyazi ukuba icocekile, njengaye wonke umntu endlini, sihlala sicocekile kwaye nevumba elibi lisikhathaza ukuze ucinge.
Molo Andrea.
Ndiyaluqonda udano lwakho, kodwa akufuneki ubethe ikati, kuba ngaloo ndlela ekuphela kwento efezekisiweyo kukuba ikoyike.
Ukusuka kwinto ocinga ukuba, inokuba unosulelo lomchamo, ke ndingacebisa ukuba ndimse kugqirha wezilwanyana. Utya ukutya okunjani? Ndiyakucela ngoba ukuba inee-cereal, eyona nto ingalunganga kukuyitshintsha ibe yenye engenayo, kuba iikati azinako ukuzicola (kwaye, enyanisweni, sesinye sezizathu eziphambili zosulelo lomchamo).
Ukuba kuyacaca ukuba usempilweni, kunokuba kunjalo ukuba unoxinzelelo kwaye ndinokucebisa ukuba ndifunde Oku kubhaliwe. Kodwa kuqala, ndiyanyanzelisa, kuyacetyiswa kakhulu ukuba ubone ukuba awunayo na intsholongwane.
Tyhila.
Ikati ifana nomntu, ayiyibethi, hayi, kodwa njengoko bekusoloko kusitsho, umamkeli zindwendwe ngexesha usombulula iingxaki ezininzi, engakhange akwenzakalise okanye akongamele, kule mihla akukwazi nokumpakaza umntwana wakho Kwaye ke abantwana beza ngaphandle, uninzi lwazo ngaphandle kwenhlonipho ngokwasentlalweni, ukungcola nokuhlukumeza, ukuba umama wabo wabaphosa isilayidi kubo ngelinye ixesha oko ngekhe kwenzeke, kunye nezilwanyana ngokufanayo, ayikuko ukubafundisa ngempama kodwa ukuba benza into enzulu okanye Phuma emgceni andiqondi ukuba ukubethwa ngempama kancinci kuya kumenzakalisa ukuba ayisosifundo sikhulu, kanye njengesifundo esisifundileyo okuninzi kubazali bethu phambi koluntu oluhle olwenze abahlukumezi ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwasengqondweni, enkulu njl.
Sawubona, uGerardo.
Andivumi.
Ikati sisilwanyana esisiswini, kwaye ukongeza kwindalo eyedwa. Abantu bazii-hominids, kwaye banentlalontle ngokwendalo.
Imfundo ekufuneka bayifumene yahlukile, kuba ngelixa ikati kufuneka ifunde ukuzingela ukuze iphile, umntu wangoku akenzi njalo.
Ndicinga ukuba iikati akufuneki zenziwe ngabantu, nokuba zezilungileyo okanye ezingalunganga kangako, kuba sahluke kakhulu.
Imibuliso kunye nombulelo ngengcaciso yakho!
NdinePepe iinyanga ezi-4 sihlala sodwa, uneminyaka emi-5, ndamthatha ndamfumana ubunzima botshintsho ekhaya, kwaye ngenxa yezizathu zomsebenzi nezokufunda uhlala ngaphezulu kweeyure ezili-3, uthathe umkhuba wokuchama izihlangu zam kwaye ziyandiluma kakhulu Ingathi ebenomsindo ngam, kwizikhewu endinaye ndiyavuma kakhulu ngeempelaveki andiphumi ndiye kuye
kodwa ndinexhala kuba akahlalisani kwaye uba ndlongondlongo xa kukho undwendwe, kufana nokuba unomona kwaye kuxa echama izihlangu zam ze xa edlala naye andilume.
Enye ingxaki endinayo ngenxa yezizathu zomsebenzi kufuneka ndithathe uhambo ngaphezulu kweentsuku ezisibhozo andazi nokuba ndimshiye nosisi bam abaneekati ezimbini okanye egadini okanye ndimthathe ndihambe naye. andifuni kumshiya yedwa.
