ʻO ka mea maʻamau, makemake wau e hoʻohui i nā mea olakino feline me nā mea ʻimi ʻē aʻe; ʻoiai hiki iaʻu ke hiki no ka mea makemake wau e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā kumuhana e hiki ai iā mākou ke minoʻaka. Akā ʻaʻole kēia he blog piha inā ʻaʻole ia e kamaʻilio pū e pili ana i ka hana ʻino i nā pōpoki.
A ʻo ia nō, ma ke ala like aʻu e hoʻāʻo ai e hōʻike, no ka laʻana, ke olakino o kēia holoholona, he mea nui nō hoʻi ia e hoʻolōʻihi iki i ka hoʻomanaʻo ʻana i ka hana ʻino ʻana o kahi pōpoki (a ʻīlio paha, a lio paha, a i ʻole ... a me nā mea ʻē aʻe) pāpā ʻia e ke kānāwai. Inā makemake ʻoe e ʻike pehea e kōkua ai i ka feline i loaʻa i kēia ʻino, a laila e haʻi wau iā ʻoe i nā mea āpau āu e hiki ai ke hana nona.
ʻO
He aha ka hoʻomāinoino?
ʻO ka hōʻino ka hana kolohe e hōʻeha ai i ke kino a i ʻole ke ola kino. ʻEhā ʻano i ka hihia o nā pōpoki:
- Ke kino: hahau iā ia, keʻehi iā ia ...
- ʻO Verbal: walaʻau iā ia. Hoʻomanaʻo i kēlā hoʻomohala nui ʻia ka pepeiao o ka pōpoki: hiki ke lohe i ke kani o ka ʻiole mai 7 mau mika.
- Kālā: ʻo kahi laʻana, ke kihi ʻana iā ia i kahi kihi a haʻalele ʻole i kahi ala e pakele ai.
- E mālama iā ia: e waiho ma ka home a mai hāʻawi iā ia i ka meaʻai a inu paha, a lawe paha i ka vet inā pono ʻoe, a pāʻani paha me ia, a i ʻole kekahi mea.
E maopopo iā mākou āpau e hana nui kekahi o kēia mau mea, nui ka hōʻino i ka holoholona.
No ke aha lākou e hoʻomāinoino nei iā lākou?
No kekahi o mākou, ka poʻe aloha i kā mākou mau pōpoki a makemake i ka mea maikaʻi loa na lākou, paʻakikī loa iā mākou e loaʻa i ka pane i kēlā nīnau, ʻoiai ua manaʻo kekahi o mākou ʻaʻohe kumu e hoʻomāinoino ai i nā pōpoki. A he ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻohe kumu kūpono a kumu kūpono paha e hōʻoia i kēia hana.
Akā he kanaka paʻakikī nā kānaka. A aia kekahi poʻe i maʻalahi nui loa, ʻaʻole ʻike pehea e kaohi ai i kā lākou impulses a i ʻole, ʻaʻole nānā lākou i kekahi mea a i ʻole kekahi.
Koi aku au, paʻakikī loa iaʻu e ʻike i nā kumu o ka hana ʻino ʻana i nā pōpoki, ʻoiai ʻaʻole wau he psychologist a psychiatrist paha. Hoʻokahi wale nō mea e mālama nei i kēia mau felines no ka manawa lōʻihi. Akā auwe, e hoʻāʻo wau:
- Ua hoʻomāinoino ʻia kēlā kanaka i kona wā kamaliʻi. ʻIke ʻia e hoʻohālikelike nā keiki a ka poʻe hōʻino i nā ʻano o ko lākou mau mākua ke lilo lākou i poʻe mākua.
- ʻAʻole haʻi kona mau mākua iā ia e mālama pono i nā holoholona.
- He mau mākua kāna i haʻalele ʻole iā ia.
- Hoʻohana ʻoe i nā lāʻau e hoʻonāukiuki ai iā ʻoe.
- Ua hoʻololi ʻo ia i kona makaʻu i nā pōpoki i ka inaina a me ka huhū.
Pehea e ʻike ai inā ua lawe mākou i kahi pōpoki i kuʻi ʻia?
I kēia manawa e nānā mākou i ka makana a me ka wā e hiki mai ana o kēlā pōpoki a mākou i lawe wale ai. ʻO ka puʻuhonua a i ʻole ka puʻuhonua i haʻi mua iā mākou i kāna moʻolelo, akā inā ʻaʻole ... pehea mākou e ʻike ai inā ua hana ʻino ʻia ʻo ia? He aha kā mākou e nānā ai?
- E mālama ʻia ʻo ia. Mai ka lā mua o kona hoʻi ʻana i ka home, ʻike mākou he ʻeleu loa ʻo ia, peʻe ʻo ia i kēlā me kēia kihi ke ʻike ʻo ia iā mākou e ʻohi i ka broom a i ʻole ka mop, a haʻalulu paha ke ʻike ʻia ke kihi.
