What to do if the cat urinates on the bed

Cat and human

Has your cat done what he shouldn't have done in bed? Although "surprises" are to some extent normal if it is a kitten that is learning to relieve itself, if it is an adult it's more than enough reason to worryWell, there comes a time in the life of every domestic feline when they learn to use their litter box, and when they don't, it's because something happens to them.

So let's see what to do if the cat wets the bed.

Cats are very demanding animals

1.- Do not scold him

It is easy to feel a little bad, and even angry, when the cat does his business in bed, but in addition to making us feel bad in reality it won't do any good to scold himas he will not associate the anger with what he has done since it has probably been a long time.

In addition, you don't have to hit or yell at him either, never. Doing so will only make him fear us.

2.- Observe it

Yes, watch it. He checks to see if he can go to his litter box to relieve himself normally and effortlessly. In the event that you see that it costs you, that you feel pain and / or itching, that you have problems of some kind or that there is blood in the urine and / or feces, it is very important that you take him to the vet for examination, as you may have an infection.

3.- Clean the litter box

The cat is a very clean animal that will not relieve itself in the litter box if it is dirty. Therefore, it is convenient remove stools daily and clean the tray at least once a week. Depending on the sand for cats that your furry uses, you can refill the tray with it for up to a month.

4.- Release stress

In addition to being clean, it is also very sensitive. If the family environment is tense, or if the animal is stressed, the normal thing is that it does its needs where it can. So if you are going through a bad time, do not hesitate to go for a walk, exercise, or do what you like the most to get calm. Your four-legged friend will thank you, and you will both live better 😉.

Why does your cat urinate on your bed

Cats are very clean animals

In addition to knowing how to proceed, it is important that you understand why your cat is wetting the bed. If you understand their behavior, it will be easier to know how to act so that they stop doing that behavior. It can be one of the most frustrating things that can happen to you as a cat owner - your cat is urinating on your bed. Why do cats do this and what can you do to stop it?

Cats that urinate inappropriately may have a medical problem

The first thing to consider whenever your cat is urinating outside of the litter box is that he may have a medical problem. Urinary tract infection, diabetes, and kidney disease are common conditions in cats that can cause an inability to reach the litter box or an aversion to using the litter box. If your cat urinates on his bed or anywhere other than the litter box, see the vet in case he has a problem.

Stress and anxiety can cause inappropriate urination

After medical conditions, stress and anxiety are the most common causes of inappropriate urination in cats. Cats can be stressed or anxious about many things that humans might not immediately recognize. 

Poor litter box conditions are the main causes for some cats. A box that is not kept clean enough, is in a place that does not feel safe for the kitten, or contains litter that is objectionable to the cat, are stressful situations for a fussy feline, and are all reasons to urinate on another side. To avoid this, follow the following tips:

  • Make sure to take out the litter box several times a day, empty and wash the box with warm soapy water weekly, and replace the box every six months.
  • Keep as many litter boxes as you have cats. Cats do not like to urinate in dirty litter boxes, and if you don't have enough boxes, they are sure to get dirty quickly.
  • Keep at least one litter box on every floor in your home. Cats may not be willing or able to travel too far looking for a box when they have to go.
  • Do not place the litter box in an area with loud noises, heavy traffic, or where a cat could be "trapped" by a dog or other feline companions.
  • Cats can also be stressed by the addition of new family members. (human, feline or canine), a change in the schedule of humans in the home, visitors or construction or other nerve center in the home.

Your cat might miss you

If you have a change in his schedule or suddenly you don't spend as much time interacting with your cat as you used to, he might urinate on your side of the bed as a way to cope. Combining her scent with yours could help her feel closer to you in your absence.

Your kitty is not being spiteful

Many people naturally assume that a cat urinating on their bed is doing so out of spite; that he is angry about something and trying to get revenge on his owner. This is not the case. Rather, your cat is simply trying to cope with something, be it a medical condition or some kind of stressful situation, and felines cope differently from humans.

What else should you keep in mind

Cats may have a health problem

In addition to what was discussed above, we are going to give you some more tips to end this problem, but remember that scolding him is not the solution. Treat your feline with affection and all the love it deserves. The tips are:

  • Take your cat to the vet. First, you should take your cat to the vet to rule out any medical problems, such as kidney problems or a urinary tract infection. I know this is not what you want to hear, vet bills are expensive, but sometimes a cat pees in bed (or on the couch or clothes) because it is in pain and urinating on a soft surface relieves that pain. If urinating is not "medical," then it is "behavioral" that is more difficult to determine. Therefore, by ruling out any medical problems, you can begin to focus on behavioral problems.
  • Eliminate the stressor. If you have determined that the problem is behavioral, try to eliminate the stressor.
  • Sandbox. Cats are picky about their litter boxes. Keep them clean and in a suitable place for him to relieve himself without feeling nervous.
  • Eliminate the smell of urine. If the cat continues to smell pee, it will continue to urinate there. You should remove the smell of urine from any surface where the cat has urinated. Use specific products for this, talk to your veterinarian for advice.
  • Mattress protectors. If your cat is urinating on your bed, buy a mattress protector! The sheets can be washed, but the mattress is more difficult to clean. A mattress protector will save you money in the long run. Have a mattress protector on each single bed and even pillow covers.
  • Toys. Make the bed a place to play. Buy your cat toys to stimulate him mentally and make him feel happy so that he can associate the bed with a fun activity and not with his own personal litter box. Toys like the teaser pen on a stick, the laser pointer, etc. They are great and you can always spray the toys with a little catnip spray to get the cat's initial interest.
  • Close the door. Obviously, close the bedroom door if you can. Cats are notorious for banging on doors and meowing loudly when a door is closed, so if you can close the door until you know how to fix the problem it will be good for everyone.

You should never treat a cat badly; He would never do.

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