Andazi ukuba kuyacetyiswa na ukuba kwamkelwe enye ikaka ukuze angaziva elilolo kwaye ehleli ngakumbi nabantu
ngenyameko enkosi
Molo uStella.
Ngawo onke ama-akhawunti, ikati yakho ifuna uzinzo kunye nesiqhelo.
Ukuthintela iingxaki zempilo (ezinje ngokusuleleka kumchamo), ndingacebisa ukuba ndimse kugqirha wezilwanyana ukuze ayoxilongwa, kuba oko sikholelwa ukuba kukumakisha luphawu lwe-cystitis (phakathi kwezinye izifo).
Awuyi kuyenza ibe nobuhlobo ngakumbi, kuba ikati nganye iyile nto iyiyo, kodwa kunokuba kuhle ukuba nenkampani ye-feline. Ukuba unako, thabatha ikati kwindawo yokuhlala okomzuzwana kwaye ubone ukuba iphendula njani. Vula Oku kubhaliwe ichaza indlela yokubonisa iikati ezimbini.
Kungcono ukwamkela kunokuba wamkele ngokuthe ngqo kuba, ukuba izinto zihamba gwenxa, ungasoloko uyibuyisela ikati ekhuselekileyo kwindawo yayo yokuhlala ngaphandle kwengxaki. Kodwa ewe, yiba nomonde.
A ubingelele.
Ndinekati eneenyanga ezintathu ubudala engazange ifumane umama ukusukela ekuzalweni kwayo. Inenekazi lamnika ibhotile de waba neenyanga ezimbini ubudala, kulapho ndathi ndamamkela. Ikatana iyadibana. Ingxaki yam kukuba ndicinga ukuba akaqondi xa simlungisa. Khange simngxolise okanye undibethe, ndiyamphazamisa ngesilwanyana sakhe esinezixhobo kodwa ufuna ukusiluma kunokutoyisa. Kuyafana nokukrwela. Ndimthatha entanyeni njengekati lekati, ndimthobise kwangoko aphinde andihlasele futhi ngokungxola ngokungathi ndimvuselele ngakumbi endaweni yokumnqanda. Ngaba unayo enye ingcebiso, into enje, umama wekati angamfundisa njani ukuba angamlumi kanzima?
Molo Chanty.
Sukuyiphatha ikati ngokungathi siyikati ... kuba asiyiyo 🙂. Ukuqinisekisa ukuba ayikulumi, into yokuqala kukuba ube nomonde omkhulu, kuba kuhlala kuthatha iiveki ezininzi ukubona iziphumo, kwaye okwesibini, yenza oku kulandelayo:
-Ukuba iyakuluma kwaye ungumzekelo esofeni, yihlise phantsi.
-Ukuba uyanyanzelisa, hlala kude naye. Ungayihoyi okwethutyana.
-Xa ezolile, mnike isilwanyana esifakiwe kwaye udlale naye ngaphandle kokwenza iintshukumo ngesiquphe.
Ke uya kuqonda ukuba xa ekuluma, ulahlekelwa ngumdla wakho. Kodwa ndiyanyanzelisa, kufuneka ubenomonde kakhulu, ngakumbi iikati ezisebancinci 🙂 Kodwa nyani, hlisa umoya kuba ngexesha elifutshane uyakufezekisa iziphumo.
Ukubulisa
Hola
Masibone ukuba ungandinceda na ingxaki ndinayo nekati yam, kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo kuye kwafuneka ndiyothatha ikati kuba umnikazi wayo wasweleka, ndinezinja ezimbini, ekuqaleni ikati yaqhelana ngokugqibeleleyo nezinja kwaye ziyevana kakuhle kakhulu, kodwa ngenxa yokuba inzalo, ikati ineenguqu ezinkulu kakhulu kunye neentsimbi, kukho amaxesha apho bayathandana, kodwa ezinye apho ikati ibangqubeka kuzo kwaye iba nobundlobongela kakhulu kubo, kodwa kuphela nabo thina bahlala ekhaya abanazo ezo mpendulo, kuphela xa sizama ukwahlula yena, masibone ukuba ungandinceda na kuba andifuni ukuba ndimlahle. Enkosi
Molo rosa.