- Inā mākou e hāʻule hāʻule ʻole i kekahi mea ma ka papahele a kani ka halulu, hiki iā ia ke kiʻi ma lalo o kahi moe, ma hope o nā pale sofa a i ʻole ma lalo o nā kapa moe.
- ʻIke nui ʻo ia i nā puka aniani a me nā puka, me he mea lā ke kali nei no kahi manawa kūpono e haʻalele i ka hale.
- Makaʻu paha ʻoe i kahi ʻano kikoʻī o ke kanaka (keikikāne a kaikamahine paha, wahine a kāne paha).
He aha e hana ai e kōkua iā ʻoe?
Inā manaʻo mākou ua hoʻomāinoino ʻia ʻo ia, pono mākou e hana i nā mea āpau i ko mākou mana e loaʻa hou ka hauʻoli (a i ʻole e hoʻomaka e ʻike, inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia i hana ʻia.) ʻO ka mea mua loa ka mālama paʻa i nā puka a me nā puka aniani, ʻelua no kou palekana a no ka maluhia o ka noʻonoʻo. ʻAʻole ia he manaʻo maikaʻi e hoʻokuʻu iā ia e hele i waho i ka pāpale, no ka mea i kekahi ʻano pilikia hiki iā ia ke hoʻopoina i kona wahi a hāʻule i ka ʻole.
ʻO ka aʻe hana aʻe e hōʻoia i ka lewa o ka lewa ma ka home. Kuhi kēia ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hoʻokani i ke mele ma ke kani piha (ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole pono ke hoʻokani iā ia ke kūpono), wehewehe i nā keiki e mahalo nui lākou me ka pōpoki a, ʻoiai, mai hoʻoikaika i ka huluhulu e hana i kekahi mea makemake ʻole ʻo ia.
Ano, ʻO ka manawa kēia e hilinaʻi ai. Pehea? Me nā mea ʻono a me nā kini o ka meaʻai pulu. Pono ʻoe e lanakila iā ia ma o ka ʻōpū! ʻO ia ka ʻoi. ʻOiaʻiʻo, e hana wale nō mākou ke ʻike ia ʻoi aku ka mālie, ʻoiai ʻaʻole makemake kahi pōpoki e pīhoihoi e ʻai, akā holo ʻē. No laila, e hoʻohana mākou i kēlā mau manawa i ka mea me he mea ʻoi aku ka mālie, ʻaʻole e hū a walaʻau paha, e hāʻawi i ka meaʻai iā ia. ʻAʻole mākou e kali iā ia e hele i waho e ʻai; ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, loaʻa nā manawa, ʻo nā manawa mua ʻaʻole ia. Akā liʻiliʻi e ʻike mākou i ka hoʻomaikaʻi. 🙂
Eia kekahi, pono mākou e kono iā ia e pāʻani, me nā kinipōpō, nā kaula a i ʻole nā holoholona i ukuhi ʻia. Me kēia, hiki iā mākou ke ʻike he ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī iā ia ke hoʻokokoke aku, akā he hoʻomanawanui ia.
No ka ʻike hou aku, paipai wau e heluhelu kēia ʻatikala.
A i kēia manawa ʻaʻohe mea ʻē aʻe. Inā ʻike mākou he pilikia ko ka pōpoki i ka hoʻololi ʻana i kona home hou, hiki iā mākou ke kau i 10 mau kulu o ka hoʻōla hoʻopakele (mai nā Bach's Flowers) i loko o kāna meaʻai - i kēlā me kēia lā, a e kūkākūkā pū me kahi feline therapist e hana maikaʻi.
Mai Noti Gatos, ʻōlelo mākou i kahi kūpaʻa a kani ʻole NO i ka hoʻomāinoino holoholona.
Nui koʻu hoihoi i kāu mau ʻatikala mai ka wā i lawe wale wau i hoʻokahi. Keiki keiki 2 mahina a ke kōkua nui nei lākou iaʻu
Hauʻoli mākou i ko lākou kōkua iā ʻoe 🙂
Nanea i ka mea liʻiliʻi!
He hana hoʻomāinoino inā ninini koʻu makuahine i ka pipi i hana ʻole? ʻO ia i kekahi mau lā i hala aku nei, ua hele mai kahi pōpoki i koʻu hale, a hiamoe wale nō i loko o koʻu hale kaʻa, a hele aku koʻu makuahine a ninini wai iā ia, a 'ōleloʻo ia i ka manawa hou e nininiʻo ia i ka wai wela ma luna ona a meaʻona paha iā ia, ʻo kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole wau eʻae, ʻaʻole hoʻonāukiuki ka pōpoki, akā makemake koʻu makuahine e holo.
