ʻO mākou āpau i ʻāpono a loaʻa i kahi pōpoki ma ke ʻano he ʻīlio pēpē i loaʻa i ka nahu ʻano ʻole. He maʻamau maʻamau kēia, mai ka hopena, hoʻohana pū nā keiki keiki i ko lākou mau niho e ʻimi i nā mea āpau a puni lākou. Akā ʻaʻole kēia he manaʻo e waiho mākou iā ia e nahu mai iā mākou; i ka 'oiaʻiʻo, He mea nui loa e aʻo iā ia ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hana ia mea iā mākou e pale i nā pilikia e kupu mai ana i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
Pehea e loaʻa ai? Me ka hoʻomanawanui, a me nā ʻōlelo aʻo aʻu e hāʻawi aku ai iā ʻoe ma lalo. ʻIke pehea e aʻo ai i kaʻu pōpoki mai nahu.
Mai ka lā mua i hoʻi mai ka pōpoki i ka home, pono ʻoe e pāʻani pū me ia me ka hoʻohana mau ʻana i kahi mea pāʻani: kahi huluhulu hulu, kaula, holoholona i hoʻopihapiha ʻia ..., a i ʻole nā mea a mākou e makemake ai (koe nā kaula, no ka mea ma hope e pāʻani me nā kāmaʻa , a ʻike i ka mea e haʻi iā ia ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hana 🙂). He mea nui loa ia e noʻonoʻo ai mākou i kēia: pono ke pāʻani ma waena o ka pōpoki a me kā mākou lima; I nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe, pono ia e lawelawe ma ke ʻano he "pale" o ka pale.
I kekahi hihia ʻaʻole ʻoe e kau i kahi holoholona ukana i waena o kona mau wāwae a neʻe neʻe aku mai kēlā ʻaoʻao a i kēlā ʻaoʻao, ʻoiai ʻo ka mea a mākou e hana ai e paipai iā ia e hoʻouka, ʻaʻole wale ka teddy, akā ʻo ka lima pū kekahi, no laila ke lilo ʻo ia i mākua e hana ʻo ia i kēia iā mākou.
Kekahi mea ʻeha nui. No laila, ma lalo o nā kumu āpau ʻaʻole mākou e hoʻoweliweli iā ʻoe inā ʻaʻole mākou e makemake iā ʻoe e hemo i kou mau kui a waiho i kou lima me ka ʻawahia a me ka nahu ʻana paha.
He aha e hana ai inā nahu mai ia iaʻu?
ʻO ka mea mua āu e hana ai ʻo ke ahonui. Inā no ke kumu no ka hopu ʻana i kou lima a loaʻa iā ia, e like me ka mea i ʻike ʻia ma ke kiʻi ma luna, ma waena o kona mau wāwae, pani iā ia a mai hana i kahi neʻe. Liʻiliʻi iki e mālie, a hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻōla. Ke loaʻa ʻoe, mai walaʻau iā ia a kuʻi paha iā ia, makehewa ia, e hoʻoweliweli wale iā ʻoe. E nānā wale iā ia, a ma hope o ʻelima a ʻumi mau minuke e hoʻomaka ai e pāʻani me ia me ka hoʻohana ʻana i kahi mea pāʻani.
Inā makemake ʻoe e hōʻalo i ka nahu ʻia ʻana, paipai wau e hana iā ia me ka mahalo, me ka mālie. ʻO nā pōpoki, ma ka laulā, he mau holoholona mālie, makemake ʻole i nā neʻe hikiwawe, no laila inā ʻaʻole mākou e makemake e nahu ʻia, maʻalahi ia e noho mālie.
Hui! I hoʻokahi mahina i hala aku nei ua hānai wau i kahi pōpoki ma kahi o 4 mau makahiki a he ʻano maʻamau ke nahu e like me ka kiʻi. Hoʻomaʻo wau e hōʻoki iā ia akā hoʻomau ʻo ia me ka maʻamau like, he aha kaʻu e hana ai !!!
Aloha Virginia.
E hoʻomanawanui ʻoe. I nā manawa a pau e hoʻāʻo e nahu iā ʻoe, hāʻawi iā ia i kahi mea pāʻani, a i ʻole hele wāwae.
ʻAʻole liʻuliʻu e aʻo ʻoe ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe.
A aloha.
Aloha .... he maʻamau no ka pōpoki olakino. hiamoe nui …… mahalo
Aloha Danelly.
Inā ʻoe e hiamoe ma waena o 16 a 18 mau hola, he maʻamau 🙂
A aloha.
ʻĀ, ua maʻa wau i kaʻu. Ke liʻiliʻi lākou, makemake kekahi o lākou e pāʻani me nā mea āpau a lākou e loaʻa ai, a ʻoiai, ʻo ka lima kekahi mea pāʻani a pili pū kekahi, ʻae wau iā lākou e hana, ʻo ia ko lākou instinc, ua like ia me ka haʻi ʻana i kahi hawk e lele, akā ʻaʻole kiʻekiʻe loa. Hoʻopaʻa hou kekahi i ko lākou mau niho, lawe kekahi i waho a i ʻole nā kui mai nā wāwae hope ... akā hey, e haʻi wau iā ʻoe e! Auē! e hoʻolilo ʻoe iaʻu i pēpē ... a laila, noho mālie ʻo ia, nānā ʻo ia iaʻu a hoʻomau i ka nahu, akā ʻo ka looser haha, hana pēpē ʻīlio, hoʻopilikia lākou i ko lākou niho ke puka / ulu.