Ngaphambi kokuba ulahle ikati yakho, ndincoma ukuba ubonane nonyango, njengoLaura Trillo umzekelo.
Un saludo
Ndiyavuma ngokupheleleyo, ngekhe sithethe ngokuxhatshazwa ukuba oko kwenzelwa ukufundisa, kwaye ngokucacileyo, ayibangeli ntlungu ... yoyikisa kangakanani? Ewe kunjalo, kodwa ngaphandle kokucaphuka, kunye nokuthelekisa ukukhala kukabawo kuchanekile, kwaye ndiyabulela koko ndaziqonda izinto ezininzi ngaphandle kokwenza ukoyikiswa okanye intiyo.
Yintoni eyenzekayo kukuba mva nje wonke umntu ulungisa izinto ngokunqula isilwanyana ... kwaye andiphikisani ukuba kufuneka uyithande, kodwa indoda ... basuka "kumhlobo osenyongweni" baya kumnini wendlu.
Ndifunde ngaphezulu ngentla ukuba xa ikuluma esofeni, yehlisa isilwanyana, kwaye ukuba inyanzelisa ukushiya nokuyiphepha? Ke ukuba ndibukele uthotho kwaye ikati iyandiluma, kufuneka ndishiye yonke into ndihambe? Uxolo ngokungazi kwam kodwa kubonakala ngathi akunakuhambelana nam, kwaye andiqondi ukuba izakusebenza njengesisombululo kwindlela yokuziphatha enekratshi, ukuyiphatha ngokungathi kulungile, ingathi ndimvile umama wam kwaye ndafumana ibhaso ukuphendula
Ukuba ufuna ukukhobokisa izilwanyana zakho, yenze, kodwa uyibize njalo, sukuyibiza ngokuba yimfundo.
Enkosi kwaye uzivalele yedwa
Molo Thomas.
Ingxaki ilele ekufuneni ukuqeqesha ikati ngokungathi ngumntu. Amakati ayingobantu kwaye abantu abazizo iikati.
Iikati azenzi izinto "ezingalunganga" zifuna ukukhathaza okanye ukukhubekisa abantu, kuba beyiqonda nje.
Imibuliso kwaye udlulise ukubekwa ngokwakho ngokwakho 🙂
Sawubona,
Ndinentshontsho lekati elalisakuba luphahla, uya kuba kunye nolo sapho iinyanga ezi-6 (ezintathu eluphahleni kunye ne-3 ngaphakathi endlwini), emva koko ndimlungelelanisile. Indlu yam iphangalele, inendawo yayo yokukrwela, igumbi lokuhlambela, ibhedi yayo phantsi (ayiphakamanga). Ingxaki kukuba xa ndidlala naye ngentonga yakhe yokuloba, utsibela emlenzeni wam andilume. Xa ndimphulula kwaye ndimkrwempa umva, uyakubakhona imizuzu emi-3 ukuze ayithande, emva koko alume ingalo yam ngamandla abaleke. Ngoku iya kuba nonyaka omnye kunye neenyanga ezi-2 malunga. Ucebisa ntoni kule meko? Enkosi.
Molo Kenny.
Kufuneka ube nomonde. Iikati, ngokubanzi, zizilwanyana eziya kukuvumela ukuba uziphathe imizuzwana embalwa, kude kube ngumzuzu. Kubalulekile ukuba uluqonde ulwimi lwabo lomzimba ukuze unxibelelwano phakathi kwakho lulungile. Apha sithetha ngayo.
Un saludo
Abantu abakholelwa ukuba ukubethwa akuncedi nto, ikwangabo bacinga ukuba abantwana abanakuchukunyiswa, ndiyababuza, kuba kukho iintolongo ukuba abantu bakrelekrele, kwaye nokuba umntu okrelekrele ufuna olo hlobo lokohlwaya ukuze afunde. Yiba nomfanekiso wesilwanyana esiphilayo nesibona umhlaba ngendlela eyahluke mpela kunathi. Abantu bahlala besithi abantu abasiqondi isizathu sokuba bababethe, kuba ndabaxelela ndisemncinci ndasiqonda kakuhle isizathu sokuba bandibethe kwaye lonto indenze ndangulomntu ndinguye namhlanje.