Hello!
Aia kekahi mau ala ʻē aʻe e kipaku ai iā lākou, e like me ka holo ʻana ma hope o lākou a hiki i ko lākou haʻalele ʻana i ka hale a i ʻole māla, a i ʻole ka walaʻau nui ʻana.
Ma ke ala, ʻaʻole maopopo iaʻu no hea ʻoe, akā i nā manawa he nui, he lawehala nā holoholona ʻona. E akahele, ʻaʻole wau e haʻi aku iā ʻoe i kekahi mea i kikoʻī; e hoʻomanaʻo wale ʻoe i kēlā, okay?
He humu 🙂
ʻĀ, hoihoi loa, ua hānai wau i kahi keiki keiki i hoʻokahi makahiki i hala aku nei, ua hana ʻino ʻia ʻo ia, ua make kāna keiki ma lalo o kahi kaʻina lōʻihi i mea e hilinaʻi hou ai ʻo ia i ka hoʻomaka, ua hūnā ʻo ia a ʻaʻole i koi iā ia e puka i waho o kāna wahi hūnā. a i kēia lā hiki iaʻu ke haʻi e puka pinepine ʻo ia i kona hele ʻana i ka lua. Moe ʻo ia i ka moena a ke hoʻomau nei mākou i ka hana e ʻae iā ia e noʻonoʻo
Aloha Jennifer.
Lohi. ʻO ke ahonui a me ka mahalo i ka hopena e lawe mai i nā mea maikaʻi ke hiki mai i nā pōpoki. 🙂
Mahalo nui no ka hiki ʻana i kēlā kiko, kahi i ʻoluʻolu ai ke keiki.
Aloha.
Aloha Monica, e kipa aku i kēia blog no ka mea he keiki keiki kaʻu a ʻike wau i ka hoʻopaʻi pinepine ʻana o kaʻu ʻano aʻo. Noho wau i kahi manawa nui me ia, pāʻani nui mākou, hiamoe pū mākou, a i kēlā me kēia manawa ke hāʻawi wau iā ia i nā mea ʻono e ʻai ai. ʻO ka pilikia ma ka nānā ʻole i koʻu aloha iā ia, he asshole wau me ka paʻa ʻole o ka noʻonoʻo, a ke hana ʻo ia i nā mea e like me ka ʻōpala ʻōpala a puni ka lumi a wāwahi paha i nā kīʻaha ke hiamoe wau no kahi laʻana, makemake wau e lilo ka mana a hopu. iā ia e ka ʻili. koe mai hope a kaomi iā ia i ʻeha ke huki iā ia. ʻIke wau i ka hana maikaʻi ʻole o kaʻu hana, a ʻoiai wau e hoʻāʻo nei e holomua i mea e lilo ai i kanaka ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, (kahi hana aʻu e hana maikaʻi nei, akā nele wau i ka manawa), makemake wau e ʻike i ka mea nui ke ala kūpono e hiki ai ke aʻo iā ia me ka hana ʻole iā ia i kahi manawa maikaʻi ʻole. Kali wau i kāu pane mahalo.
Kiola iā lākou no ka mea maʻalahi o ka hiamoe ʻana i ka hale kaʻa? ʻAno minamina kēlā ʻano.
Ke wiwo ʻole nei ka naʻaupō a hopohopo nui ia e hiki ai i ka poʻe noʻonoʻo ʻole ke hana ʻino i kahi mea ola me ka ʻole o nā hopena.
Pono ia i nā ʻāina āpau e hoʻoponopono ʻia i ke kānāwai a lawe ʻia nā hana e nā luna e hōʻemi i kēia ʻano hanana.
ʻO mākou ka mea hoʻolaʻa i ka mālama a me ka hoʻolaha ʻana o ka ʻike e pili ana i ka honua o nā pōpoki pono e lilo i hoʻokahi o nā laina pale mua ma o ka haʻi ʻana e hoʻāʻo e hakakā i ka maʻi ʻaʻai o ka naʻaupō.
Mahalo nui no kāu ʻatikala, kōkua ʻoe i ka hana ʻana i ke ao holoʻokoʻa.
E nānā koke iā ʻoe iho i kou pilikia, akā mai waiho i ka pōpoki e uku i nā hopena o kou kūlana noʻonoʻo, he mea kūpono ʻole ia iaʻu, he aha ka hewa o ka holoholona no kou pilikia? A inā ʻoe e ʻāpono nei, mai loaʻa nā holoholona, nā holoholona hoahele i ke aloha a mākou a pau, ka mahalo a me ke olakino, e hana ʻo ia ia mea nāu, ʻaʻohe o nā holoholona inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻike ʻia a mālama ʻia.