ʻO kekahi mea e hele mai ka makuahine e pale i kāna keiki. I kēia lā wale nō, ua lohe wau i ka hoʻopiʻi ʻana o kahi keiki pipi, ua ʻike ʻia ua paʻa kekahi o kona mau wāwae i ke kaula e paʻa ana i ka uhi o kahi scraper tube kiola iā ia no ka mea hiki ʻole ke holoi iā ia i loko o loko, a ʻo ka paipu paʻa / scraper / puka komo i hele pū me ia e ʻaneʻane piha i ka ʻūlū o kaʻu keiki), no ka mea ʻoiai e wehe ana au i ke kaula mai kona ʻūlū, eia naʻe ke namunamu nei (mahalo nō. ma laila e "hoʻopakele" iā ia) a holo maila kāna pōpoki makuahine e ʻike i nā mea e hana nei, a nahu maila ka mea ʻilihune i koʻu lima, me ka hōʻeha ʻole iaʻu, me he mea lā e ʻōlelo ana, He aha kāu hana i kaʻu keiki?
Maliʻa paha maʻa wau e pāʻani me koʻu lima i kuʻu wā kamaliʻi, ʻoiai he nibples (ʻelua) o ka ʻōlelo aʻo wale nō. ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu, mea aʻu.
I kēia lā, e hāʻawi mākou i ka helu keiki 18, pehea koʻu maikaʻi / maikaʻi. Nā manaʻo hoʻohuihui. Maikaʻi no ka mea e hāʻawi mākou i kahi «keiki» keiki (he nani makamae ia, ʻo Siamese e like me ka albino, nā ʻāpana e ʻeleʻele, he vanilla / a pink), he aloha nui a pāʻani hoʻi, i kahi kaikamahine kūikawā pū kekahi, no ka mea he kumuhana ola. Maikaʻi no kou aloha iā lākou a hana ʻia kahi paʻa.
Lana koʻu manaʻo aloha ʻoe iā ia e like me aʻu.
Aloha, i kekahi mau pō e hele aku kaʻu keiki i luna o kahi moe ma luna o kahi hoʻouka, e lele ana ma luna o ka duvet a hoʻopau i ka hāʻawi ʻana iaʻu i nā nahu ʻeha loa ma koʻu mau lima a me nā lima. Hoʻokomo ʻo kāna ʻāʻī iaʻu i loko. He aha kaʻu e hana ai? Mahalo.
Aloha e Laura.
Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i kēia manawa, paipai wau iā ʻoe e pāʻani pū me ia i loko o ka lā, me kahi kaula a i ʻole kinipōpō. Inā luhi ʻo ia, paʻakikī ia e nahu.
I kekahi hihia, inā nahu ʻoe iā ʻoe, pono ʻoe e waiho i kou lima, ka lima (a i ʻole nā mea e nahu iā ʻoe 🙂) i hiki ke hiki a hiki i ka wā e hoʻokuʻu ai ka ikaika o ka nahu. A laila e hemo mālie.
He mea nui nō hoʻi e hōʻalo i ka pāʻani ʻana me ia, a ma mua o nā mea āpau ʻaʻole e hoʻohana i kou mau lima a me kou mau wāwae i mea pāʻani. E hoʻomaopopo iki ʻia ʻaʻole nā mea pāʻani kēia.
Aloha.
Ua kiʻi wale wau i kahi kiʻi o lākou, kēia nani, me kāna clone, e hānai pū ana me kona makuahine (he 2 a me ka hapalua ko lākou mau makahiki). E hala ana ʻo ia i kēia mau manawa a me nā mea āna e hoʻolilo pāʻani ai me kona mau hoahānau. Akā i ka hoʻihoʻi e loaʻa iā ia ka nui o ke aloha kanaka a me nā mea āpau nona.
Mālama pono ia 🙂. E hauʻoli!!
Ua ʻohi au i kahi keiki keiki hou a hānai mākou iā ia a hiki i ka ikaika, i kēia manawa wale nō ka nahu ʻana i nā lima, nā lima, nā wāwae, a me nā wāwae e mālama mau ʻia me ke aloha a nahu wale mai iaʻu, ʻaʻole kaʻu kāne. Loaʻa iaʻu kahi pōpoki ʻelemakule ʻo ia ka hoʻopakele liʻiliʻi like a ʻoluʻolu loa ia, hiamoe ʻo ia me aʻu, luku kekahi i kaʻu pepa lua, wāwahi i nā ʻeke nylon, me ka ʻōlelo ʻole e hoʻopilikia ana i ka pōpoki a me kaʻu ʻīlio, hana wau ʻaʻole ʻike i ka mea e hana ai no kēlā mea mai nahu, no ka mea, ua waiho ʻia iaʻu i nā welu he nui ma nā lima ʻelua
Aloha Lina.
Ke ʻike ʻoe i ka nahu ʻana iā ʻoe, e hoʻōki i ka pāʻani, a waiho i kekahi mau minuke a hiki i ka wā e mālie ai ia. Pāʻani mau me kahi mea pāʻani - ʻaʻole loa me kou mau lima - i nā manawa he nui i ka lā. Pono kēlā me kēia kau ma kahi o 10 mau minuke.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke kūkākūkā pū me kahi therapist feline, e like me Laura Trillo (mai therapfelina.com).
A aloha.