Molo david.
Awunakho ukuzenza ikati ngokwabantu, ngendlela efanayo ukuba awunakwenza ngathi umntu uyikati.
Sahluke kakhulu omnye komnye.
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Mholweni!!
Ndinexhala, ndiyakuxelela ukuba ndinekati evalelwe inzalo (Nanno) yeminyaka emithathu neenyanga ezisibhozo, kuba sisebenza neqabane lam wayechitha ixesha elininzi eyedwa, ngoko samkela ikati (Katy) ngoku babini kwaye. enesiqingatha seenyanga, uyasebenza kakhulu, siyamcela umngeni esithi akacaphuki kwaye ngamaxesha athile siqhwaba izandla ukuze amamele kwaye abe ngathi uyoyika kwaye akayenzi loo nto wayeyenza ngaloo mzuzu, but 5 or 10 minutes later aphinde enze into enye , siye sambetha nje kancinci andizolala emsileni but not strong but ithambile ikhatshwa nguhayi, simfefe ngamanzi, sapha. him toys and everything necessary akhonto singayenzanga but akahoyanga kwanto, utya qho, ufuna ukutya ukutya kwekati yam enkulu, xa ebona ukuba siyatya uyasiluma okanye uyasikrwempa. ukuze simnike into kwaye meows kakhulu. Akukho ndlela yokuba aqonde izinto de abe ngathi usisithulu kuba ingathi yonke into esiyithethayo kuye akayiva okanye akayiphenduli negama lakhe? Kwaye eyona ngxaki inkulu yeyokuba ikati yam enkulu yayizolile kwaye kuba wayeziva edakumbile kwaye enesithukuthezi, siye sabonisana nogqirha wezilwanyana kwaye wasicebisa ukuba sithathe intshontsho lekati ukuze lingaphindi libe njalo, ngazo zonke izilumkiso ngenxa yempilo yakhe. iingxaki zempilo siyamfuna simfumane umntu ohamba naye ogqibeleleyo utshintshe kakhulu ngoku akasafani nakuqala lonto indonwabisa kakhulu ngoba ngoku udlala kakhulu kodwa naye uyazonwaya izinto akandihoyi udlala ngaye. , they are super accepting, uyamvasa more, but not Utya kakhulu ngoku udlala ngoku uvuka phambi kwethu, into angayenzanga or akavukanga uba asivuki and he. uqala meowing phezulu kwiipaseji zendlu ngentseni ubaleka spider ukujula izinto njl. Ndiyaludinga nyani uncedo, andifuni ikati yam idandatheke ingadlali kodwa ayiphenduli nohayi wethu noba xa iqhawukile okanye ingalalanga sidinwe siyimfe kukungaphumli kakuhle?
Ndithini xa sele ndimthethisa? Uye waphelelwa bubuthongo, uthe xa egqiba walala wavuka wadlala eroomin ejula izinto, wavele wazichamela ebhedini yam, khange ndikwazi uzibamba ndambamba emqolo ndamkhwaza kakhulu. kungxola , emva kokuba ndimjule ebhedini, ndive kabuhlungu ? Ndingenza ntoni ukuze uphinde undithembe? Imane yenzekile kwiiyure ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo, kodwa ndiziva ngathi uyoyika?? nangona lisasondele kakhulu
Molo Demian.
Kufuneka sibe nomonde. Kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ikati idlale ebusuku, njengoko isilwanyana sasebusuku. Ukuze aphumle ngezo yure, kubalulekile ukudlala naye emini-xa evukile, kuyaqondwa-, ukuphosa ibhola elincinci okanye ukudlala ngentambo.
Inkalipho, ngokuqinisekileyo iya kudlula kancinci kancinci.
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